Ingabe lobu buhlobo

Abangane kudingeka, nabo ungadla udoti kasawoti, futhi ungakwazi ukuhamba ngamapayipi wezethusi, umlilo noma amanzi. Umngane uzokusiza ekuhluphekeni futhi usize ngesikhathi esinzima, usize ukudlula ubusuku obunesizungu futhi unikeze iseluleko esihle. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi ubungane abufani nalokho okuqhubekayo kuhlabelelwa izingoma namavesi. Kuthiwani uma umngane wakho engumuthi oyedwa oyinhloko?

Umngani etafuleni elibekiwe.
Kuphinde kwenzeke ukuthi umuntu ubonisa ububele bakhe, unesithakazelo esiqotho empilweni yakho, unikeza usizo, kodwa uma umvumela empilweni yakho, konke ngokuzumayo kushintshana kakhulu. Ebudlelwaneni bakho akukho lutho olungafanelekela njenge "mahhala". Intombi yakho idinga ukuvuma ukukhokha, kodwa ayibuyiseli izikweletu. Kubonakala sengathi i-blouse yakho entsha ihlezi kuwe ngendlela engavamile, kodwa kuye ... Ufuna usizo lomyeni wakho ekuhleleni umsebenzi omusha, kungenjalo ngeke kube khona okuphakelayo ikati. Uhlale nonogogo ongekho futhi udinga imali yemithi. Yebo, awukwazi!
Futhi uma engadingi imali, khona-ke uzokucela ukuba umthathe ebhizinisini ebaluleke kakhulu, iphepha lokunamathisela noma into. Inkulumo mayelana nesifiso sobunye sokusiza, yebo, akunjalo.
Mbheke ngokucophelela. Uyabona umuntu oswele ngempela obhekana nobunzima besikhashana futhi ezama ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe ngesekusize noma ngabe umuntu ofuna ukuthi zonke izinkinga zakhe zixazululwe nguwe kuphela? Uma uqiniseka ukuthi ngaphambi kwakho leech evamile, elinde kuphela, ukuthi uhlale entanyeni yomuntu, ungalibali, ulilahle!
Okokuqala, kunezizathu eziphoqelela ukumphika esinye isicelo futhi uzizwise. Uma intombi isaphikelela, nikeza ukushintshaniswa. Uya esitolo sakhe kuye, futhi ugeza izitsha endlini yakho ngalesi sikhathi. Akavumelani? Unelungelo lokucasuka futhi ngalesi sizinda ukuvimba ubuhlobo. Ngakho i-leech noma ukuzilimaza, noma uzokhathalela ukukusebenzisa esikhathini esizayo.

Umngane ovela kwelinye izwe.
Futhi lokhu akuvamile. Emphilweni yakho, intombazane ingabonakala, ehamba kahle ngokwanele ekuqaleni, kodwa-ke kuvela ukuthi yonke into ayithakazelisayo yona iyinkolelo, i-karma, amandla egeleza negama loMfundisi Omkhulu. Yebo, uzobe nesithakazelo kulokhu kuphela, kodwa ekugcineni, uzizwa nokuthi ubanjwe ngendwangu yamatshe wembukiso. Ubheka lokhu, futhi wena ngokwakho uzongena emaceleni - ngemva kwakho konke, hhayi ekudleni, noma kunjalo, wathatha zonke lezi zambulo ezinkulu.
Qaphela! Intombazane enjalo ingaba yingozi kakhulu, uma nje kuphela ukuthi isimo esiphezulu esinjalo sihudula futhi sidluliselwa njengomkhuhlane. Kusuka kuwo ungabanjwa ekukholweni kulawo mbono ewubucayi ehlakazekayo.
Zama ukufaka ingqondo. Mtshele ukuthi awusekeli ngokugcwele izinkolelo zakhe, ungasisekeli izingxoxo ze-"worldworld "uhlamvu, noma kangcono - qalisa imfundiso ephikisana nezimfundiso eziyisisekelo zalokho ayamukele. Ngakho-ke, umngane noma umise ukuze uthole izinzwa zakho, noma uya kulabo abakulungele ukumlalela.

Umngane wegazi.
Awukwazi ukuphika - ungumngane - isihlobo. Udadewethu, ugogo, noma, okubi nakakhulu, umkhwekazi. Uhlinzeka ukuba abangane, futhi awukwazi ukunqabela. Kubekiwe, futhi unomuzwa wokuthi kufanele uwamukele nganoma yisiphi isikhathi futhi nganoma yisiphi isizathu. Kodwa kungabe kungenzeke kanjani ukucasula isihlobo?
Kubonakala sengathi lokhu kuyinkinga enzima kakhulu futhi eyinkimbinkimbi, ngoba awukwazi ukuqeda umuntu osondelene naye, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukumfundisa kabusha. Uma i-vendetta ingafakiwe kumacebo akho ngokushesha, yenza ngobuqili, kodwa ngokuthula.

Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuchaza ngokucacile imingcele evumelekile. Uma ungavumeli abangane bakho bakudala izinto ezithile, akufanele uvumele isihlobo.
Okwesibili, yiba nomusa, kodwa uqine futhi ungaguquki. Hlanganisa ohlelweni lokuziphatha kanye nezwi elizokuvikela ekuhlaselweni ebusuku ebusuku kanye nezidingo zokudela konke emhlabeni ngoba kuphela esimweni esinzima akekho omunye kodwa isihlobo.
Okwesithathu, zama ukukhipha icala, kodwa uma izingxoxo zingakusizi, kuzodingeka ukwandise ibanga phakathi kwakho.

Abangane abahlali baphila ngokuvumelana nokulindela kwethu, futhi njalo abaziphatha ngendlela enobungane. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi umngane akuyona into ebalulekile empilweni. Uma ubungane buba nzima kakhulu, uma ubuhlobo buba yedwa, uma uqonda ukuthi unobungane kuphela, futhi umngane uvumela kuphela ukuba umngane - unqume yonke imizamo yomngane onjalo ukuba angene empilweni yakho. Ngamunye wethu unelungelo lokuthokoza, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lingamelwa kanjani. Yebo, ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi impilo ibeletha abangane abangcono kakhulu, kodwa futhi inikeza abasha, labo abangenamahloni okubiza ngokoqobo.