Naphezu kwezikhalazo zamazinyo wamazinyo, izazi ze-cardiologists, ababelapha kanye nabesifazane, abantu abaningi bayaqhubeka beboshwe enyoka eluhlaza. Ukubhema kuyingozi kakhulu kumama abalindele. Yimiphi imizwa onayo lapho ubona owesifazane okhulelwe obhema ugwayi ngokuthokoza? Futhi uyazi yini imiphumela? Mayelana nokuthi kuzokwenzekani uma owesifazane ephuza ngesikhathi sonke sokukhulelwa, uzofunda kusuka kusihloko sethu.
Ngalokhu kuyingozi ukubhema, ngamunye wethu uyazi ngokujwayelekile kusuka ezindizeni: sitshelwa ngokulimala kwabagwayi ngabazali, izixwayiso ezesabekayo emaphaketheni, izincwadi zokufunda nge-biology esikoleni. Sibheka kungadingekile manje ukuphinda sibhale wonke amaminithi wokubhema, kodwa angathanda ukukutshela ngecala "langaphandle" lenkinga eliyingozi, okungukuthi, owesifazane othumayo.
1. Ukubhema kuyisiphukuphuku.
Kungekudala, isikhungo esizimele saseMoscow senza ucwaningo phakathi kwamadoda. Imiphumela yashaqeka, yabonakala, bonke, ngoba iningi lenze isinqumo esingenasimo somthetho kumuntu othumayo. Ukubhema kuyisiphukuphuku. Bakhumbula isithombe esazijwayele kubo bonke ebuhlungu: owesifazane obhema omaweni noma oya emsebenzini. Phakathi kwezimpendulo zesilisa zendabuko esizibhekayo: ukunganaki, ukwehla emsebenzini wesisu, ukungasebenzi.
Ukubhema kuhambisana nenuka emlonyeni. Sifaka ukuthi iphunga elisuka emlonyeni wesilisa nowesifazane likhona okwakhiwa kwamakhemikhali ahlukile. Abambalwa bethu bacabanga ngokuthi kungani inkulumo eyaziwa ngokuthi isiRashiya "phakathi kokumangaza intombazane ne-ashtray ayiyona impela umehluko" okusikisela kumuntu ophethe ukubhema ophelele, hhayi ubulili besilisa. Njengoba ubona, i-folklore ayiyona ingcebo yabantu kuphela, kodwa futhi imithombo yokuhlakanipha.
3. Ukubhema kungamazinyo angenampilo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uhlolisisa kanjani umlomo womlomo, i-nicotine izoqhubeka isebenza kwayo engcolile: i-koil yamazinyo akho izophenduka. Lokhu kusho ukuthi unyaka ngamunye uzomomotheka kancane kancane. Futhi futhi, wonke onkulunkulu ngokumelene nabesifazane: ososayensi baye basungula ukuthi ababhemayo abesifazane basoqweqwe lwawo koqweqwe lwawo koqweqwe kathathu ngokushesha kunamadoda!
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Ikakhulu lokhu kusebenza kumama abalindele! Asichaze kafushane lesi simo namuhla. Intombazane ithola ukuthi ikhulelwe, futhi emasukwini ayisishiyagalombili kwayishumi uyeka ukubhema. Kodwa ingabe lokhu kwanele? Intombazane encane akufanele ibheke okungenani izinyanga ezintathu ngaphambi kokukhulelwa kwengane. Futhi bheka kubonakala sengathi sekusele inyanga noma ngonyaka nengxenye "i-podymila" futhi yabangela umonakalo wezempilo emntwaneni ozayo.
Futhi uma owesifazane engashiyi ukubhema? Yeka ingane enempilo esingayifunda ngayo. Ake sicabange ukuthi ukubhema kungathinta kakhulu ukuzalwa komntwana. Ngamanye amazwi, akulona iqiniso lokuthi owesifazane angabathwala ingane nhlobo. Ababhemayo phakathi kokusongelwa kokukhubazeka kuvele nje, asikhulumi ngezinkinga ezingenzeka ngemva kokukhulelwa kwesisu! Futhi uma ebeletha? Ngezifo ezingelapheki, kungakabiphi, kungacasuli, ukushiya ngemuva ekuthuthukisweni. Futhi uma isifuba sizodla, futhi, ngeke siyeke? Ingabe indodakazi noma indodana enjalo ingabe ngiyabonga kumama? Futhi-ke-ke simangale ngandlela-thile ukuthi lo mntanakho ubi kakhulu emathematics ukuthi uyayisombulula le nkinga futhi, ngokujwayelekile, unomthelela obuthakathaka! Ngesikhathi ugwaya ugwayi, umama ongakwazi ukuqonda kahle ukuthi uyazilimaza yena nomntanakhe, kodwa ukuyeka umkhuba omubi awunawo amandla anele.
Mama, shiya imikhuba yakho emibi! Esikhundleni sepakethi yegwayi, thenga amavithamini angcono, imikhiqizo yobisi. Vumelana ukuthi kuhle kakhulu ukuhlala ngokuvumelana nawe, umzimba wakho kanye nezingane ezizayo!