Umama Teresa
Uhlobo lokuqala esizobiza ngomama ngokuthi "Umama Teresa". Kukhona amantombazane azama njalo ukusiza wonke umuntu futhi abone okuthile okuhle kubo bonke. Uma bebona umfana ophuza ngaphandle kokuphuza, khona-ke bayothola incazelo yalokhu, ethi, ngokwesibonelo, ukuthi wayengenalo ithemba ngothando futhi manje usephuza. Uma ungasebenzi, intombazane enjalo iyoyilungisa, ichaza ukuthi insizwa ayikwazi ukuthola impilo, ngoba ithalenta yakhe iyabonakala kuwo wonke umuntu futhi izosebenza kabili, kuyilapho ezohlala ekhompyutheni, edlala imidlalo noma ebuka I-TV.
Uma ubona ukuthi uqobo "Umama Teresa", khona-ke udinga ukuphuthumisa wonke umuntu ukuba azisole. Uyakuthandwa amadoda anjalo, ngoba uwakha imizwa yakho ngesihawu kubo, futhi nabo, basebenzisa umusa wakho. Uma umfana ephuza, lokhu akusho ukuthi uhlangabezana no-sonoaks kumkhwenyana wakhe. Cishe, le nsizwa imane ibuthakathaka futhi ingenakugwema futhi esikhundleni sokuzihlanganisa ndawonye bese iqala ukwenza okuthile, ikhetha indlela elula. Indoda ayikwazi ukuthola umsebenzi ngoba nje ivila kakhulu futhi ayikhathaleli ukuthi kuzokwenzekani ngokulandela impilo yakhe. Ukuze abesifazane abanalolu hlobo lweseluleko somlingiswa-badlulele eceleni kwalabo abafuna ukuzisola futhi konke kuzohamba kahle nawe.
Lady-Boss
Abesifazane abanjalo bahlale bekhononda ngokuthi eceleni kwabo kukhona abesifazane abangashadile, kodwa izigqoko zangempela. Abamesaba nje abakhethiweyo babo, bakhononda konke, ngeke bakhulume kakhulu futhi ngeke babonise noma yikuphi uhlamvu. Abesifazane bathanda ukuthi indoda ethandekayo esikhundleni sokuba umvikeli wayo, ibeka ngemuva kwayo futhi ihlume, njengenja encane ku-leash.
Ngokuvamile, inkinga enjalo ivela kulabo abathanda ukuyala. Abesifazane bayazikhethela ngokucophelela abesifazane, abavumelana ngaso sonke isikhathi kuzo zonke izinto, abathandi ukukhombisa isinyathelo kanye ne-tadaleye. Zizimele futhi zinenkani, zihamba ngapha nangapha. Kodwa i-vitoga, isimo lapho indoda iqhuma, njenge-Chinese idiot, ihlupha ngisho nomlawuli oqhoshayo futhi uqala ukukhononda kubangane bakhe ngesoka lakhe noma umyeni wakhe, emangalela ngokuthi uyaphalaza.
Laba besifazane bangabeliswa ukuba bazivimbele ngokwezifiso futhi bahlale beyala. Uma ufuna umuntu ngempela ukuba abe eduze, hhayi inja ekuqashweni, kufanele uziphatha njengowesifazane, ungathandi umholi weqembu. Funda ukunikeza amadoda, yenza izinto eziyekethisa, ubanike ithuba lokuzilawula. Yiqiniso, ekuqaleni kuyoba nzima, kodwa uma ukhathele ngempela abafana abalungele ukuzonda izithende zakho, khona-ke uzohlupheka kancane futhi ekugcineni u-cowboy wangempela uzovela eceleni kwakho.
Ukudala
Kubantu abanjalo abaphakeme, uthando luyisigaba esibaluleke kakhulu somkhuba womuntu. Uma emnika izimbali futhi ehlanganisa izingqungquthela, ehlabela phansi ngaphansi kwamafasitela e-serenade futhi ehlela ama-picnics ekushoneni kwelanga, le ntombazane iyancibilikisa, i-mildens futhi ilungele ukulandela umfana kuze kube sekupheleni kwezwe futhi ihlale endlini. Futhi-ke uyahamba isikhathi bese eqala ukukhononda ngokuthi umuntu "uhamba" njalo, akanalo umsebenzi ovamile, ngoba udala, futhi ukhululekile, unamahloni futhi ngokuvamile akahambisani nokuphila kwangempela. Futhi intombazane ayisacabangi ngothando, kodwa intukuthelo ngoba kukhona intaba yezidlo odongeni, futhi insizwa yakhe ichitheka esinye isithombe sesithombe sayo esingenakulinganiswa futhi akanakho lutho neze nezinkinga zansuku zonke.
