Intombazane eqenjini lamadoda

Kukhona umbono wokuthi abesifazane besithangamini besilisa basebenza kalula futhi banenjabulo. Lokhu kusebenza kulabo abaqala nje umsebenzi. Futhi lo mbono uyiphutha. Ethimba, lapho amadoda amaningi asebenza khona, inqwaba yamagobe. Futhi ukusho ukuthi kulula kakhulu ukusebenza kwabesifazane kuleso sivumelwano ukukhuluma okungamanga.
Yiqiniso, kubonakala sengathi amantombazane ukuthi nguye kuphela osebenza nabo abesilisa, ngokuqinisekile kufanele amnakekele, anakekele, azincoma futhi asisize ukufeza imisebenzi yakhe eqondile. Maye, ezweni lanamuhla, indoda ngeke isakwazi ukuba ngumsizi wakho, kodwa kunokuba ube ngumphikisi. Akwenza umehluko kuye ukuthi ungowesifazane.

Ungangenela kanjani iqembu lesilisa?
Ukusebenza phakathi kwamadoda, umuntu kumele azame futhi afanele ngokusemthethweni eqembu lakhe lamadoda. Kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi emsebenzini, okokuqala, abasebenzi. Futhi kulo lonke usuku olusebenzayo lo mqondo akufanele ushiye wena.

Uma unquma ukusebenzisana namadoda, ukuziphatha kwakho kufanele kube nokuqiniseka nokucacile. Qonda izinkinga ngokwazo, ukusiza ozakwabo zama ukuzama ukuhamba njengokungavamile ngangokunokwenzeka. Lokhu kuzokwandisa ukwethembeka kwakho emehlweni abo. Yenza njalo njengomuntu, ulandele amaphethini abo okuziphatha. Lena yindlela kuphela yokuthola ukwethemba nokuhlonipha kwabo. Ngokuqinisekile uzobalelwa.

Ozakwethu-amadoda abathandi ukushiya isinqumo semibandela ebhokisini elide. Thatha izinqumo zakho zomsebenzi ngokushesha, ngokusebenza futhi ungesabi lutho. Khumbula ukuthi amadoda abathethelela kalula amaphutha.

Kodwa akudingeki ukhohlwe ngamasu ama-feminine noma. Zama ukuyisebenzisa ngokulinganisela. Lokhu kuzosiza kuphela umsebenzi wakho. Shayela izandla zakho, khala, uma iphutha lakho lisebenza kabi. Kuzokukhulula, ngoba abantu abathandi izinyembezi zabesifazane. Kodwa ungazivumeli uqobo uthathwe. Izinyathelo ezinjalo zizosebenza kuphela ezimweni ezimbi ngempela. Uma kungenjalo, ukucindezeleka ngokweqile kuzokulimaza kuphela.

Akudingekile ukuba ujabule emehlweni osebenza nabo, uma uthola udumo eziphathimandla ngomsebenzi owenziwe ngokuphumelelayo. Iningi lizobheka ekuqondeni kwakho squeamishly. Ngalesi sikhathi uzoyeka ukuba emehlweni abo ohlonishwayo. Ungavumela kuphela ukumomotheka. Zonke ezinye imizwelo kufanele zivinjelwe.

Musa ukudalula izimfihlo zakho futhi ungalokothi ukhononde ozakwabo mayelana nesoka lakho. Ngisho noma eziphatha kabi kakhulu nawe, uhlala engumuntu. Ngakho-ke, ozakwabo ngeke bakumelele, kodwa kuye. Ungaboni futhi ungadli umphefumulo, nakanjani ngeke uqonde.

Khetha ngokucophelela izizathu zokuxhumana nezihloko zengxoxo. Xoxa ezindabeni zabantu, ingxoxo kufanele ibe mnandi kubo bonke abakhona.

Ungazami ukuba ozakwabo omama. Yiqiniso, ezimisweni zabesifazane babeka ukukhathazeka komakhelwane. Indoda nezingane akufanele zilambe, indlu ihlale ihlelekile futhi ifudumele. Kodwa ekhaya! Emsebenzini, ngakho-ke unakekele ozakwabo akufanele. Unomama noma omkabo, ngoba ababalethi nabo ehhovisi.

Ihlaya lesimo esibucayi akufanele sibe khona nhlobo. Ukucindezela ngokushesha. Unganaki izimemo ezidlalwayo kumabhayisikobho noma ngosuku. Njengomthetho, lokhu kuphelela njalo hhayi kuwe. Ngokuqondisa kwakho amahlaya angamahloni azohamba, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukuxoshwa emsebenzini kungalandela.

Isitayela sezingubo kumele ngaso sonke isikhathi sibe ibhizinisi. Izambatho ezingenangqondo, imihlobiso ebiza kakhulu ishiya indlu. Abathandekayo basebenzi abaqapheli kangako lezi zinhlupho. Kuyafaneleka ukuba nesitayela sebhizinisi ezembatho. Futhi emisebenzini yakho yokugqoka kufanele ibe izingxenye zesigqoko sesigqoko samadoda: ijazi, ibhulukwe, isibopho. Isiketi akufanele sibe mfushane kakhulu. Ngokumelene nesizinda samadoda agqoke izikhwama zebhizinisi, uzobukeka ungavamile.

Lapho sizosebenza enkampanini yamadoda, kumele sikhulume ngokucacile zonke izimo ezikhona. Kodwa uma uzimisele ngokuqinile ukusebenzisana nabantu, khona-ke ube njalo, oqotho futhi wemvelo. Ngakho ungakha umsebenzi ngaphandle komzamo, futhi ubuhlobo nabalingani besilisa bazoba nobungane.

Abesifazane abangamkeli noma abangaqondi lesi simo bazolahlekelwa ngempela. Ngakho-ke, udinga ukwazi kusengaphambili i-psychology yomsebenzi kwinkampani yamadoda.