Ngokwezibalo, abantu abangaphezu kwezingu-60% banakekelwa yizo zonke izinhlobo zokuguqulwa kwesiphetho. Kodwa yini ongayenza, ngoba ukwesaba into entsha kuyisizwa sethu esingenasidingo esidingekayo ukuze silondolozwe. Ukuzama, ukuthola okungaziwa bekulokhu ibhizinisi eliyingozi, kodwa lena yindlela eholela ekuthuthukisweni. Futhi uma isifiso sokushintsha siphume, ungayinaki. Kuyisignali ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuhambisa.
Okokuqala, thola ukuthi yikuphi okungahambisani nawe ekuphileni nokuthi yini edingekayo ukuze ushintshe isimo. Ingabe uphupha ukukhokha imisebenzi ekhokhelwa kahle, kodwa lokhu kufanelekile ukuthuthela kwelinye idolobha? Uyavumelana nalokhu? Kuhle! Yini ekuvimbayo? Ngemva kokucabanga, ufika esiphethweni sokuthi akukho okunye okuzosebenza.
Kungani kungenjalo?
Ngeshwa, abaningi bethu kuqala bacabanga ngesimo ngesiphetho esingaphumeleli. Liyizwi lokukhathazeka kwethu kokushintsha kwesimo. Zibeke ngendlela enjengebhizinisi ukuhlola isimo kanye nempi yakho ngokuqondile. Cabanga ngamaphuzu esuhlelo lokusebenza oluholela empumelelweni. Zifundise ukufuna amathuba, hhayi izithiyo.
Ukwesaba ukwenza iphutha kungenye into eyasivimba endleleni yokushintsha. Sesaba ukulahlekelwa, ukuphazamisa lokho esinakho kakade. Kodwa wonke umuntu ngezinye izikhathi uphutha, futhi lokhu kuyinto evamile, ngoba yilokho okuhlangenwe nakho okutholakala khona ekuphileni.
Ingozi yokulahlekelwa ingancishiswa . Qaphela ngokuphelele izinzuzo nezindleko, thola ulwazi oludingayo. Lalela intuition: uma wazi kahle, izwi langaphakathi lizokusiza wenze isinqumo esifanele. Lindela izimo ezihle: ehlobo, isibonelo, ukufuna umsebenzi kunzima kakhulu.
Mhlawumbe kuzodingeka ubhekane nokuphikiswa kwezihlobo. Bajwayele ukukubona engxenyeni yentombazane elalelayo, hhayi owesifazane omdala owenza izinqumo eyedwa. Ungavumeli lokhu kukuvimbele. Thola ukusekelwa kwabahlobo abanomqondo ofanayo noma izihlobo.
Into esemqoka - yenza. Uma isinqumo senziwe, ngeke kube nezinkinga efulethini nasemsebenzini, ngakho-ke phakamisa izinto bese ufika esitimeleni. Kodwa zilungele ngokwengqondo izinkinga - ngaphandle kwazo azikho izikhathi zesikhashana. Kubalulekile ukuba usindiswe, ungayeki.
Ukunqoba isisindo esiningi ngokweqile nokwehluleka ukululeka kuyasiza.
Phatha ushintsho njengesivivinyo, hhayi umcimbi ozoshintsha impilo yakho kuze kube phakade. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi ungesaba futhi ubuyele emuva endleleni, unikezele umngane wakho omkhulu kumacebo akho, mvumele abe "umlawuli" wakho futhi angakuvumeli uphumule.
Izazi zengqondo zincoma ukwenza umsebenzi wokuzivocavoca, ukunikeza ithemba emakhono abo: ukuhamba emgwaqeni, yenza zonke izinyathelo ngokuhlakanipha, uzizwe ukuthi uhlangana kanjani ne-asphalt. Kuzosiza ukuzwa ukuthi umhlaba uqobo, futhi awushiyi phansi kwezinyawo zakho.
Bazibonga ngokuphumelela endleleni eya ekushintsheni okukhulu. Futhi khumbula: ama-novelties angaphezulu empilweni yakho, afaka imibala kakhulu emhlabeni jikelele.
Ingabe uhawukela abantu abaphumelelayo? Khumbula: impumelelo inehlangothi oluphambene. Isibonelo, ukuchitha ubusuku emakilabhu, udinga ukuthi ube nesizungu, ukhululekile izibopho zomndeni. Ngakho-ke, ukwakha imigomo, cabangela ukulahlekelwa okungenzeka, okuzodingeka uhambe. Futhi ungabeki phambi kwakho imisebenzi yomhlaba wonke futhi engenakwenzeka njengokuthi "Ngiyaphupha ngokuba ngothile kakhulu." Kodwa isifiso sokushintsha imisebenzi, ukuthuthela komunye umuzi, ukwandisa umbuthano wabangane noma ukuthenga imoto kufinyeleleke kakhulu futhi kungaholela empilweni yakho izinguquko ezilinde isikhathi eside.
Ukuze ube "umqondisi" wokuphila kwakho okokuqala kuyabangela ukwesaba, njengokungena endaweni evulekile, kodwa kumnandi kakhulu! Umthetho - amaphupho akho kufanele agcwaliseke!