Kuvame ukwenzeka: wena uhlakaniphile, omuhle, uhlale uthakazelisayo, ujabule futhi ujabulisa, kodwa endleleni ohlangana ngayo nabesilisa abesilisa kuphela. Ama-bastards amasha, okuphindaphindiwe akwenza udangele othandweni. Kodwa isikhathi sidlula, amanxeba aphulukisa - futhi uphinde ugijimane ukuhlangabezana nomunye wesigqila. Iyini inkinga? Ngakho, umhlangano esihlokweni esithi "I-Smart enhle yedwa noma kungani ngingenalo lucky."
Imvelo ihlakaniphile futhi ivame ukunikeza abantu iseluleko esihle. Yikuphi thina, ngeshwa, ngokuvamile silahlekelwa izindlebe. Isihawu. Uye waya engadini ye-botanical futhi mhlawumbe wabona izitshalo ezishisayo ezishisayo lapho. Baheha umhlukumezi umbala ogqamile kanye nephunga elidakayo, bese belifaka ngamaqabunga namagatsha abo. Emva kwalokho, isisulu sinento eyodwa kuphela - ukushabalala.
Ngenhlanhla, abantu abesabi izitha zokutshala. Siphethwe ezinye izingozi. Ukukhangisa okufanayo ngokuqala, njengokunuka kwembali yaseTropiki, futhi njengobuthi obunobuthi. Futhi enye yalezi zingozi ibizwa ngokuthi "indoda ebulalayo".
Lapho isikhulu siphenduka into.
Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukuthandana nezindlebe zamadoda ngokubuhlungu nokubukeka nemikhuba yalesi macho kuyilungelo lamantombazane amancane. Kodwa abameli abanobuchwepheshe besahlukaniso bathi abesifazane abavuthiwe, abaphumelelayo nabo bavame ukwenza ukushonelwa ngenxa yothando. Bona, ngokuphambene nomqondo ovamile, baphonsa amadoda athembekileyo, abathandekayo futhi baye kulabo abanomlando ongathembekile.
Ungakwazi, ngokuqinisekile, uchaze konke ngokuqhuma kwe-hormonal, ubulili. Kodwa kaningi emanothandweni othando abantu besilisa ababulalayo besifazane bathandana, bethemba, baphila impilo engokomoya. Ngokuvamile, abesifazane bathanda ukuchaza izenzo zabo ngokuthi ekugcineni bahlangana nezingane zabo. Isiqingatha sakhe. Ukuthi kuze kube manje impilo yabo yayiyimpunga, iyathukuthelisa. Yiqiniso, ngemva kwesikhathi isikhulu saba yisifebe esivamile, isidakwa esidakiwe noma ngisho nesadistri. Futhi ukukhokhelwa okwesikhashana nje kwenjabulo nendoda ebulalayo kubonakala kungavumelekile: ukudumazeka, ukucindezeleka, amahlaya kanye nemindeni ephukile.
Kodwa, ngisho nangemva kokuhamba kuyo yonke imibuthano yesihogo, ezinye izisulu zothando olunjalo olubuhlungu ziyaqhubeka zifakazela ukuthi azizisoli lutho, ukuthi zikwazi ukuzwa ukushisa okunjalo ngale ndoda ebulalayo. Umbuzo uwukuthi, yiziphi izilwane ezithandwayo ezithandwayo ukuze zihlasele izisulu zabo? Futhi kungani abanye besifazane benesifo sokungenwa kwe-inoculation ngokumelene nokuxhuma okuyingozi, kanti abanye manje beza ngegama elifanayo.
Esifundweni esisodwa sezingqondo esinikezwe ezinkingeni zokuxhumana, phakathi kwengxoxo itholakala ukuthi cishe abesifazane abayishumi abakhona beza lapha ngenkinga efanayo. Bonke abesifazane besimanje babebesomabhizinisi abaphumelelayo. Kodwa, lapho beqala ibhizinisi labo eminyakeni engama-90, babesaba kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, abesifazane baheha abalingani babo abathandekayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ibhizinisi lavela. Abesifazane basebenze, futhi abalingani babo bathola inzuzo futhi bangenzi lutho noma banikeze iseluleko nemithetho engaqondakaliyo baphazamisa ngokujulile leli cala. Abanye abantu baphuza. Abanye babulala izintombi zabo ngezimfihlo ezaziwayo. Ngokuvamile ingxenye ebalulekile yale mali yagijimela emabhokisini ama-mistress awo. Ngakho-ke ulalela ukuvuma okubabayo futhi uzibuze: Owesifazane obhizinisini bebhizinisi behluleka kanjani ukwenza iphutha elinjalo empilweni yabo siqu?
