Manje kuyimfashini kakhulu ukuba umuntu wokudala. Noma ubani ofuna ukuthola umsebenzi ohloniphekile kufanele nakanjani akhombise lo mkhakha ekubuyiseni kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuciko abudingeki emsebenzini kuphela, kodwa ekhaya ngokuphila kwansuku zonke okuvamile, ngoba kukuvumela ukuxazulula izinkinga eziningi ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Ake sihlakulele ubuciko!
Amantombazane amaningi aphuka ngomsebenzi womhleli weholide yamazingane, kodwa abakhokhelwa esikoleni kancane. Ukuheha, umuntu angaqhuba izingxoxo ngezilungiselelo ezingavumelekile, isibonelo, ungangeni kuye ngesitatimende sebhizinisi, kodwa kumuntu othile, ngakho-ke ngeke interview, enkulumweni ethakazelisayo. Inkampani iyokuthatha ngokuqinisekile!
Laba bantu basebenza ngobuciko empilweni yabo. "Ukudala" kuhunyushwa kusuka kwisiLatini, njengokuthi "indalo", "indalo engenalutho." Kodwa-ke, incazelo oyifaka endalweni ingahluka ngokuphelele. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubuciko yikhono lokucabanga nokudala, nangakolunye uhlangothi, ikhono lokuxazulula imisebenzi ye-pragmatic.
Isibonelo, ukuthola indlela yokwehlisa ingane ukwenza lokho angafuni ngempela, ukuheha izimpahla zakhe kumakhasimende besebenzisa ukukhangisa okungavamile noma ukuklama kwangempela. Kungani kudala ukudala? Ekuqaleni, kuzoba mnandi futhi kumnandi ukuhlala, ngaphezu kwalokho, imibono emisha namathuba azovuleka, isibonelo, umsebenzi omusha othakazelisayo.
Ama-Workshops
Abantu bokudala banesithakazelo esingenakuqhathaniswa, bafaka izixazululo ezinamakhono kakhulu futhi ezikhanyayo, bazi ukukhiqiza. Ama-Creative Trades abhekwa njengabahwebi abanjalo: umphathi-mcimbi, umdwebi, umculi, umklami, isisebenzi sezokukhangisa, umculi, intatheli, umkopishi, "umuntu we-PR" nabanye abaningi. Noma kunjalo, lokhu akuyona umkhawulo, ungaba ngumama wendlu futhi ubonise ubuciko bakho. Ngokufanayo, ngenye indlela ezungeze: udokotela uzama ukuthola imbangela entsha yalesi sifo futhi anqume ukuthi angayiphilisa kanjani, othisha bakhe izindlela zokufundisa ezintsha, umqambi walo ubhala uhlelo olusha nokunye. Ukuphila kwabantu abanjalo kunengqondo, kuyathakazelisa, futhi umsebenzi walaba basebenzi ukhokhwa kahle, uma kunjalo, uphikelela futhi izimo zihle kakhulu. Kubantu abadala, iziphathimandla zithethelela okuningi: ukungazinzi, ukuhlala isikhathi eside, isitayela esingavamile, izingubo ezikude etafuleni, ukuguquka kwemizwelo, ukungahleleki - bayazi ukuthi umsebenzi uzokwenziwa.
Noma kunjalo, uma udala - akusho njalo ukuthi awuhlelekile. Uma uzalwa ungumuntu onengqondo futhi uma uphoqelekile, khona-ke empilweni uzozuza impumelelo. Noma kunjalo, kunezinhlangothi ezingalungile ...
Phinda udale ubuciko
Ngokuqinisekile, uzovuma ukuthi ngokuyinhloko impilo yabantu abahlakaniphile inzima kakhulu. Ziningi ngokomzwelo, zizwela, zizwela ngakho-ke zivame ukungena ezimpini zangaphakathi. Leli ngxenye engalungile yokudala.
Emva kwakho konke, uma ubona indlela engaphezu kweyodwa yokuphuma kweso simo, futhi abaningi abayishumi, kuba nzima ukukhetha, kukhona ukukhathazeka. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu bokudala, njengomthetho, basebenzela ekugcineni kwamandla abo, futhi lapho amandla ephela, ukunganaki kuyathatha indawo. Inqubo yokudala yenza ukuba amandla angokwenyama nengokomzwelo ahlukunyezwe, ngakho-ke, ngemuva kokuxhaphaza okunjalo kumele aphumule njalo. Kodwa indlela yokuphila yanamuhla yanqaba ngokuphelele ukuqonda lesi sidingo. Ingxenye ebuthakathaka kakhulu yabantu bokudala yikhono lokugcina amandla nokuhlela. Ngakho-ke, basheshe baqedwa, izinkinga, ukuhanjiswa kokudala nokuthumba kuza ... Akukwazi neze ukubalekela kulokhu. Akunakwenzeka ukuzala imibono emisha futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo qhubeka ujabule. Kodwa kukhona indlela yokuphuma, nakuba yena, ngeshwa, nomunye - bahlale bebuka imithombo emisha yokuphefumulelwa!
Kungathuthuka!
