Umqondo "womndeni" empeleni unemisebenzi eminingi. Futhi lokho kubonakala kungenangqondo futhi okungavumelani kwabanye, kwabanye - okujwayelekile. Kunezinhlobo eziningi nezinhlobo zemindeni emhlabeni, kodwa izinhlobo eziyinhloko zobudlelwano bomndeni womshado zibekwe ngezansi.
Umshado wendabuko (uhulumeni noma umfundisi)
Leli fomu lomshado livikela kakhulu amalungelo nenkululeko yezingane, kodwa liqukethe inamba enkulu yokuvimbela bobabili bomshado. Umshado wesonto noma umshado kuyisigceme esikhethekile samaKristu, lapho abashadile bamukela umusa kaNkulunkulu ngomndeni wenjabulo, kanye nokuzalwa okubusisiwe nokukhuliswa kwezingane. Kuze kube sekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20, umshado wesonto wawunguhlobo olulodwa olube nemiphumela yomthetho. Umshado uvame ukulandelwa ukubandakanyeka - isimemo somphakathi sabantu ngesinqumo sabo sokushada.
Umshado ongabhalisiwe noma ukusebenzisana
Umshado onjalo (ngokuyiphutha ukuwubiza ngokuthi "umphakathi") uhlukile ebuhlotsheni obulula ngokuphathwa ngokuhlanganyela komnotho. Ngaphansi komthetho omusha, kuhlanganisa umthwalo ofanayo nomshado obhalisiwe. Nakuba kusukela ekubukeni kwelungelo lobuhlobo obunjalo kunengqondo ukusebenzisa igama elithi "cohabitation". Ubuhlobo obungabhalisiwe bomphakathi baqala ukubizwa okokuqala ngekhulu le-19 eMbusweni WaseRussia, ngoba uhlobo olulodwa lomshado oluqashelwa ngokomthetho, ngakho-ke, kwakuwumshado wesonto. Abantu abahlala ngaphandle komshado esontweni bakhetha ukubiza ubudlelwane babo umshado womphakathi.
Umndeni onqunyelwe isikhathi
Abanye bakhetha ukushada okwesikhashana, isibonelo, iminyaka emithathu. Umshado emva kwalesi sikhathi uthathwa njengokuqedwa ngokuzenzakalelayo. Ngemuva kwalokho, abashadile abashadile balinganisa imiphumela bese banquma ukuthi bahlukane noma cha, noma baqhubeke ndawonye. Abasekeli balolu hlobo lomshado baqhubeka ngokuthi abantu bathambekele ekuguquleni, ukuthi uthando olungunaphakade alukho, ukuthi ukuthandana ngokobulili kuyothalala ngokushesha noma kamuva, futhi abashadile eminyakeni embalwa sebevele bengathandeki omunye nomunye. Ngakho-ke kufanele yini ukuba uzihlukumeze futhi uhlushane nomlingani wakho uma impilo iphenduka kancane kancane ekuhluphekeni? Ngokuvamile abantu abanjalo, ngokushesha nje lapho isikhathi somshado siphela, sikulungele futhi sivulekile imihlangano ejwayelekile, ubudlelwano bobulili nothando olusha. Abantu abangena emshadweni onjalo, njengomthetho, bacabangi ngokukhuliswa komndeni, noma mayelana nempahla, athola ndawonye.
Umshado wesikhathi sonyaka uyifomu engavamile. Ikhethwa ngabantu bendawo ethile yokugcina izinto, elawula izinguquko ezincane empilweni yabo siqu, noma abantu abanomkhuba wokuziphatha ocansini okhuthele. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, imishado yesizini ingaba yendabuko, noma ihlukaniswe.
Ukuqeda umshado
Yilapho abashadile behlala ndawonye, kodwa vumela ithuba ngezinye izikhathi ukuba lihambe isikhathi esithile. Izizathu zingase zihluke: ukukhathala komunye nomunye noma isidingo sokuba ubhale isingeniso. Emndenini onjalo, ukuhamba akuyona inhlekelele, kodwa kuvamile. Kunzima kakhulu ukuhamba, okuhlobene nokuzilibazisa. Ngezinye izikhathi kubangela ukuhlukana kobudlelwane obunjalo bomshado. Abasekeli bomshado ophazanyiswa bayakwazisa inkululeko yabo futhi badinga isikhala kanye nesikhathi sabo "ngokwabo."
Umhlangano womndeni
Abashadile babhaliswa ngokomthetho, kodwa baphile ngokwehlukana komunye nomunye, ngamunye ekhaya. Kunezikhathi eziningana ngesonto. Lapho izingane zivela, zivuswa, njengomthetho, ngumama. Ubaba ngezinye izikhathi usebenzelana nezingane ngentando noma uma kunesikhathi. Lolu hlobo lomshado luyaziwa kakhulu emazweni athuthukile. Naphezu kokungajwayelekile kwifomu yethu, yilabo okuthiwa "abavakashi" imishado ngokusho izibalo, eside kunazo zonke. Ngokuvamile baqeda ukuhlukanisa.
Umndeni wamaSulumane
Indabuko kuzo zonke izimo umndeni lapho indoda kuphela inelungelo lokuba namakhosikazi amaningana. Ukushintsha owesifazane kufana nokuzibulala. Nakuba ezweni lanamuhla akusilo njalo ukuhlambalaza kubangelwa ukushaywa esidlangalaleni esigcawini. Kodwa isahlukaniso cishe ngeke sikwazi ukugwema. Izingane zihlale zihlala noyise.
Umndeni waseSweden
Umndeni ovamile, okukhona kuwo amadoda nabesifazane abaningana. Akulungile ukucabanga ukuthi ubuhlobo babo busekelwe kuphela ocansini. Kuyinto efana nomasipala omncane, oboshwe ubungane nokuziphatha komnotho ovamile.
Vula umndeni
Uhlobo lomshado lapho abashadile bamukela khona ngezinga elithile izinto zokuzilibazisa nokuxhumana komlingani ngaphandle komndeni.