Ukukhulelwa nokubeletha kusukela ekuqaleni kuya ekupheleni

Ukumazi umuntu, ukuhamba ekukhanyeni kwenyanga kanye nokuqabulisa okuthandekayo kungukuqala kothando olusha. Ukuqhubeka, ukuphila okuhlangene. Futhi kuhle kakhulu ukuza ekhaya ukupheka isidlo somuntu othandekayo, ulale ndawonye bese uvuka. Futhi konke kubonakala kuhle. Kodwa ayikwazi ukuqhubeka nalokhu konke ukuphila kwakhe. Ngifuna okungaphezulu. Inkulumo yokuqala mayelana nezingane, ukukhetha igama, futhi kucacile ngokushesha ukuthi yini eyayingekho.

Kodwa kuyesabeka, kodwa ngokuzumayo ngeke kusebenze, mhlawumbe kukhona okungalungile kimi. Ngizoba ngumama omuhle. Kodwa empeleni, uze uzame, awukho.

Izinsolo zokuqala, ezesabekayo, kodwa kubalulekile ukubonisana nabesifazane. Esimweni esinomzimba wezifo zokwelapha, basho ngokumomotheka, "Ukhulelwe," futhi uyaqaphela ukuthi ulinde isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ngangesaba, kodwa ngilindele futhi ngithemba. Ikhaya emaphikweni enjabulo, ukuze ukwazi ukwazisa ngokushesha izindaba ezithandekayo zenjabulo. Futhi kusihlwa ukumbumbana, ukukhuluma ngokuthi ngubani ozoba, intombazane noma umfana, obonakala sengathi ngubani ozoyithanda kakhulu umntwana.

Kodwa ukuthi ujabule kangakanani, futhi unomthwalo wemfanelo kangakanani kulo mcimbi. Kuningi okumelwe ukwenze ezinyangeni ezingu-9. Ngakho udinga ukulungiselela manje. Indlela enhle kakhulu yokulungiselela umzimba nokuziphatha, ubhalise esikoleni sabomama. Ochwepheshe abanokuhlangenwe nakho bazokusiza ukuba uqaphele ukuthi akuyona inkimbinkimbi, kodwa ukuzivocavoca okudingekayo, ukuze ugcine ifomu lesimo somzimba, lokhu kuzokwenza imisipha igcine ithoni ezokwenza kube lula ukugeleza kokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Amathiphu ochwepheshe wokunakekela ingane yakho azosiza ukugwema izinkinga zesikhathi esizayo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uzoba nethuba lokujwayela amama, ozayo esikhathini esizayo abangaba abangane kanye nenkampani yokuhamba nomntwana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngesikhathi sokubeletha, owesifazane akazizwa ehlukanisiwe nomphakathi. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngaphambi kokufika kwengane, ngokuqinisekile kwakukhona ukuphila okucebile, amaholide ezinkampanini, ukuya emvelweni. Futhi ezinye izindlela zingahamba nezingane enkampanini enhle, lapho izithakazelo zihambisana khona.

Ukuze uqonde futhi wamukele isikhundla sakho ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, xhumana nomntanakho. Vumela isisu singabonakali okwamanje, kodwa wazi ukuthi ingane ingaphakathi nawe, uhlala, okusho ukuthi njengoba noma ngubani ophilayo efuna ukuxhumana. Iqiniso lokuthi akaqondi lutho alisho lutho. Ingane izwa izwi lakho, lizwa i-intonation. Futhi yilokho kuphela okuzokwenza ukuthi ngemva kokuzalwa kuzolwazi kuye. Enye indlela enhle ukulalela umculo. Kungcono ukhethe ukuthula, hhayi izingoma ezinkulu kakhulu. Ikhethelo elihle liyingqayizivele. Lo mculo ukhokhiswa imizwelo, ukuhlanganiswa okukhulu kwemishini kwenza ukusebenza kuma frequencies ahlukene, okujabulisa kakhulu izingane nokuthobisa.
Isimo somzwelo wesifazane ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa sithinteka kakhulu. Ngoba umzimba ukuqhuma kwe-hormonal. Kule nkathi, njengoba kuboniswe ososayensi, inani lemisebenzi namahomoni emzimbeni wesifazane kunabantu abaningi abangazange banikeze iminyaka eyikhulu yokuphila. Ngakho, ukushintsha kwemizwa njalo, ukuphumula. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukusekela abantu abaseduze, umuzwa wokuthi udinga ngempela. Indoda eyokubekezelela zonke izinto ezithintekayo nokufezekisa zonke izifiso iyisekelo elithembekile.

Ukwesaba abesifazane abathola ngaphambi kokubeletha kuyisimo esithile sokwesaba ubuhlungu. Kodwa njengoba ukuhlakanipha okuyaziwayo kusho, kufanele sidlule kuphela lezo zivivinyo esingakunqoba. Ngakho lobu buhlungu buhle futhi. Yini engafaniswa nokuzalwa kokuphila okusha. Ukuze unike umhlaba impilo entsha, kodwa wena ngokwakho umuntu wendabuko oyohlale ekhona futhi angeke ayeke ukuthanda. Kusukela ukumomotheka kwayo, konke ukuhlupheka kuzosuka, igama lokuqala lithi "umama", ozozwakala njengomculo, futhi atshise umphefumulo. Futhi nje-ke uyaqonda ukuthi lokhu kuyisimangaliso esinikezwa nguNkulunkulu. Futhi mbonge uSomandla ngesipho esinjalo esibaluleke kakhulu.