Okwesibili, umsebenzi uvumela ukuba uzizwe ufunwa futhi unikeza ukuzethemba. Futhi okwesithathu, iyanelisa isidingo sethu esiyisisekelo - ekukhulumisaneni kwansuku zonke ngokomzwelo. Amadoda awanesithakazelo ebuhlotsheni nabasebenzi - bangumphumela obaluleke kakhulu womsebenzi. Futhi ubudlelwane bazo buzoba yizebhizinisi kanye ne-pragmatic kuphela.
Abesifazane , ngokuphambene nalokho, bayakwazisa kuphela inqubo ngokwalo, futhi izinyathelo ezithandweni zebesifazane ezivame ukuhamba nazo zibavumela ukuba bacebise ubudlelwane obukhulu behhovisi nemizwelo.
Qaphela, izinyoka! Usanda kushintsha imisebenzi. Uhlangane ngokuhlanganyela ngokujabulisayo kwabesifazane abanezici ezingavamile. Konke kwahamba kahle, uze uqale ukulinganisa umphathi. Okokuqala wakudumisa wonke umuntu, wabe esethunyelwa ku-seminar yokuqeqeshwa, futhi manje ngokuvamile ukhuluma ngawe njengamaphini. Bonke osebenza nabo ngokuzumayo bayeka ukuxhumana nawe, amaqhinga amancane amancane nokunyundela waba yinto evamile, ngemuva ngemuva kukhona ukuhleka okuphakade.
Ukuphila kwakho kuleli qembu labesifazane abanezici ezingenakuqondakala kuye kwaba nokubekezela, futhi ucabanga ngokushiya ngokushiya. Kungani lezi zihluthulelo zenzondo nokunyundela ziphakama, kusuka kuphi, enkampanini yamantombazane enomusa namnandi, kunezinhlamba kanye nobuthi? Okokuqala, kungokwemvelo ukuba iqembu labesifazane libe nomhawu, umona, ukucasuka, uthukuthele. Futhi, njengoba isigamu sinomzwelo futhi (sorry, amadoda) sinqume kakhulu, sijwayele ukukhombisa imizwelo yethu. Ngaphezu kwalokho, wena ngokwakho uyazi ukuthi yini okumelwe siyenze ukulwa nemithwalo: umsebenzi, ikhaya, izingane, umyeni. Ngakho-ke isikhathi esithile - ungangibeki icala! Ukuphuka nje. Okwesibili, okuningi kuxhomeke kumholi weli qembu labesifazane abanezici ezingenakuqondakala - lokhu kubaluleke kakhulu kwi-microclimate. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bayaphumelela ukulwa nobuholi phambi kompheki, onamaqembu ezilwane ezifuywayo nezidumbu. Okwesithathu, isimo singaba nzima ukubonakala komuntu oyedwa, okumele kube nzima ukulwa nokukhwabanisa nokuhleba okubi kakhulu. Okwesine, "izinyoka" zisungulwe ngamaqembu abesifazane, lapho yonke into engekho khona: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umthwalo owenziwe umsebenzi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umholo ophansi onamanani amaningi omsebenzi, noma ukusatshalaliswa kwemisebenzi, njll. Ethimba elivamile labesifazane, lapho iqembu labaqeqeshi elinomthwalo osebenzayo kanye nomholo okwanele, lokhu kwenzeka ngokungajwayelekile.
Solidarity yabesifazane
Usebenze eqenjini labesifazane iminyaka eminingana. Ukubambisana kwakho kuncane futhi kunobungane, ndawonye ukugubha izinsuku zokuzalwa namaholidi, banikeze izinkumbulo ezincane, bebuya eholidini. Kukhona-ke, izingxabano ezincane nokuyeka, kodwa zihlobene nomsebenzi, ngakho-ke zixazululwe ngokushesha. Ngemuva komsebenzi, ngezinye izikhathi uya e-cafe nangaphezulu kwekhofi, khumbula ukuxabana nokuzihleka. Ungasho ukuthi ube umndeni onobunye, ukuthi uzohlale uqondwa futhi usekelwa ngesikhathi esilukhuni. Ngakho umhawu, ukungqubuzana nokuhleba akuyona into ebonakalayo eqenjini labesifazane? Kwenzeka futhi ngenye indlela?
