Ukumanga kungenye yezinto zokuthinta ezithinta kuqala lapho, uma kungenjalo konke, kuxhomeke, okuningi kubudlelwane. Kuyini isono ukufihla, uma ukuqala kokuqala kokungazange kuphumelele, akuzange kubangele ubumnandi kubo bobabili abalingani, kukhona amathuba okuba umhlangano olandelayo awunakwenzeka nhlobo. Kodwa umuntu angafunda kanjani ukumanga ngendlela efanele futhi lokhu kungenziwa ngokutadisha inkolelo ye-naked?
Nikeza ukunakekelwa okukhulu kule senzo esondelene.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukumanga kokuqala kwakukhono, ukuqala kokuqala kuncike kulo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubudlelwano obuseduze phakathi kwabantu buzoqhubeka nokuthuthukisa esikhathini esizayo. Lokhu akumangalisi, ngoba kunzima ukucabanga ukuthi othile uvumelane ukwenza izinhlelo zokuphila okuqhubekayo u-Spartner, okungazange akhiphe injabulo.
Kodwa ukuze ufunde ukuthi ungamanga kanjani ngendlela efanele, akwanele ukutadisha inkolelo noma ukuqhuba ucwaningo lwabangani nabangane. Ukuzivocavoca kubonisa ukuthi ukumanga kuyindaba eqondene nomuntu siqu futhi uma umuntu ethanda ukuthinta izindebe, abanye bakuthanda ukujabulela ubuso lwesiFulentshi bese bebheka ukuthi kuyakhuthaza kakhulu. Kodwa uma unomkhuba othile kule ndaba ebuseduze, kodwa ungathanda ukuthuthukisa amanye amakhono, izinto zethu zizosiza kulokhu.
Inkinga enkulu yamantombazane namantombazane amancane yilokho ukwesaba ukuthi akukho lutho oluzovela. Ukwesaba kuyinto engalungile engaphazamisa ngisho nobuhlobo obunothando kakhulu phakathi kwabantu, ubaphendulele emagqumeni anamathelethi, okusemkhathini obaluleke kakhulu, akhohlwe lokho okudingekayo kubo.
Ukuze ususe ama-otmniemyh ukwesaba, kuningi ukuphefumula okujulile okwanele. Enye akuyona into ebi kunazo zonke - ukutshela enye ingxenye ngesaba. Mhlawumbe intombazane yakho noma intombazane ibhekene nakho okufanayo, futhi uzoqiniseka ukuthi akukho lutho olubi kulokhu. Ngikholelwa, kulula kakhulu ukuxazulula inkinga ndawonye. Yebo, futhi emva kokuxoxwa okuningiliziwe ngesimo, kungase kuvele ngokucacile ukuthi azikho izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi-azikho i-tonic-zonke zikhulelwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuqashelwa okunjalo kuzosiza ukuqinisa ukwethenjwa okunzima kakhulu ukunqoba ezinsukwini zokuqala.
Ubusuku bokuqala ubaluleke kakhulu.
Uma umuntu ozohlala naye, kufanele ubambe okokuqala, ngoba lokhu kusondelana kungcono ukukhetha indawo yothando, okuyinto esikhathini esizayo, mhlawumbe, ozotshela izingane zakho. Ukuqasha okokuqala emphakathini - okungavumelekile okuningi, nekhoneni elingasese, isibonelo, ibhentshi elikude epaki yekwindla - yilokho okudingayo.
Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi njengokungathi babengafundi ngokusho kobuchwepheshe, uma bengabeka izimvo ngoku kiss, ngeke balethe injabulo ye-tonic.
Naphezu kokuthi abanye bathanda izinkanuko ezithandwayo kuphela, uma uthinta izindebe zomlingani okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuthi usebenze ngokuzikhandla kwakho, ngoba ukukhukhumeza okukhulu nokucindezela ngokuvamile kuvame ukwenza isenzo socansi se-gibberish. Uma ungakakulungele lokhu kuthuthukiswa kwezehlakalo, gwema ukuphefumula kwama-caresses.
Ukuqala kokuqala ngokwakho kuyisenzo esithakazelisayo kakhulu-zama ukuzigcina uzizwa ngaleyo mizwa, kufanelekile kakhulu. Ukuqala ukulangazelela kungcono ukuthinta kahle izindebe zomlingani, ukungafani ngokumangaza phezulu, khona-ke intombazane engezansi yiyona okuthiwa inguqulo ye-classic.
Injabulo enkulu kakhulu ilethwa ukumanga ngokuqapha ngezindebe ezikhululekile, lapho umlingani ekwazi ukuzwa khona konke ukubekezela okwamanje. Ukumanga kufana nomdlalo lapho bobabili abadlali babelana khona ngokubaluleka okubalulekile, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukulandela ukusabela komuntu, ukuzama ukuzwa ukuthi yiziphi izenzo azithandayo nokuthi yiziphi angazithandi. Uma ubona ukuthi konke ongakwenzayo kujabulisa, ungaya kwi-caresses esondelene kakhulu, isibonelo, sebenzisa ulimi uma ubanga.
Ukulungiselela kwangaphambili.
Ukufika ngosuku, into yokuqala okudingeka uyiqonde ukuphefumula okusha. Futhi uma uhlanza amazinyo ngaphambi kokuba uphume, futhi emva kwengxenye yehora ungakhonakala ngokungajabuli emlonyeni wakho, sebenzisa izindlela zanamuhla ezifana nezitshalo zokugcoba, izipuni ezikhethekile.
Iphuzu lesibini elibalulekile okufanele ulalele yilona isikhumba sezindebe zakho. Uma eyomile futhi ephukile, ngeke kube mnandi ukuwanga. Ukuze wenze izindebe zakho zibukeke kahle, kuzokwanela ukusebenzisa amathuluzi afana ne-balm ekhethekile noma isicoco se-lipstick.
Yilokho okudingayo ukuze ubambe okuhle, ngaphandle kokungeke ube nelusuku oluhle.