Kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila kwakhe ingane kumele ikwazi ukudlala. Lokhu sekukhohliwe ngabazali abaningi abasebenzisa izindlela zanamuhla zokuthuthukiswa kokuqala kwengane. Bazama ukufundisa kusenesikhathi ukufunda ingane yabo, abangazange bafunde ukuhlala bodwa, becabanga ukuthi ingane yabo iyokhula ihlakaniphile futhi ihlakaniphile. Noma kunjalo, kubonakala ukuthi inkulumo, inkumbulo, ikhono lokugxila, ukunakekelwa, ukubuka nokucabanga kuthuthukiswe emidlalweni, hhayi ekufundeni.
Eminyakeni emibili noma emithathu eyedlule, lapho kwakungekho abaningi kangaka besathuthukisa amathoyizi, indima eyinhloko emfundweni yezingane idlalwe isikole, bekukhona lapha ukuthi bafundiswa ukufunda, ukubhala, ukubalwa, kanye nesici esiyinhloko ekuthuthukiseni ingane kwaba imidlalo. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi konke kuye kwashintsha kakhulu futhi manje, ukuze ingane ithathwe esikoleni esihle futhi esihloniphekile, ngezinye izikhathi kufanele idlule izivivinyo ezilula. Lokhu kwabeletha imfashini yamathoyizi ezemfundo kanye nezinhlelo zemfundo zezingane zasenkulisa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ezikoleni zangaphambi kwesikole, ukugxila kakhulu ekulungiseleleni ingane esikoleni sekharikhulamu, futhi imidlalo eyisisekelo sokuthuthukiswa kwengane inika indima yesibili.
Izazi zengqondo zanamuhla zikhathazeka ngokuthi ukuqeqesha kunamandla futhi kufinyelele ekungeneni kwempilo yengane, ngezinye izikhathi kuthatha isikhathi esiningi. Bacela ukulondolozwa kwengane yabantwana kanye nethuba lokudlala imidlalo. Esinye isizathu salesi simo siwukuthi akekho omunye ingane angakwazi ukudlala ngaso sonke isikhathi, futhi imidlalo ayithokozi lapho udlala yedwa. Abazali basebenzisa isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini wabo, uma kukhona abazalwane noma odadewabo, nabo bangaba, ngokwesibonelo, esikoleni, ingane ishiywe yedwa, futhi noma ngabe unezinkulungwane zamathoyizi, maduzane uzothola isithakazelo kubo. Phela, umdlalo uyinkqubo, hhayi inombolo yamathoyizi. Imidlalo yezingane ayitholakali kuphela ngokusetshenziswa kwamathoyizi, imfashini yezingane izosiza ukuvula indiza noma inyoni ibe ngehhashi elihamba ngezinyawo, nephepha elihlongoziwe lingene endlini.
Kunezinhlobo eziningana zemidlalo yabantwana: iselula (salochki, fihla futhi ufune, i-lapta, i-trickle), ithebula (i-chess, i-checkers, i-lotto, i-puzzle, i-mosaic, i-dominoes, imidlalo ehlakaniphile neyamasu), ikhompyutha (ukuthuthukisa inkumbulo nokuqapha, amasu nokucabangela). Imidlalo yokuxhumana, njengokuthi, "indodakazi-omama" nayo iyasiza. Lolu hlobo lokudlala lusiza ingane ukuba ithuthukise amafomu amasha wokuziphatha kwakhe, amfundise ukuthi ahlanganyele nabanye abantu. Ngenqubo yokukhulisa ingane, imidlalo yakhe ibuye ikhule, imidlalo yeqembu (basketball, football, volleyball) iza esikhundleni semidlalo ehambayo, kuyilapho iqaphela ukufutheka kokuncintisana kanye nenjabulo yokunqoba, inselele yomqondo yengqondo yomntwana iqala.
Akuyona into ebalulekile emidlalweni yezingane yimiyalo, emdlalweni ingane ichazwa ukuthi kuneemithetho ekhethekile ecacisa ukuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani nokuthi awukwazi kanjani ukudlala, ukuthi kufanele kanjani nokuthi ungafanele uziphatha kanjani. Ukuzijwayele ukudlala ngemithetho kusukela ebuntwaneni, ingane izama ukugcina imigomo yezenhlalo esikhathini esizayo, futhi kuyoba nzima ingane engakaze ihlakulele umkhuba onjalo ukuze ivumelane nayo, futhi ingase ingaqondi ukuthi kungani ihambisana nemingcele enzima kangaka.
Ngokwezifiso zomdlalo wezingane, umuntu angase ahlulele mayelana nentuthuko yengqondo yengqondo yengane. Isibonelo, uma imidlalo iphindaphindiwe njalo, ingumlingiswa wesiko, futhi lokhu kuqhubeka isikhathi eside, kubalulekile ukufuna iseluleko somqondo wezengqondo. Uma imidlalo yengane inonya, lokhu kungaba isibonakaliso sokukhathazeka okukhulu kwengane, ukuzethemba okuphansi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngosizo lobudlova, izingane zizama ukuheha abantu abadala. Futhi mhlawumbe ukuhlukumezeka, yilokho okubonwa yingane ohlangothini lwabazali, futhi emdlalweni ubonisa ukuthi ujwayele ukumbona kanjani.
Kuye ngobudala, uhlobo kanye nemvelo yemidlalo yezingane zasenkulisa kufanele ihluke. Okuthiwa:
- izingane ezingaphansi kweminyaka eyi-1.5 ubudala - umdlalo wezindaba. Itheyibhile yezingane zalesikhathi ingaba yinoma yini into eyawela ezandleni. Ukuhamba, ukugijima nokuphonsa kungukusebenza kwemidlalo eyisisekelo.
- izingane ezisukela eminyakeni emihlanu kuya kwemi-4 - imidlalo yokuzwa-motor. Izingane zithinta izinto, zibahambisa, zifunda ukwenza imisebenzi ehlukile, zithola izinzwa ezithinta. Ngokuvamile, eneminyaka emine ubudala ingane ivele idlala i-hide-and-go iphinde ibambe, ingahamba ibhayisekili, ibhayisikili.
- izingane ezisukela eminyakeni emi-3 ukuya kwemihlanu - imidlalo nokuphindukuzalwa. Ngalesi sikhathi ingane kufanele ifunde ukudlulisa izakhiwo ezihlukahlukene zezinto komunye nomunye. Ingane ingazicabangela nganoma yiyiphi into, ithathe amathoyizi amabili, ingabahambisa indima kubo, isibonelo, omunye uzoba ngumama, kanti owesibili - ubaba. Kule minyaka yobudala, lolu hlobo lomdlalo lubonakaliswa ngokuthi "ukulingisa", lapho izingane zilingisa futhi zilingisa labo abazungezile. Lokhu ngezinye izikhathi kubangela intukuthelo kubazali, kodwa le nqubo yisigaba esingenakugwenywa ekuthuthukiseni kwanoma yimuphi ingane, kuyilapho imidlalo yokuphindukuzalwa ingena esikhundleni sezenhlalakahle.
- izingane ezineminyaka engama-5 ubudala - imidlalo eminingi eningi futhi ephelele okumele ihlanganise izinto eziyinkimbinkimbi, ubuciko, umcabango, ihlelwe futhi ihlelwe.