Konke mayelana ne-romance yesevisi

Angikuphutha, ngicabanga ukuthi, nonke niyakhumbula iminyaka yesikole ejabulisayo? Khumbula ukuthi kwakungamangalisa yini futhi kungakhathazeki ngawe, futhi bekujabule lapho umfana obala okwesibhakabhaka ovela ebangeni elifanayo ehlala phambi kwakho egumbini lokudlela? Mhlawumbe ukhumbule ukuthi umakhelwane onamahloni - umhlukumezi edeskini, njalo ebhala okuthile kuwe, wabe esehlekisayo, futhi kwakungekho ukukhathazeka, Kunalokho, ngesizathu esithile ngangifuna ukuthatha isandla sakhe? Ngokuqinisekile ukhumbule usuku lwakho lokuqala nokutholwa kokuqala? Uyakhumbula ukudumazeka kwakho kanye nenhliziyo yakho - ukushaya emafasitela amaqhwa? Kulesi sihloko sizozama ukuthola konke mayelana namanoveli asemthethweni.

Yebo, uyakhumbula. Kusemabhentshini esikoleni ukuthi sithandana okokuqala ngendlela "engathí sina" futhi okokuqala ngenza amaphutha omdala. Khona-ke, sikhula ngokugcwele futhi siya enyunivesithi, lapho eklasini egcwele abafundi siphinde sithole ikhodidi ngendiza. Akukho lutho okumangalisa ukuthi emva kwalokho, uthando lufika kithi nasemsebenzini. Imodeli yobuhlobo esakhiwe yithi ebhentshini lesikole isuke idluliselwa endaweni entsha yokuhlala kwethu.

Esikhathini sethu sobuqili, uthando lomculo aluvamile. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bavame ukuba yindlela enhle kakhulu yokusinda emisebenzini enzima yamahlathi. Amanoveli enkonzo ayingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwehhovisi, njengomshini wekhofi, noma iqembu lezinkampani. Sekuyisikhathi eside abaqashi abaningi beqaphela ukuthi ukuvinjelwa kobudlelwane behhovisi kungumsebenzi ongenalutho. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe kuyadingeka ukuthi alondoloze i-microclimate evamile ngaphakathi kwenkampani. Abantu bakuthola kulula ukwazi umlingani wabo wesikhathi esizayo emsebenzini kunokuba kwenye indawo.

Iningi lamanoveli emsebenzini akuletha muntu kunenkathazo. Lena enye indlela enhle yokuzihlukanisa wena kanye neqembu. Noma kunjalo, ukugqashulwa kothando enkonzweni, kungakusiza kude nemiphumela emihle kakhulu. Akudingekile ukuxuba ubudlelwane obuhle kanye nesimo esiphuthumayo sokusebenza esiswini esisodwa. Lezi zimo ezinzima zingaphatha kahle, ukuze kamuva, lapho izinkanuko ziphela, emsebenzini, ungaphatha ngokuphepha lolu daba uphile.

Isihluthulelo sempumelelo ye "insizakalo yenkonzo", ngokuyisisekelo, "ukwahlukana nokunqoba," kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyakwazi ukubhekana kanye nomsebenzi kanye nobuhlobo bakho siqu.

Kungcono ukukwazi ukugcina imithetho embalwa elula. Okokuqala, hlola ukukhetha kwakho esikhathini esizayo: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyamthanda ngokwanele, ukuthi uyini, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ungamethemba.

Ekugcineni, wanquma ngesinyathelo sokuqala - ngakho-ke yenza okungafaniyo futhi, yebo, uzilahle "ukuphuma okuphumayo". Ungamema osebenza nabo ukuthi abe nekhofi ngesikhathi sekhefu, noma bameme ukuba bahlanganyele i-cocktail ekupheleni kosuku lwezinsuku ezinhlanu zokusebenza.

Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi lizwakala kanjani, kodwa yiba nengqondo. Okungenani ekuqaleni. Ayikho inhlebo mayelana nendaba yosuku lwakho futhi ikakhulukazi "ukuzingela", ukumbumbana nokuqamba ehhovisi nakho kuvinjelwe. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, qinisekisa ukuthi osebenza nabo emsebenzini ngokushesha noma kamuva, kodwa funda ukuthi uhlangene. Uma ngabe wena ngokwakho ngeke uphakamise inhlebo, khona-ke ukwazi ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho, ekugcineni, buyophela nini.

Ungatsheli izindaba zakho zivuselele isithakazelo kubangani bakho. Kulolu cala, lizophela ngendlela engokwemvelo emasontweni ambalwa emva kokuvela - kungukuthi osebenza nabo kuphela bazovela ngesikhathi esithakazelisayo senhlebo yabo.

Phendula ngokungaqondile umbuzo: "Ukuthandana kweHhovisi: okuhle noma kubi" akunakwenzeka, njengokungathi kunoma iyiphi enye inkinga efana nobuhlobo bomuntu. Uma ungangeni ezinqenqemeni ezihlukahlukene zalesi sikhathi sokuzijabulisa, lokhu kuyinto evamile futhi evamile. Kungcono kuwe ukuthi unqume ukuthi kuyamukeleka yini ukufuna uthando lwakho emsebenzini noma cha.