Sibheke emafwini futhi siphupha, futhi usuku lokusebenza luhamba ngezinyawo lungaboni, futhi ngisho nokukhononda okungenakujabuliswa kwekhanda akukwazi ukulimaza imizwa yethu. Ngemuva kwalokho, silindele usuku lothando!
Kodwa isikhathi sihamba ngokungahambi kahle, abantu bayasondelana, bavulekele omunye nomunye futhi bazi kangcono, futhi ngokushesha noma ubuhlobo obunzulu bufinyelela kuphi iphuzu elibucayi. Kubonakala sengathi uthando aluzange linyamalale, kodwa uthando luye lwaphela, uthando luvele luvele, futhi kumuntu othandekayo ezinye izikhathi ezingathandeki zaqala ukuvela. Siqala ukuqaphela ukwehluleka kwayo, imikhuba ecasulayo, njll. Futhi kulokhu, ukugcina uthando kuyindaba elukhuni, kodwa kuyadingeka uma ufuna ubuhlobo bakho buhlale bukhanyayo, bethakazelisa, futhi bungabi bubi futhi bukhuni, buya phambili buholela ekuqhekekeni. Ngokuvamile, njengoba ososayensi bethi, iphuzu elinjalo liphenduka eminyakeni emithathu emva kokuqala kwenveli. Iminyaka emithathu, noma yiluphi uthando luzoziqhayisa ngokwabo, futhi mhlawumbe luzoshintshwa uthando, noma izindlela zabathandi bokuqala zizohlakazeka ngezindlela ezahlukene.
Ngakho kuthiwani uma kungekho ukuqonda okuhambisana nomuntu othandekayo? Izakhamuzi eziningi zengqondo kanye nochwepheshe abahlukahlukene ebuhlotsheni bomndeni bakholelwa ukuthi umuntu angavuselela ubudlelwane ngamagama anomusa ngomuntu othandekayo. Kubalulekile ukuncoma okhethiweyo wakho (ukukhethwa), ukudumisa zonke izimpumelelo zakhe, nokusho la mazwi ngokuthembeka, ukuzithobayo endabeni enjalo akufanelekile ngokuphelele! Intandokazi yakho yanquma ukukumangaza futhi upheke ukudla? Ngisho noma isidlo sishiswa futhi siphekwe ngendlela engalungile, akunandaba, ngoba wazama ngawe! Ngakho ungafaki amagama amnandi, mbonge, bonisa ukuthi kubaluleke kangakanani kuwe! Uyokwenza umuntu ajabule, futhi izimo ezinjalo ziletha abathandi ndawonye, zivusa imizwa kubo. Futhi uma wena ngokwakho unethuba ngandlela-thile thanda umthandekayo wakho, kwenze kube lula ngaye ukwenza imisebenzi ethile yasendlini, ungaphuthelwa ithuba, futhi ubonise ukuthi uyamthanda kanjani futhi uyamnakekela. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuncoma othandekayo wakho, gcizelela ubukazi obakhethiweyo kanye nezimfanelo zomuntu womlingani wakho. Ukuncoma nje ngaleyo ndlela, ngaphandle kwesizathu, kodwa futhi ungakhohlwa ngobuqotho ekusebenzelaneni nomthandekayo wakho.
