Izimpawu zokuqala
Abazali bangazi kanjani ukuthi ingane yabo inenkinga, ukuthi bayayihlazisa esikoleni? Nazi izimbalwa ezimbalwa:
- Umntanakho uvame ukufika ekhaya enhle noma ngisho nangezinyembezi;
- Wavalelwa futhi akahlengi, akafuni ukuphendula imibuzo yakho;
- Uzenza sengathi uyagula ukuya esikoleni;
- Waqala ngokuzenzekelayo ukuphuma endlini izinto ezahlukene - hhayi ezibiza kakhulu;
- Ukusebenza kwakhe kwezemfundo kuwela ngokushesha.
Kungani ingane yakho?
Ukusabela kwakho kokuqala kungaba ukugijima ngokwemvelo ukuvikela ingane yakho "ngamahlumela namazinyo." Kodwa lokhu kungenza kube nzima kakhulu isimo. Yiqiniso, akekho ingane efanelekile ukuphathwa kabi - ngayinye ihlukile ngendlela yayo futhi empeleni inezinzuzo zayo. Kodwa isidalwa esincane asikwazi ngaso sonke isikhathi ukubonakala kahle kakhulu eqenjini, kuyilapho ontanga bakuthola kulula ukuthola izindawo zalo ezibuthakathaka kuwo. Ungafundisa ingane ngemithetho yonke, kodwa kufanele uqonde - akubona bonke abazali abafanayo. Izingane zabo zingabona ukuhlonipha kwengane yakho njengobuthakathaka. Uma kukhona izinkinga zomzimba, kunzima kakhulu kubantwana ukuba "bahlale" ekuhlekwa usulu nokuhleka usulu.
Kungaba yini isizathu sokuthi ingane yakho ihlaziye esikoleni? Nazi ezinye zezizathu:
- Uma ingane yakho inenkinga yenkambiso yangokwenyama futhi uhlale egcina emisebenzini yezemidlalo;
- Uma ukubonakala kwakhe kuhluke kunabo bonke ekilasini, ulwa "esikoleni" esikoleni;
- Uma unesiphambeko esingokomzimba - isisindo esiningi ngokweqile, i-strabismus, njll;
- Uma umntwana enenkinga ngokufaniswa kwezinto ezibonakalayo, akayikudonsa uhlelo ngemuva kwezinye izingane.
Kunezimo lapho ingane ivame ukugula futhi ilahlekelwe esikoleni. Lokhu kubangela ukuhlukaniswa ngokuphoqeleka, bese ingane ingabonwa ngokuthi "yakhe" yizingane ezifunda nazo. Ezinye izingane zivele zibe nomlingiswa obunzima kakhulu - zihamba phambili, zingaphephile, zibucayi futhi zibuthakathaka.
Kunoma yikuphi, lezi zakhi zidala ukuhlambalaza kontanga, umuzwa wokuzihlukanisa kanye nesizungu. Umntwana onesihluku angase avimbele yena noma aqale ngokuziphindiselela kulabo abamcasulayo. Lokhu kungaholela emiphumeleni engaqondakali, ngezinye izikhathi ezimbi.
Yini okufanele ngiyenze?
Ngezinye izikhathi kungcono kakhulu ukuba abazali bangaphazamisi ebuhlotsheni phakathi kwezingane, kodwa hhayi njalo. Udinga njalo ukugxila esimweni esithile. Uma isimo somntanakho sisabisa kakhulu, ingane ihlazeka njalo futhi inonya, udinga ukuqala ukuthatha isenzo. Nakhu okuzoqala khona:
- Zama ukukhuluma nengane ngokuyimfihlo, ukuze ufunde kabanzi mayelana nalokho okwenzeka esikoleni, lokho okufundiswa nabo ekilasini.
- Qiniseka ukuthi uya emihlanganweni yabazali, wazi kahle, zama ukuqonda impilo yesikole.
- Dala ubuhlobo obuhle nomfundisi weklasi ukuzithola njalo kuye ulwazi mayelana nokuthi kwenzekani ekilasini.
- Siza ingane ukuthi iqale ukuxhumana nomuntu ekilasini, ukuze angazizwa eyedwa yedwa, waqiniseka ngokwengeziwe.
- Hlela imisebenzi eyengeziwe yokufunda ingane yakho, mthole into yokuzilibazisa.
- Uma kwacaca ukuthi ungumntanakho - into yokuxhashazwa nokuhlekwa usulu, thintana nothisha, umqondisi noma isazi sezengqondo esikoleni.
Fundisa ingane yakho izifundo zokukhulumisana: zisebenze ngokwengeziwe futhi zisebenze ekusebenzelaneni neontanga, zikwazi ukuzivikela, uma kunesidingo. Akuyona into engafanele ukubuza uthisha weklasi ukusekela ingane yakho - isibonelo, ukumnika ithuba lokubamba iqhaza kwezinye izenzakalo ezibalulekile zesikole. Lokhu kuzokwandisa ukubaluleka kwayo emehlweni ofunda nabo.
Ungamsiza kanjani ingane yakho ibonise isithunzi sabo kontanga? Uma ingane ingabandakanyeki ezingxenyeni zesikole nasemibuthanweni - yenzele ithuba elinjalo. Hlela umkhosi - usuku lokuzalwa noma omunye umcimbi lapho uzozizwa khona ensimini yakhe, uzoba "indima eyinhloko". Ngakho ingane izoba nethuba lokubonisa amanye amakhono akhe.
Amacala okuhlukunyezwa esikoleni ajwayelekile. Cishe wonke amakilasi anento yokuhlekwa usulu, okungahle kube yinto engumntwana wakho. Abazali abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi iphutha likhona ngokuphelele nguthisha. Kodwa ngokuvamile kaningi akunjalo. Ngokusho kochwepheshe, izigameko ezingathandeki nezingane esikoleni zinganciphisa kakhulu uma abazali bekhathalela kakhulu futhi isikhathi kubantwana babo. Ngakho kuyoba lula ngabo ukuthi bafunde futhi basize ukubhekana nale nkinga.