Izimpawu eziyisikhombisa ukuthi umlingani wakho ukopela.
Indlela yokuqaphela ukuhlubuka? Phela, kuvamile kakhulu ebuhlotsheni banamuhla. Ingabe kuyiqiniso ukuthi ngenxa ye-intanethi namafoni omakhalekhukhwini, kuba lula kakhulu kubalingani bethu ukuphatha isimo samanje?
Ingxenye yakho yesibili, ingazama ukufihla khona inkosikazi, kodwa ukungathembeki kudinga ukunakwa okukhethekile ngemininingwane. Le mfanelo ayikho njalo emadodeni. Abalingani bashiya, ngokungaziphathi kahle, ubufakazi obuningi futhi baziphathe ngendlela engavamile, bezama ukufihla imisebenzi yabo yansuku zonke.
Uma usola ukuthi othandekayo akaphelele ngokuphelele kuwe, kuzomele ufunde ukubona ukukhashelwa. Funda izimpawu ezivame kakhulu zokungathembeki, okuqinisekisa ukuthi umthandi wakho unendaba yothando:
1. Ugcina ithrekhi yesisindo sakho futhi uthola izingubo ezintsha njalo.
Uma umlingani wakho eqala ukuqeqeshwa kanzima ekamelweni lokuzivocavoca futhi agqoke kangcono, khona-ke lokhu kuyisigaba esisha sobusha bakhe, noma nje akulona iqiniso kuwe. Uma umuntu eba nesithakazelo esikhulu ekugqokeni, ngekhanda, e-manicure, ebusweni, kungenzeka ukuthi uzama ukuheha okungenani owesifazane owodwa. Izikhwama ezintsha, izicathulo namanzi angasese - okusho ukuthi umdlalo udlalwa kwamanye amasango.
2. Ucansi oluncane.
Lesi sibonakaliso, njengezinye, sizosiza ekunqumeni ukuhlubuka. Uma umlingani wakho engenasithakazelo ekusebenziseni ucansi nawe, cishe uhlangabezana nezidingo komunye. Ezinye izimpawu ezizokuvumela ukuba uqaphele ukuhlukunyezwa, kungase kube nezinhlobo ezintsha zezikhundla ngocansi, lapho yena, ngokuqiniseka okukhulu, ekucela ukuba uzame ndawonye. Lesi sibonakaliso sibonisa ukuthi umthandi wakho uthole lokhu okuhlangenwe nakho embhedeni nomunye wesifazane.
3. Liyamalala isikhathi eside.
Qaphela ukuba uqaphele ngokushesha imikhuba yakhe entsha. Umlingani wakho, kungenzeka ukuthi uyashintsha, lapho ehamba emsebenzini ngokushesha, futhi ebuyela ekhaya kunomphela, ngaphandle kwezincazelo ezikhethekile. Futhi qaphela ukuthi uchitha isikhathi esingakanani kumaqembu ezinkampani. Udinga ukukhathazeka uma, ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngokuphindaphindiwe, isikhathi eside, uyanyamalala ekhaya. Okokugcina, qaphela uma ungenakuxhumana naye ngocingo, noma akasaphenduli emilayezo yakho eminingi ye-SMS. Uma enza izizathu zokuzilandulela, ukuthi usebenza okuningi, futhi akakwazi ukuphendula izingcingo kanye nemiyalezo, lokhu kuziphatha kuyisignali embi.
4. Ukulandisa okuyimfihlo nezindleko.
Umlingani wakho ngeke ahlale ethenga izipho ezibizayo futhi akhokhe izikweletu ubusuku obuchithwe nentombi entsha. Ukubamba kungabonga ngemali efunyenwe, ekhokhelwa ngokukhululekile yokudla okuningi ezindaweni zokudla ezibizayo. Ukunyamalala okungavamile kwemali kumakhadi esikweletu, kukuvumela ukuba ubone ukukhwabanisa, futhi ubambe ngisho nomthandi wakho kushisa. Uma ufuna ukumbamba othandekayo ekuhlaseleni, hlola imali engenayo kanye neholo lakho ekhadini, futhi uqiniseke ukuthi angabachaza ngesimo esikhululekile. Uma ethi yena usepaki lapho egijima, futhi ngaleso sikhathi wayekhokhe ukudla kwasemini esitolo sokudlela, qiniseka ukuthi wambamba amanga.
5. Ukufinyelela kwikhompyutha yakhe kanye nomakhalekhukhwini kuvinjelwe.
Okuthandayo kuyodlula esimweni somsolwa uma ngokungazelelwe ubone enye iphasiwedi kwikhompyutha yasekhaya, umlando ocacile wesiphequluli sewebhu kanye nokuxhumana okufihliwe. Lokhu kuzokusiza uqaphele ukuhlukunyezwa. Kungani? Abantu abaningi abanesithandani sothando ngokuvamile bavalo uma bebizwa, futhi baye ekamelweni elilodwa ukukhuluma efonini. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-imeyli ne-Inthanethi yimithombo yobufakazi obuqinile. Uma umlingani wakho efuna ukufihla izenzo zakhe, ukushintsha amaphasiwedi kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi ufihla okuthile kuwe.
6. Washintsha isimo sakhe sengqondo kuwe.
Ngokungazelelwe uqobo lwakho lwaqala ukukunxusa ekuxabaneni njalo, ukugxeka ukubukeka kwakho, ukudla okuphekiwe nezingubo? Lokhu kungasho ukuthi uqale ukuzama ukukuqhathanisa nentombi yakho entsha. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, hlala uqaphele lapho, emva kokukhathalela okulandelayo ngothandekayo wakho, ama-roses amahle kakhulu avela endlini yakho njalo ngesonto. Lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi unomuzwa wecala ngokuphathelene nokuhlukunyezwa, noma uyajabula ukuthi ubudlelwane bakhe ohlangothini alukabikho phansi.
7. Intuition yabesifazane.
Nakuba lezi zibonelo ezingenhla zanele, umbuzo uhlala: Indlela yokuqaphela ukuhlubuka? Okokuqala, thembela ukukhanya kwakho. Uyazi ukuthi umlingani wakho uhamba phambili, futhi izibonakaliso zokuqala zokushintsha ekuziphatheni kwakhe (ukubambezeleka emahoreni, ukucasula, ukwanda / ukwehla kwesifiso sobulili, ukuhamba okuvamile, ukungahlali isikhathi eside kwekhaya) kufanele kukuxwayise okuningi. Abaningi besifazane bathi babona izibonakaliso zokungathengi, kodwa bazinaki, noma abathandekayo bawuchaza konke ngobuhlakani. Esikhundleni sokulahlekelwa kuzo zonke izixwayiso, khuluma ngokukhululekile nomlingani wakho mayelana nemizwa yakho, futhi mhlawumbe akudingeki ukhathazeke ngobuhlobo bakho esikhathini esizayo.