Yini eyasidonsela kubantu abayingozi?
Njengembali ekhangayo, eheha izinambuzane nombala wayo futhi iphunga, indoda ebulalayo ingabathanda abesifazane ngendlela yothando. Uhlomile ngomfanekiso womuntu ogugile-olwandle olwandle. Ekuboneni kokuqala, akanesibindi, unomusa, uyimfihlakalo futhi, of course, kakhulu sexy ...
Ngemuva kokubona umuntu, sesivele sisho ngokunembile ukuthi siyayithanda yini noma cha, isixazululo siza ngemizuzwana. Futhi ikhala lethu liyithatha. Manje kuyimfashini yokukhuluma ngephunga elikhethekile - ama-pheromones, okuthiwa analo ngokweqile, ngakho laba bantu abanenhlanhla babhekwa njengabalingiswa kakhulu. Labo abangakwazi ukuziqhayisa ngobuhlungu besondo bahlinzekwa ukusebenzisa amafutha ngamapheromone. Empeleni, i-adrenaline igijima egazini lomuntu oyingozi, ngoba uhlale ekulungele ukulwa - kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uyisango noma i-stock exchange. Futhi lapho i-adrenaline ikhona khona, kune-testosterone - iphunga elikhangayo kunazo zonke kwabesifazane bobulili obuhlukile.
Akumangalisi ukuthi, abesifazane besifazane abathulile, isenzo se-macho siyamangalisa nje. Nakuba kungenabo bonke abantu abanokubukeka okunonya babenemfanelo yokulwa. Futhi esigabeni samadoda "abungozi", izazi zengqondo zifaka phakathi kakhulu labo abalinganisa emkhakheni womthetho, abaningi abaziphatha ngokungenakuqondisa nabesifazane - kalula bahlakulele ubudlelwane, bese bephuza kalula.
U-Alphonse noma i-loafer ene talenta?
Ngesikhathi abangane bakhe bebenza ngesithukuthezi samathambo abo futhi basindise yonke imfucumfucu abayitholayo, akakhathazi ukukhathazeka okuningi ngaye ngokwakhe noma kuphi. Uhamba emotweni ebiza kakhulu, egqoke kahle, uyazi okuningi ngezipho ezibizayo futhi uyamukelwa njalo kumaqembu omfashini. Ubuza, yini owesifazane ovuthiwe ongaphumelela lapha?
Futhi ake ucabange ngomzuzwana ukuthi othandekayo wakhe ngokwakhe ovela esizweni sakwa-office workaholics, uyazi ukuthi angasebenza kanjani, kodwa ukuphumula ... Ngakho-ke, ukuhlangana nomuntu onjalo oqhakazile ngeke kuqondwe. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi uyisidla, kuzobe sekucacile kamuva. Kodwa ubuciko bakhe bokuphonsela imali ezinyaweni zowesifazane othandekayo (enikeza izimbali ezibizayo, ukushayela ezitolo zokudlela, ukwenza izipho ezinhle) kuzoshiya owesifazane ongavamile ongenandaba. Futhi akunandaba, uma nje imali yakhe iphela futhi ibonisa ukuthi usezikweletu njengama-silk. Kumuntu-iholidi ehlala naye, owesifazane othandweni uyojabula ukumnikeza imali yakhe.
Ububambiswano, uma buhola, futhi buchitha, buvame kakhulu manje. Futhi, ngokumangalisayo, izinyunyana ezinjalo zizinzile. Kungani? Ngoba eduze kwakhe, waqala ukuzwa ukunambitheka okubabayo kwenkululeko kusukela kwansuku zonke. Ngoba uyazi ukuthi angaphila ekujabuliseni kwakhe futhi ufundisa kuye ukunambitheka kokuphila. Abanye besifazane bakholelwa ukuthi isayensi enjalo kufanele ikhokhele!
Njengomthetho, amadoda abulalayo ayazi ukuthi angayinakekela kanjani. Kodwa ngisho nalokhu akuyona into ethakazelisayo kunazo zonke kwabesifazane. Isici esiyinhloko sokuthi lolu hlobo lomthandi alulokothi lubaze ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakhe nothando lwakhe. Umuntu ovamile uzozikhukhumeza isikhathi eside futhi abe nokungabaza: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukhuluma ngemizwa yakhe, nokuthi kwenzekani ngokulandelayo, ngoba engakakulungeli okwamanje ukuzoshada.
