Kusukela kubani abesifazane abangayi amadoda

Mhlawumbe uke wancipha umbuzo: kungani abesifazane abaningi abanobuhle, abahlakaniphile nabanomusa behlala bebodwa, kanti iningi lezinja ezimpunga, ezingazibophezeli ngokwakhiwa kwamakhono namakhono, ngokujabula zihlala emshadweni ojabulisayo nendoda eyodwa iminyaka eminingi? Iyini imfihlo yabo futhi akunjalo? Ochwepheshe baphendula - imfihlo iwukuthi! Amakhosikazi angayi kuwo amadoda - lokhu kuzoxoxwa ngezansi.

Into yokuthi ukugcina indoda, akudingekile ukuba ube intombazane enhle nobuhle. Kwanele nje ukufunda indlela yokuphatha amadoda. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu kuzodingeka ukuba ufunde ngokugcwele amandla abo kanye nobubuthakathaka babo, ngokudlala ngobuciko ngezici zobuntu babo, njengomculi we-virtuoso nge-cello.

Izindlela zokuxhaphaza zamadoda

Yiqiniso, bonke abantu bahlukile, kodwa amasu athile asebenza kubo bonke ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Isibonelo, ukhetho lokuwina ukunqoba ukubonisa okunye okubonakalayo kwamandla nobuthakathaka bomuntu siqu. Ukungafani okuqhubekayo kuyokwenza ube yindoda engunaphakade, futhi akukho okubamangalisa ngakho njengokungavamile nokungaqondani.

Enye inqubo engeke ikuvumele ukuba ukwesaba ukuthi ushiye ngemuva, kufanele ube namandla, uwanele futhi uzimele. Cha, hhayi njengomuntu, kodwa ngendlela yakhe, njengowesifazane. Zama ukungambonisi uthando lwakho ngaso sonke isikhathi, ungaphindi igama: "Ngeke ushiye mina? Ngeke yinike ukuwa othandweni? Ngeke nje ngisinde! "Ake ucabange ukuthi uyamdinga ngaphezu kwalokho akudingayo. Ungakwazi ngisho nokudlala ngothando nabanye abantu abambalwa phambi kwakhe - isibonelo, emcimbini noma kude (nje akudingeki uhambe kakhulu).

Umbuso wesithathu ukuhlala impilo yakho! Vumela uphumelele emsebenzini wakho, usebenzise ngesibindi umsebenzi, ufunde izilimi zakwamanye amazwe. Vumela impilo yakho ibe yinto ethakazelisayo njengaleyo, hhayi kuphela ngobukhona obunesibopho somuntu ophakathi kwayo. Ingxenye eqinile kakhulu iyazisa abesifazane abanjalo abanokuzethemba futhi abaphumelelayo, laba besifazane abahambanga.

Ukubusa kwesine: qiniseka ukuthi ufunda ukupheka! Amadoda ayelokhu ethanda futhi ethanda ukudla ngokumnandi. Ngakho ake ukulungiswa kokudla kuphenduke ubuciko! Ungamondli nge-banal borscht ne-vareniki, ubonise ingqondo nokuhlakanipha. Cela ukupheka izitsha ezisuselwa ku-aphrodisiacs - ama-shrimp, ama-mussels, ama-oysters, uju, amantongomane, njll. Lungiselela okuthile okuvela ku-Mexico noma eChina.

Umbuso wesihlanu: ungesabi ukuhlolwa kocansi nendoda yakho ethandekayo! Zama ukuvumelana nanoma yiziphi iziphakamiso zakhe - uma kungenjalo usaqaphela ukucabanga kwakhe, kodwa kakade nomunye umuntu.

Umbuso wesithupha: Ukumdumala indoda yakho ngokungapheli, njalo kumdumise njengomuntu oyedwa, kanye nezihlobo, abangane, abajwayelene nabo. Amazwi amnandi yilokho wonke amadoda athande kakhulu, okuyinto ngokuvamile ayinayo. Batshele okumnandi - kusuka kwabesifazane abanjalo, amadoda awahambanga.

Uma ehamba

Futhi manje zama ukucabanga ukuthi usakushiya. Kodwa uzame kanzima ukwenza konke okungenhla! Kodwa cabanga: kungani engenalo ilungelo lokushiya, ayeke ukuthanda futhi uthandane nomunye? Phela, noma yimuphi umuntu, noma owesilisa noma owesifazane, unelungelo lokujabula. Ungashiyi amadoda, kuphela uma ejele.

Zama ukuthi ungagxila kule nkinga: "iyohamba - ngeke isuke." Uma ekhathele emphakathini wakho - akukho tricks lapha angeke kusize. Uma enquma ngale ndlela, uzoshiya noma kunjalo. Ngakho-ke, akudingeki ukuba uhlaziye nhlobo, lapho abesifazane bengakwazi ukuhamba khona, ubheka njengowesifazane onjalo ... Cabanga kanjalo: uma ekushiye, makabe mabi kakhulu kuye. Ngemuva kwakhe konke kwalahlekelwa owesifazane oyingqayizivele onjalo, engabe engasaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi!