Abameli banamuhla bobulili obuhle bazimisele ukukholelwa ukuthi ukunqotshwa kwekhasi lomsebenzi kubaluleke kakhulu empilweni. Kunjenge "ibanga elide eligijima", lapho owesifazane kufanele athole khona, kungenjalo uzozizwa sengathi "akahlali kalula". Yiqiniso, lena yimiqulu yilabo besifazane abaye banquma ukudela isimo somgcini wendlu, bahamba phambili ezweni lokunqoba nokuphumelela komsebenzi. Namuhla sinqume ukucabangela ngokuziqhenya kwamakhosikazi kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo, ngokuqhathanisa umsebenzi nomncintiswano we-marathon. Ekugcineni, lokhu kuqhathaniswa akuyona neze okungahleliwe, ngoba kuzo zonke izilimi zeqembu lamaRomania-isiJalimane umqondo wokuthi "usebenza" kanye "nomsebenzi" ukhonjiswe igama elifanayo.
Ukufaka
Owesifazane owenza umsebenzi ufana ne-zarulm yowesifazane: into ehambayo engokomzimba ebeka isongela yona ngokwayo futhi imvelo isuke ikhululekile. Akakaze alungele ukuhlehlisela kusasa ukuthi yini okumele yenziwe ngosuku olulandelayo ngaphambi kwalolu suku, futhi ngenxa yalesi sizathu kufanele ahlale emsebenzini ekupheleni okuphumelelayo, okusho ukuthi, ngokusemthethweni, usekuqaleni kosuku olulandelayo lokusebenza, lapho yonke into ingabuyekezwa ngokunemba okufanayo.
Ngomqashi omuhle, njengomthetho, bahlanganisa umuntu ongenhliziyo, ohlakaniphile nobandayo. Zonke lezi zimfanelo ezinhle kakhulu azifani kakhulu nokuziphatha komfazi kuphela: okuzenzekelayo, okungaqondakali, ngokomzwelo. Uma kwenzeka owesifazane ezama, ngosizo lwemizamo yokuzimela, ukufundisa umphathi omuhle kuye, umane nje uyanciphisa isimiso sesifazane kuye. Yilokho nje le nqubo ivame ukunamathela phakathi kwendlela futhi isithombe sowesifazane wesigqila-isigamu siphume.
Abesifazane kaningi bathanda ukusekela umbono wabo konke okwenzekayo nxazonke, ngesimiso esithi "like - like", hhayi "okudingekile - okungadingekile". Amaqembu abesifazane ahlale elawulwa yizithandani, kanye nokuhleba, i-podsizhivaniya, ukukhushulwa okungaxhunyiwe nokuxoshwa. Umsebenzi wabasebenzi ukonakalisa kakhulu ngokwemali engenayo noma ukulinganisa umsebenzi webhizinisi, futhi, nakanjani, njengoba inhliziyo nenhliziyo ikhuluma. Okokugcina, umsikazi wesifazane unomkhuba wokuphatha abaphansi njengabantwana.
Futhi yini eseleyo ekhaya lomndeni? Iqiniso lokuthi inkinga emiphakathini yabo yilabo, abaphathi besifazane ngeke bakutshele, ngoba lokhu banezengqondo zomuntu siqu. Njengomthetho, ingxenye yesibili yendoda enjalo kufanele ibe yindoda enamandla kakhulu. Leyo yinkinga yokwehluleka kwesikhathi isikhathi sokulungiselela, ukugeza nokuhlanza izindleko emndenini kakhulu. Yiqiniso, kukhona imishini yasendlini enokwethenjelwa kanye nemali eyengeziwe umnikazi wendlu ophethe. Kunzima kakhulu ukukhulumisana, ngoba kusihlwa emsebenzini we-careerist ngokuvamile kuphenduka umhlangano wokukhiqiza okukhethayo: efonini (kokubili ekhaya kanye neselula ngesikhathi esifanayo), izinkinga zixoxwa ngazo ngokwazo njengabo, futhi "baphile" ngumngane wokuphila, ngezinye izikhathi abanakho ngisho nemizuzu yokukhuluma ngezihloko zasemhlabeni. Ngokuqondene nombhede, laba besifazane bavame ukukhipha i-paranoia lapho - "abahloniphi, abayithokozi, bayabamba" - futhi lo "umlingani wesithathu" akahambisani nokuya ocansini.
Izinsuku zivuliwe? Njengomthetho, badlula ngokuqhubeka befuna "ukukhulisa izinga": ukuqeqeshwa komuntu siqu, imfundo, izifundo ... Abanye bazama ukuya esikoleni sokuzivocavoca, okuholwa ukuthi bathi abesifazane abanomqondo omuhle kulula ukugibela isiteleka somsebenzi esishayelayo.
Ngezinye izikhathi kwenzeka ukuthi indoda ye-ubiznes-lady, emva kwesikhathi esithile, iqala ukukhululeka ngokuphelele futhi ilahlekelwe yiyo yonke into yokuthola imali ngandlela-thile. Yiqiniso, lokhu akuyona isimo esivamile, kodwa okuhlukile akuzange kulungise. Inkinga yobumama ingenye "itshe elingaphansi kwamanzi" ekubukeni komuntu wesifazane.
Kungani lezi zigxume?
Wonke umuntu uyazi ukuthi abameleli bobulili obunamandla benza umsebenzi noma imali ikakhulukazi ukuze bajabulise le nkosikazi. Incazelo yendabuko yokuqashwa kwabafazi iwukuzimela ngabesilisa. Njengalokhu, namuhla kukhona umuntu, kodwa kusasa akakho. Ngakho-ke, i-careerist isayilungiselela ukuhlukunyezwa ngaphambili. Ngamanye amazwi, ukukopisha.
Uhlangothi lwesibini lomdanso wukuthi i-careerist isivele inomndeni. Umgomo wanoma ubani wethu ukukhululeka kwezinkinga. Inkosikazi ichitha ingxenye yengonyama yasesikhathini sayo emsebenzini nasemisebenzini yebhizinisi (ephakeme umsebenzi, i-denser schedule), okusho ukuthi unamaphesenti angamaphesenti okulungiswa kwalokhu. Emkhakheni wokukhiqiza, ezinye izinto nezinkinga ngezinye izikhathi zingasombulwa kalula. Lowo ongaphansi kwakhe akayena oshade naye noma ingane, okusho ukuthi ngeke iphikisana futhi iphikisane, zonke izicelo ziyogcwaliseka ngaphandle kokuphikisana.
Owesifazane womndeni ubeka imisebenzi kamama wakhe "ngaphandle kokushaya iso" kubathisha, ezikoleni ezizimele, othisha nabanye abomama, ngenkathi eqinisekisa umsebenzi wakhe ogcwele kanye nengeniso ephezulu yezimali. Umholo omuhle, ngaphezu kwezinzuzo eziqondile, kukunika ilungelo eliphelele lokungenzi imisebenzi yasekhaya futhi ugcine umlingani wakho, uma yena, uNkulunkulu engavumeli, kwenzeka ukuthola imali encane. Ngakho isixazululo sezinkinga zomuntu siqu ngokusebenzisa umsebenzi wezemisebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi sikhululekile futhi singabandakanyi ohlangothini oluphambene nalo. Uma uphumelela kakhulu owesifazane webhizinisi, ngokuvikela ngokuvikela uvikela imibono yakhe yomphakathi.
Kulo nkosikazi, ubuholi bobuholi kaningi buyathwala okungapheli. Inani elibaluleke kunazo zonke ubuhlobo bomuntu obumbene - futhi, alas, ayifinyelelwanga. Njengoba izihlobo nabangane bahlukana nayo ngokusebenzisa umkhawulo wemali, nabangaphansi bahlukaniswa. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi uthini, le nkinga ihlobene ngqo nokuzithoba kwamakhosikazi. Into yukuthi ngezinye izikhathi emhlabeni wethu ungahlangana nabamele abesilisa ababuthakathaka, okubandakanya iqembu "labesifazane besinkinga." Futhi lapha akukhathaleli ukuthi bangabasebenzi yini noma cha. Uzoba ngumama wendlu, lokhu kuyoba yinkinga ephelele yezihlobo zakhe, okokuqala, ngenxa yezingane.
Futhi ngokuphambene nalokhu: abameleli bobulili obuhle abangakwazi ukusebenzisa impilo yonke izimfanelo zabo ezinamakhono kanye nezinzuzo - intuition, ukuguquguquka, ukuqonda ngokucophelela abantu abakuzungezile, futhi ngaphezu kwalokho, kanye nazo zonke izici zengqondo ezihambisana nesimo sabo kanye nesimo, zingase zithathwe "emncintiswaneni ukuze uphumelele "kwanoma yikuphi, ngisho nendoda ehlakaniphile kakhulu.
Futhi ekugcineni, okokuqala ezinkulungwaneni zeminyaka, abesifazane banethuba lokuqaphela ngaphandle kwendlu, ngakho ngeke baphinde baphoxiswe emuva. Kodwa njengoba umkhuba ubonisa, inani lamapulangwe wesilisa likhula kakhulu! Akukhona yini lokhu okuyisisekelo sokuthi abaqeqeshi bezezikhundla esikhundleni samadoda bathanda ukuba yedwa?