Kulesi simo, amantombazane kudingeka akhumbule ngokucophelela lokhu okulandelayo: uthando olulodwa ngeke ukwazi ukugcwala. Yebo, kumnandi uma umuntu enza ukuthinta okuhle. Kodwa uma ebaphatha kakhulu futhi kaningi, kubalulekile ukucabanga. Iqiniso liwukuthi amadoda angempela awakwazi ukuthandana kakhulu. Lena yinkatho yabesifazane abathandekayo abaphuphayo, bakhathazeke ngamaqhawe ama-serials bese bekhala njalo. Futhi abafana basacabanga ukuthi bangayilungisa kanjani imoto futhi bathole imali eningi. Uma ikhanda lomfana lihlala kuphela ngothando, ngakho-ke alinaso isikhathi sokuphila okuvamile komuntu ovamile. Ngakho-ke kuvela ukuthi emiphumeleni yokuphila okuhlanganyelwe nalaba bantu baphenduka ukuhlushwa.
Ngakho-ke, kungcono kubantu abakudala ukuba bakhumbule ukuthi ukuphikiswa kunalokho okufana nokukhanga. Intombazane ethandanayo kufanele ihlolisise amadoda abanika izimbali kude nsuku zonke futhi uthando lonke lwamazwi lubonakala ngokufushane "Kancane, NginguTight", futhi, kanye nje kancane, kodwa balungele ukusebenza emisebenzini emithathu, bagijimela kuwe ekuseni, njalo qiniseka ukuthi awudingi lutho. Kungcono ukufundisa umuntu onjalo ukuthi akutshele izinkondlo futhi ahlele izidlo zothando (futhi lokhu kungenzeka, kholwa) kunesikhathi sokuphila kokuhlupheka okuthandana nomuntu ongathandanga lutho empilweni yangempela.
Intombazana encane empofu
Futhi uhlobo lokugcina lwabasifazane esizokhuluma ngabo yilokho okuthiwa amaMvana Ahluphekile. Laba besifazane bazenzisa njalo ukuthi akenzi lutho futhi abakwazi. Ethobekile, ethule, njengengane, le ntombazane ihlale ifuna usizo nokuvikelwa kumuntu. Ufuna wonke umuntu amenzele konke futhi axazulule konke, akalokothi azame ukuxazulula izinkinga zakhe futhi azame ukuzikhandla ezinqumweni ezibalulekile. Kodwa isikhathi sidlula kanye nedamaski enjalo iqala ukuthukuthela ukuthi othandekayo akayikuyeka isinyathelo sakhe siqu, angalokothi akhulume ngezinkinga zakhe futhi angayinaki imibono yakhe. Futhi uma ezama ukubonisa ukuzimela noma ukuzinikela ngokhetho lakhe, lo muntu uyalilahleka ngezindlebe noma umbhalo oqondile uthi lesi akusona ibhizinisi lakhe. Ngokuvamile, intombazane icasula lokhu kuziphatha, ithola insizwa entsha futhi konke kuqala kabusha.
Amantombazane afanele ayeke ukuzama ukubonakala ebuthakathaka kunalesi sifo, kunalokho. Yebo, Yebo, sonke sifuna abafana ukuvikela nokuvikela. Futhi senzani nabantwana? - qapha, uvikele futhi ulawule konke. Ngisho noma ingane izama ukwenza okuthile yodwa, abazali bayayibona njengento esheshayo bese bayibhala noma kunjalo. Emadodeni, isimo sengqondo esifanayo nabesifazane balolu hlobo. Bayabathanda futhi banakekele, kodwa ngeke bavunyelwe ukuzimela, ngoba abakholelwa ukuthi lo muntu unakho noma yini. Ngakho-ke, uma ufuna ukuthi umbhangqwana olandelayo ubheke njengomuntu ngamunye, okokuqala uzibonakalise njengomuntu omdala, ohlakaniphile, owakhiwe. Futhi konke kuyoba kuhle.