Futhi, ukuze ulondoloze ukuqonda okubili, kubaluleke kakhulu ukwethula into entsha futhi ecacile ebuhlotsheni, hhayi ukuvumela isimiso esiyimpunga. Ikakhulukazi kubhekane nalabo abashadile abahlala ndawonye futhi ngemva komsebenzi wosuku olukhuni babuyele ekhaya, bafakwe njengelamula. Njengomthetho, azikho amandla okushiya kusihlwa, futhi phakathi nesonto elisebenzayo abantu bakhathele kakhulu kangangokuthi zonke izimpelasonto ngokuzimela zilele embhedeni ngesilawuli kude kude ne-TV ezandleni zabo. Kulokhu, kuyoba kuhle ukuqoqa amandla nokushintsha isimo. Mema intombi yakho kwi-movie noma yokudlela, uhlele ubusuku bothando, ungabi nobuvila futhi wenze okuthile okukhethekile kuye! Ungaya endaweni ethile engakhohlwayo kokubili, okuzoletha izinkumbulo ezimnandi zesikhathi esidlule. Ngokuvamile indawo efanelekayo lapho uhlangana khona kuqala noma wamanga. Ngikholelwa, ngokushesha nje lapho uzithatha bese uya endaweni ethile nomuntu wakho othandekayo, ukukhathala kuzosusa isandla sakho! Kuzobuye ubuyeke ubuzwa obunzima bokuthandana.
Abantu abaningi, sebeqedile isikhathi "se-candy-bouquet", bakhohlwa ngokuphelele ukuthi izipho azihlinzeki kuphela ngoNyaka Omusha Nosuku lokuzalwa. Izipho ezincane nezijabulisayo zihlala zifanelekile! Ekhethwe ngokukhethekile ngomphefumulo, ngenhliziyo, ngesifiso esiqotho sokumangaza othandekayo, ukumjabulisa. Yenza isigamu sakho esihle, umnike into encane encane, futhi uzobona ukuthi ngisho naleso encane futhi, ngokujwayelekile, isinyathelo esilula singabuyisa ubuhlobo obuseduze nabathandekayo.
Ngokuvamile, abathandi abahlala bephola futhi behlala ndawonye isikhathi eside baye basebenziselana kakhulu kangangokuba kakade abanesifiso esinamandla sokuthinta njalo othandekayo wabo. Ngokuqondile, lesi sifiso siwukuthi, kodwa akunjalo. Kodwa wonke umuntu uyakuthanda ukuthinta othandekayo! Futhi okujabulisayo ikakhulukazi ukuphumula okuphumuzayo, okukwazi ukunikeza umzimba ukuphumula okulindile isikhathi eside ngemva kosuku olumatasa. Futhi kungaba kuhle uma abathandi bebengakhulumi isikhathi sokubambezela kancane futhi bethinte, ngoba ukuxhumana ngokomzimba, njengoba kutholakala ngokwesayensi, kukhuthaza ukuxhunyaniswa nokuqonda okubili! Ngakho, ungahlanganisa ibhizinisi ngenjabulo.
Ukuqonda ngokuvumelana nabathandekayo, ngokumangalisayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi abathandi abakwazi ukuzikhohlwa, ngokuzihlonipha kwabo kanye nentuthuko yabo. Sivame ukuzinikela othandweni, sinikeze sonke isikhathi sethu samahhala esihlotsheni sethu sokukhuleka, sikhohlwe ngokuphelele thina bese sikhalaza, asithandi, asiqondi. Kodwa ukuze uhlale uthakazelisayo, udinga ukuzithanda wena futhi uzenzele okuthile! Uma unomsebenzi wokuzilibazisa, ungawaphonsi, uwenze, uthuthukise amakhono akho, ungaphuthelwa ithuba lokuthola ukukhuthazwa emsebenzini. Kuwusizo kakhulu ukuba nezinto ezithile zokuzilibazisa umlingani wakho angahlanganyeli, nokuthi ungenzani wedwa noma unabangane onjengawe.
Emva kwakho konke, uma uhlale unesimo sekhoneni, isimo esithile esikhethekile, uzohlale ukhangele kumlingani wakho! Kodwa lokhu kulula, ukuhlala njalo kusha futhi kungavamile. Yenza nje lokho okuthandayo ngenjabulo, ngokujabulisayo! Khumbula ukuthi ukudlulela kobudlelwane kudingekile, okokuqala ukugcina ubuhle bokubukeka ubuhlobo nobathandekayo wakho, nokugcina ukunakekelwa okufanele kubathandekayo bakho futhi, nakanjani, ungaphuthelwa ingxenye yakho ethandekayo.