Kodwa kukhona amadoda angawazi ukungabaza okunjalo. Uyazi ukuthi akahlose ukushada, kodwa uma kuyindlela ewukuphela kokunqoba inhliziyo yowesifazane okhanukile, ulungele ukudlala ngemithetho yakhe. Ngakho-ke, ngosuku lokuqala angasho ngokuphepha ngothando lwakhe oluvusa amadlingozi, futhi okwesibili - ukumenza umnikelo, bese ... ngokujwayelekile ukuyeka ukuphendula izingcingo zakhe.
Ngokuvamile, ngenkathi owesifazane emthanda futhi ubudlelwane buya phezulu, buhambisana ngokugcwele nesithombe "somthandi omuhle", okuphindaphindiwe kuma-movie nakwabesifazane. Yilokho "umqondo" okuyisiphunga esiyingqayizivele lapho izisulu zayo zikhula khona.
Ngesikhathi esiyikhulu ekhulwini elifanayo.
Ngenxa yobulungiswa, kufanele kuthiwa akuzona zonke "izixhumanisi eziyingozi". Kukhona abesifazane abathintekayo abafayo abangasebenzi. Kodwa abaningi abangeke bahlelwe ngendlela ehlelekile esiqhingini esifanayo, kepha isikhathi eside bayakhotha amanxeba abo, abakwazi ukukhohlwa i-macho yabo enhle. Embuzweni wabo wesigramente: "Kungani kimi - smart, enhle, enesizungu kangaka kangaka?" - izazi zengqondo zincoma njalo ukuthi zicabange futhi ziqonde ukuthi ngubani nokuthi zikhetha ukuthandana nabo.
Ake ngikutshele okuncane ngento enjengokuthi "uthando lokukhwabanisa". Isisekelo salo silula. Enhliziyweni yanoma yikuphi ukukhwabanisa ukuhoxisa imali kuyisici esifanayo somqondo womuntu - ukungathandi ukuvuma ukuthi ulahlekile. Yilokho abakwa-scammers abasebenzisa, banikeza i-simple naïve: "Beka i-ruble - futhi uzothola kabili kakhulu!" Kungenzeka into efanayo eyenzeka ngothando. Ukubeka umphefumulo wakho, amandla, imizwa neminyaka ibe ngumuntu ongafanelekile, awunawo amandla okuwahlukanisa. Isikhathi sonke sibonakala, kufanelekile ukwengeza ukwesaba okungokomzwelo kule phrojekthi engenathemba - futhi kuzo zonke izimo kuzovela into ehlakaniphile futhi ezuzisayo ... Kodwa lokhu akukwenzeka! Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthola amandla, isibindi, ukuvuma ukuthi abalahlekile abakwazi ukubuyiselwa, futhi baqale futhi. Ukuphila kucebile, futhi kukhona injabulo eyanele kuwo wonke umuntu!
Ukuxhumana okuyingozi. Ungakugwema kanjani?
1. Izwi nebhizinisi. Ungahluleli umuntu ovela kuqala. Khokha kancane amagama akhe nokuningi ezenzweni. Khumbula: isithombe akulutho!
2. Yiba nempumelelo. Ukwamukelwa okuvamile kwe-hero-lover ukumangaza le ndoda ngesenzo esibanzi, isipho esibizayo, uhambo oluya endaweni yokudlela e-posh. Ungacabangi ukuthi lokhu kuzohlala kunjalo njalo.
3. Themba, kodwa hlola! Ungasheshi ukushintsha umthwalo wemfanelo ebhizinisini lakho kanye nefa langempela kumahlombe amadoda aqinile. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzohlukanisa imali engenayo kuphela, futhi ukusebenza nezinkinga kuzohlala nawe.
4. Ungakugwema kanjani ukubuyela emuva? Uma amanoveli akho ephela kabi, futhi abalingani bahlale beletha izinkinga, ungasheshi ukuqala ubudlelwane obusha. Kungcono ukuya esikhungweni somqondo wengqondo noma uthintane nochwepheshe.
5. Unganqikazi ukukhuluma ngokuqondile mayelana nezinsolo zakho. Abesifazane besaba ukuthola ubuhlobo, ukucasula umlingani ngokungathembeki. Kodwa umfana "omuhle" uzokuqonda, futhi umfana "omubi" uyokhipha isinqumo sokuthi awukwazi ukukhohlisa ikhanda lakho.
7. Musa ukushayela amahhashi. Imizwa ayiyona inhlanzi, ngeke ihlume ngobusuku bonke. Uma ungabaza, vele ulinde. Isikhathi sizobeka konke endaweni yaso.
8. Ungesabi ukudumala. Uma ungenangqondo, futhi kube "okungalungile", shiya futhi uqale ngokuphepha kuqala. Uthando lusebenza futhi.