Futhi kuyiqiniso - konke kuxhomeke kubantu abasebenza ndawonye. Futhi abesifazane bayakwazi ukusebenza ngokuzinikezela okuphelele, kulula ukuthola ulimi oluvamile futhi bavumelane, bajabule kakhulu futhi banomusa kunamadoda. Ngakho-ke: Ungalindela njalo ukuqonda nokuzwelana. Uma unenkathazo noma inkathazo, abesifazane bayoduduzeka, basize, futhi ngokuqinisekile bangene esimweni uma udinga ukushiya ngokuphuthumayo; Kuphi okunye ukuthi akukona yini ithimba labesifazane ukuthi uzonikezwa iseluleko nganoma isiphi isikhathi (futhi ngaphandle kwecala futhi). Kunokuphatha i-genyantritis? Noma kanjani ukwenza isaladi? Iyini inkulisa engcono kakhulu? Noma ukudayiswa kuphi? Ayikho inkinga! Kukhona impendulo yimuphi umbuzo; Uma ufika emsebenzini, uzokwazi zonke izindaba zakamuva kanye nenhlebo - abesifazane besifazane abaphuthelwa. Kuphila kwezinkanyezi noma umnyango oseduze - akunandaba. Uzohlale ukwaziswa "ukumboza." Uyazi, kungenzeka ukuhlunga i- "pluses" isikhathi eside, ngakho ungalahlekelwa ithemba lokuthola ithimba lakho labesifazane, lapho uzosebenza khona ngokukhululekile futhi kalula.
Imithetho yokumnika
Kodwa, yiqiniso, ungayinaki imithetho yokuziphatha "entsha" eqenjini, ukuze "ungadli" kusukela ekuqaleni. Khumbula, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ujabulela kanjani abesifazane abancane, Qaphela futhi ulandele lezi zeluleko: Uma ufika eqenjini labesifazane, bheka nxazonke. Thatha indawo ehloniphekile futhi uzoqonda ngokushesha ukuthi yiziphi amaqembu akhona kuye futhi ohola iqembu (ngendlela, lokhu ngeke kube ngumphathi); Kuyacaca ukuthi lapha kukhona imithetho nemithetho yabo engabhalwanga, okuyiyona (ikakhulukazi ekuqaleni) okufanele uyilandele; Ungadlali isikhathi ezingxoxweni ezingenalutho, zama ukuqonda imithwalo yemfanelo yakho uphumelele kulo msebenzi. Lalela okuningi, futhi ungasho;
Zama ukwenza izisebenzi zakho zibe nombono omuhle: zihlanganyele ezenzakalweni ezihlangene, zibe nomthelela emisebenzini yasendlini (izitsha zami ezivamile noma amanzi ezimbali); Kancane kancane faka oxhumana nabo: khuluma ngawe kancane futhi kuphela lapho uceliwe. Ungasheshi ukusondela uze ulungiselele. Ukuvuleka ngokweqile, njengokungavinjelwa, kubangela ukuhleka, kepha awudingi. Kunoma yikuphi, isikhathi esithile sizodlula ukuhlala kwakho eqenjini labesifazane, futhi abasebenzi bazokujwayela. Khona-ke ukwehluleka kwakho kanye nokuhluleka kwakho ngeke kusabonakala, uzobe uthethelelwa kakhulu uma uzimisele ngokuvumelana nokusebenza kanye nokukhulumisana okuxhunyanisiwe okuqondene nemvelo ehhovisi. Izingxabano zezimboni zizama ukuxazulula ngokushesha ekusebenzeni, futhi kungcono ukuthi kungabikho ukuqala. Futhi uthathe isiqubulo esithi: "Vumela konke ukuhleka kimi kufe!" Futhi khumbula umthetho oyinhloko: emsebenzini kufanele usebenze, futhi ungahlanganyeli ekucaciseni ubuhlobo.
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