Umuntu wokudala akazalwa, kodwa uba. Lokhu kuqinisekiswa ngobuningi bocwaningo olwenziwa emazweni ahlukene emhlabeni. Akuyona inzalo ethinta ukuthuthukiswa kokusebenza nokungena kwethalenta, kodwa imvelo ohlala kuyo, imvelo lapho umuntu akhulela khona. Izazi zengqondo zithi uma ingane inikezwa indawovnimaniya, ukulawula okuncane phezu kokuziphatha kwayo nokwenza izinhlobo ezahlukene zezidingo ezingavumelanisiwe, khona-ke angakwazi ukudala. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi umama noma ubaba uthathe ukudala nokugqugquzela ukucabanga okungavamile. Ochwepheshe bathi ukudala kubumbene kuwo wonke umuntu, amaphethini emvelo ayenqamule futhi ayivimbele. Ngakho-ke, ekukhuleni, ukuthuthukisa ubuciko ukukhipha amandla ami okudala. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi ubuciko obunayo, khona-ke kunezindlela eziningana zokukusiza ukuthuthukisa lesi sici.
Ake sikhulule amandla okudala!
Ukuze uthuthukise ubuciko endaweni yokuqala, kuzothuthukisa isimo sengqondo nokuhlehlisa. Vakashela amamyuziyamu, izinkundla zemidlalo yaseshashalazini, ufunde amabhuku amasha, ubuke ama-movie amasha futhi okubaluleke kakhulu-ukuxhumana nabantu abahlukene, lokhu kuzokwenza ubheke umhlaba ngamanye amehlo. Yenza njalo abantu abajwayele ukuxhumana nabo, thintana nabantu, musa ukuma, hlola izinto zokuzilibazisa kanye nemisebenzi! Nsuku zonke kufanele uthole okuvelayo okusha - lokhu kungcono kakhulu ukwesekwa nokudala.
Uma ungazi ukuthi wenzeni nokuthi uzoqala kuphi, zama lokhu okulandelayo:
- Zama ukungabonisi ubuqili nokwahlulela kulabo abangasekeli umbono wakho. Cabanga nje, kungani abantu besho futhi benza kanjalo, yiziphi izizathu zalokhu.
- Funda incwadi ethi "eyinkimbinkimbi", udlale i-paintball, thola ukuthi yini amadoda ayenesithakazelo emidlalweni yebhola, cela udade wakho omncane lokho akuthandayo, uhlobo lomculo ayithandayo, uvakashele ibha yaseJapan bese ubheka ifilimu yaseMexico.
- Qaphela ngokwengeziwe abantu, qhathanisa, uzizwe, ube nesithakazelo kubo.
- Ungathathi umqondo wokuqala ofika ekhanda lakho. Ungabi ngesikhundla sabanye abantu.
- Bonisa umonakalo ngezinye izikhathi lapho kungekho isizathu esicacile - ukugxekwa, ukukhwabanisa nokukhuluma okungajabulisayo.
- Phinda ufunde indaba yabantu baseRussia, futhi uma ufunda futhi, bamba izindaba zezinye izizwe. Lapho, uzothola incazelo efihliwe, mhlawumbe uzofunda okuthile okusha.
- Fantasize.
- Ungesabi ukuthi unesibopho sokuthatha izenzo, amapulani, imibono, impilo yakho, ungabeki phambi kwemibono yabantu abahloniphekile-mhlawumbe bayiphutha.
- Bheka izindawo nezindawo ozothola ngazo ekuphumeleleni. Lungisa i-alloy, ukhule inhlanzi, ubophe uboya, i-embroider ngesiphambano noma ubushelelezi, ubhontshisi ...
Zonke lezi zindlela ezilula zizokusiza ukuba ubone izinto ezingavamile ngezinto ezijwayelekile, futhi uzonikeza ithuba lokuxazulula imisebenzi yangempela yansuku zonke. Ungesabi ukunikeza imibono yakho engafani. Unganamatheli kulokho wonke umuntu akwenzayo, abe nombono, ungaphuzi, kodwa ulingane. Unquma ukuthi uzohlala kanjani futhi usebenze!
Izivivinyo ezintathu
Lezi zivivinyo zizokuvumela ukuba uhlakulele logi, ukubuka, ukucabanga okuhlangene, ukucabanga kanye nokukwazi ngokuqondile ukudala.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 1. USherlock Holmes.
Qaphela abantu obabona kuqala (umakhelwane ebhasini, ohamba naye), zama ukuqonda ukuthi lo muntu ungubani, ukuthi umndeni wakhe ungubani, ukuthi uyakuthanda, ngubani owenzayo. Khokha ngokukhethekile ingxoxo yakhe nokunyakaza. Futhi uvumele ukucabanga kwakho, kungani ucabanga kanjalo.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 2. Association.
Igama elingavamile ongalisebenzisi njalo engxoxweni, isibonelo, igama elithi "carbine." Cabanga ngezinhlangano ezibangelayo? Futhi manje phumula, ukhulule imicabango yakho bese uhlela uchungechunge lwezinhlangano: "i-carbine - ingubo yezintaba - izintaba eziphakeme - iholide - isipho esivela edolobheni elwandle - umngane enganikezela isikhumbuzo - isikhwama esasithenga ndawonye - indawo yokudlela engangithatha lesi sikhwama - isidlo esingavamile samaqanda ajwayelekile - i-dacha ugogo - ugogo nomkhulu "... Buyisela zonke izinto zakho Inso eyakuholela e-carbine kuya kunogogo nomkhulu. Kuzoba nzima, kodwa kuyasiza futhi kuyathandeka.
Ukuzivocavoca inombolo 3. Amazwi.
Kunamagama amaningana ahlukene awasebenzanga komunye nomunye, isibonelo: "imbali, simulator, isihlabathi". Manje bahlanganise nabo babe yisithombe esisodwa esikhulu. Cabanga ukuthi zonke lezi zinto zingaba kuphi. Futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - vula imibono yakho!