Uma ufika ekhaya uvela emsebenzini, ushiywe wedwa nawe. I-melancholy esindayo ivuleka nge-cocoon enzima. Uzibamba uzicabange ukuthi usuvele ukhuluma ngokuzwakalayo nama-hosts wesiteshi sakho somsakazo ozithandayo, futhi i-TV enhle kakhulu iba yilungu eligcwele lomndeni ... Mayelana nalokho ukulondeka kwabesifazane, indlela yokubhekana nayo futhi kuzoxoxwa ngezansi.
Ukuba nesizungu kuyindlela yokuziqaphela ngokwakho, njengakho konke okukhohliwe, ukuxoshwa, ukushiywa, ukushiywa. Ngaphambi kokuba uzame ukulwa nesizungu, udinga ukuqonda izimbangela zayo. Ngokujwayelekile kunezintathu kuphela:
Ukulindela ngokweqile
Izindinganiso zethu ngokuvamile azifani namazinga abanye abantu. Abantu abakuzungezile babonakala ngathi siyisiphukuphuku, singathandeki, singenalo ngokomoya. Ukusesha umuntu ongcono wokuxhumana kungabambezeleka, futhi usongo lokuphila isikhathi sonke ukuze uhlale wedwa luyokhula kuphela.
Isixazululo:
Ungabheke umuntu ophelele, umngane ophelele. Ayikho imigomo ephelele! Ngokuvamile isithombe esingenasici esingenakuqonda asikwakhiwa ezinkolelweni zangempela, kodwa kusuka emibonweni yomuntu siqu. Ukuxhumeka okuphukile nezwe langempela akusivumeli ukuba siqonde ukuthi ekuphileni okuvamile laba bantu bangase bangabi abangane abanjalo, abathintekayo, abathandi. Maduzane uzothola "amaminithi amaningi" kunoma yimuphi umuntu, okuzoholela ekulahlekelweni kwanoma yikuphi ukukhanga. Isixazululo esihle kakhulu ukugxila kwi "pluses".
Ukwesaba ukulahlwa, ukwesaba ukuxhumana
Njenganoma yikuphi ukwesaba, ukwesaba ukuxhumana kubangelwa ukuzethemba okuphansi. Uyesaba ukuxhumana nabantu okufanele banganqatshwa, ngenxa yokwesaba ukungathandeki. Kodwa uma ucabanga ukuthi awufanelanga uthando, ngeke ulindele! Khumbula lokhu.
Isixazululo:
Xhumana kabanzi. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kunzima kangakanani futhi akuthandi ekuqaleni. Akukho phuzu ekuhlezi ekhaya ngaso sonke isikhathi! Umuntu ohahayo kanye nomuntu oyedwa kuphela akunakwenzeka ukuba avele ngokuzumayo "kusuka kuphi?" Akudingeki ukuba usebenzise i-heroine yebhayisikili edumile ehlunga phansi kombhede iminyaka engamashumi amane, ezama ukuthola umuntu lapho, futhi emva kokunye kwesigaba esine-enye, ukuze amathuba okuba ajwayele ukukhula.
Manje izigidi zabantu ziyazi i-intanethi. Lokhu-ke, akusiyo njalo isihluthulelo sempumelelo, ngoba amadoda lapho avame ukufuna ubudlelwane besikhathi esisodwa. Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi enethiwekhi baveza ngaphandle kokwesaba imizwa yabo, ukudlala ngothando nomdlalo wothando. Khetha! Ungasheshi ukugxila entanyeni ye-blonde enhle nesithombe sephrofayela kuphela ngoba uthi awukho ngisho neze.
Ukunciphisa okungaqondakali ukuxhumana
Abantu abanjalo babonakala sengathi bathanda ukuxhumana, kodwa ngokushesha bayabathaya futhi inzalo ilahlekile. Umzwelo wokuzizwa unesizungu kanye nezimo ezihlukahlukene zokucindezeleka kulokhu kuphakama ngenxa yokuzikhukhumeza phakathi kwezifiso zabo eziyimfihlo kanye nokuphendula kwabantu. Lolu hlobo lonesi selusekelwe kumlingiswa, kodwa ngezici zakho siqu. Iphutha yizo zonke izilungiselelo zakho ezingenasidingo, okulula ukulungisa.
Isixazululo:
Zama ukuzithanda wena! Phila ngokuvumelana nezwe lakho langaphakathi. Yebo, akulula. Ekuqaleni, kuzodingeka siyeke ukubona umhlaba njengoba kubonakala ngabesifazane besifazane ebhentshini, bebuza: "Kanjani ukuthi uneminyaka engama-30 futhi ungashadile, ngaphandle kwezingane?". Ukuqeqesha ngokuzenzakalela, ukhokhe sonke isikhathi sakho samahhala. Yenza into oyikhonzile, gcwalisa usuku ngemisindo elula. Buka i-movie yakho oyintandokazi, uhambe ngaphambi kokulala, uthathe ibhuku lokushisa, funda ibhuku lakho ozithandayo, ulalele umculo. Kumuntu ovutha ukuvumelana, abantu bahlale belula. Ukumomotheka okunobungane kanye nethemba lakho ngeke ushiye abanye bengenandaba.