Lapho abantu abaningi beqiniseka ukuthi bafuna ukusondelana, abacabangi ngisho nangendlela yokuphila ngesikhathi sokulala. U-Masters noJohnson, abaqambi ababili bezocansi bezocansi, basungula igama elithi "umjikelezo wesenzo sokuziphatha ngokocansi", okubonisa ukulandelana kwezehlakalo ezenzeka nomzimba ngesikhathi sokuvuswa kocansi nemisebenzi evuselela ngokocansi (ukuxhumana, uthando, ukushaya indlwabu, njll).
Umjikelezo wezenzo zobulili uhlukaniswe ngezigaba ezine: ukuxolisa, ukushaywa umoya, i-orgasm ne-denouement. Ngokuvamile, azikho izici ezicacile zalezi zigaba - zonke ziyingxenye yenqubo ende yokuphendula ngokocansi.
Khumbula ukuthi lapha konke kuchazwa ngokujwayelekile uma kuqhathaniswa nalokho okwenzeka kithi ngamunye ngesikhathi sokuvusa ucansi. Kukhona ukuhlukahluka okuningi phakathi kwabantu, kanye naphakathi kwezimo ezihlukahlukene eziseduze.
I-orgasm eyodwa ngesikhathi esisodwa
Bobabili indoda nowesifazane bahamba kuzo zonke izigaba ezine zesenzo sokuziphatha ngokocansi, kuphela umahluko wesikhathi. Ngokuvamile, abameleli bobulili obuqinile ngesikhathi sokulala bafinyelela ukwaneliseka kuqala, njengoba abesifazane besidinga imizuzu eyishumi nanhlanu ukuze bathole injabulo efanayo. Leli qiniso liyanciphisa amathuba okuba nesisindo esisodwa ngesikhathi esisodwa, okwenza kube umcimbi ongavamile.
Isigaba sokuqala: Ukuzijabulisa
Lesi sigaba kuvame ukuqala masinyane, kusuka kumasekhondi angu-10 ukuya kwangu-30 emva kokugqugquzela ukukhathazeka, futhi kungadlulela emaminithini ambalwa kuya ehoreni.
Amadoda : I-phallus ivuka kancane kancane futhi ivuse. Izinsipho zamadoda nazo zingaqala ukuphakama.
Abesifazane : Ukugcoba kwama-vaginal kuqala ukuvela. Ubulili buyanda futhi buyanda. Izitha zangaphandle nezingaphakathi, i-clitoris futhi ngezinye izikhathi amabele aqala ukuvuvukala.
Kokubili : Ukushaya inhliziyo, ukucindezeleka kwegazi nokuphefumula kuba njalo.
Isigaba sesibili: Ukunciphisa
Izinguquko ezaqala esiteji sokuqala ziyaqhutshwa.
Amadoda : Amagundane angena esiqwini. I-penis ivuke ngokugcwele.
Abesifazane : Izindebe zamagagasi ziyashesha. Ama-tissu wezindonga zangasese zesithathu zangaphandle zesisu agcwele igazi futhi ukungena kwesiswini kunciphisa. I-clitoris ifihla. Izindebe zangaphakathi zangasese zishintsha umbala. Kwabesifazane abangakaze babelethe, kuguquka kusuka ebomini kuya ebomvu. Kulaba besifazane abalethe ukukhanya kwengane - kusuka ekubomvu okukhanyayo kuze kube mnyama.
Kokubili : Ukuphuza nokuphuza kuyanda. Okubizwa ngokuthi "i-sexy blush" kungabonakala esiswini, amabele, amahlombe, intamo noma ubuso. Ngezinye izikhathi kunesisindo somzimba emathangeni, izibhamu noma izingalo.
Isigaba sesithathu: I-Orgasm
Leli phuzu eliphakeme kakhulu lomjikelezo, libuye elifushane kunazo zonke izigaba ezine futhi ngokuvamile lihlala imizuzwana embalwa.
Amadoda : Okokuqala, uketshezi lwamaminerali kuhlanganisa isibani se-urethra. Lesi yisikhathi lapho umuntu ezwa khona indlela ye-orgasm noma "ukungavinjelwa kokujula." Khona-ke kukhona ukuqhuma kwesisu kusuka epeni. Phakathi nalesi sigaba, ukuphazamiseka kwenzeka ku-phallus.
Abesifazane : Ingxenye yokuqala yesithathu yamadonga asezigodini uvumelanisa ngokuphindaphindiwe izikhathi eziyisishiyagalombili kuya kweziyishumi ngomzuzwana. (Inombolo yezinqamuzana ihluka futhi ixhomeke kumuntu ngamunye.) Imisipha yamagciwane iphinda ihlukumezeke.
Kokubili : Ukuphefumula, ukushaywa umoya nokucindezela kuyaqhubeka nokukhula. Ukungezwani kwemisipha nemisipha yegazi kufinyelela phezulu. Ngezinye izikhathi i-orgasm ihambisane nokucindezelwa kokucabanga kwemizimba yezandla nezinyawo.
Isigaba sesine: Ukusika
Lesi sigaba sibonakala ngokubuyela esimweni esivamile sokuphumula. Ingahlala emaminithini ambalwa kuya ku-awa nehafu. Kubesifazane, lesi sikhathi kuthatha isikhathi eside kunamadoda.
Amadoda : I-penis ibuyela esimweni sayo esivamile. Isimo esinamandla sinenkathi okuthiwa yi-refractory lapho ingenakuqedwa kuze kube yilapho isikhathi esithile sidlula. Isikhathi salesi sigaba emadodeni sincike eminyakeni yobudala, isimo somzimba nezinye izinto.
Abesifazane : I-Vagina ne-clitoris babuyela esimweni sabo esivamile. Ezinye zobulili obuhle zingakwazi ukusabela ekuvuseleleni okungeziwe futhi zilungele ama-orgasms amasha.
Kokubili : Ukuvuvukala kwezitho kunciphisa, "ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili" kuncipha, ukukhululeka okujwayelekile kwemizimba kuqala.
Ukuqonda okwenzeka emzimbeni wakho kanye nomzimba womlingani wakho ngesikhathi sokulala kungakusiza ujabulele ngalolu phiko. Hlanganisa lolu lwazi ngamakhono amahle okuxhumana futhi uzokwamukela ukhiye ezifihliwe ukwaneliseka ngocansi kanye nezifiso zomphefumulo wakho.