Amanothi ambalwa amanga.
Ungahlabelela wedwa ngeso lengqondo noma ngezifundo enkampanini yabantu abakhulelwe njengabafana. Lezi zinsuku zithandeka kakhulu: ukukhulumisana ngeke kukhulise kuphela ingoma yomculo, kodwa futhi kunika imizwa eminingi emihle. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuhlabelela kungathathelwa indawo ngokugxila izingxoxo: izwi lomama lisebenza kahle kwengane kunayo yonke imithi. Noma kunjalo, ungazithembi wena kuphela. Ukuze uhlukanise okuhlangenwe nakho, bhekisa eziklasini. Umculo we-classic uholela ekuvumelaneni kwesimiso sezinzwa zomphakathi hhayi kuphela kumama, kodwa nangomntwana. Izingane ezazilalela njalo umculo omnandi womculo ngaphambi kokuzalwa zihluke kontanga ezinezinto eziguquguqukayo. Futhi, ngokuphambene nalokho, umculo owonakele, ikakhulukazi edwaleni elinzima, ecindezela isimiso sezinzwa esiyinhloko.
Bhukuda!
Ngendlela efanayo, umuntu angakhula kusuka kwengane umculi onethalente, imbongi noma umdlali wezemidlalo. Phakathi nokukhulelwa, ngaya echibini cishe kuze kube yisikhathi sokubeletha. Khona-ke nendodakazi yami sasihamba ngesifuba, lapho indodakazi yami esanda kuzalwa ibonisa izimangaliso zokudlala. Phakathi kwezinye izinto eziwusizo ezingathuthukiswa enganeni ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwakhe: ikhono lezilimi zakwamanye amazwe, ukuphakama kwemathematika kanye nokukwazi ukuxazulula amapuzzli, intshisekelo yokuphila kwemvelo ... Ukukusiza - izifundo zamanye amazwe, izihlubuki kanye nekhamera kaRubik, izilwane ezifuywayo futhi uhamba ehlathini ...
Imoya enhle kakhulu.
Ngisho noma ungakaze ukhethe ukuthi ufuna ukubona indodana noma indodakazi yakho, awuzange ucabange ngesethi yezimfanelo ezifiseleka kakhulu kunomntwana ozayo, bese uzibandakanya uhlobo oluthile lobuciko futhi ucabange ngobuhle ezinyangeni eziyisishiyagalolunye ezijabulisayo kuzokuzuzisa. Okokuqala, ubuciko buyokhulula ukukhathala futhi kukulethe injabulo, okuzodluliselwa kuwe nakwezinhlanzi. Okwesibili, hhayi kuphela abantu bezobuciko, kodwa futhi nezimo ezihambisanayo ezihambisanayo - labo abahambisana nempumelelo banokucabanga okubalulekile. Ngakho-ke, ukwakhiwa kwamakhono okudala enganeni, awukhulumi neze ummeleli we-bohemia ozayo. Okokuqala, ukhula umuntu onolwazi oluningi, obuza imibuzo.
Uma ungafuni ukuthuthukisa noma yikuphi izimfanelo ezinganeni yakho, kodwa nje ufuna ukukunikeza induduzo enkulu nobumpofu esiswini sakho, khona-ke udinga ukuthula, imizwa emihle, imihlangano nabantu abathandekayo nabathandekayo, ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi. Uma umsebenzi wakho uhlotshaniswa nokucindezeleka noma ukuxhumana nabantu abaningi, kungcono ukuwuguqula noma ukungasebenzi ngaso sonke isikhathi ngesikhathi ukhulelwe. Izazi zengqondo ziye zaqaphela ukuthi isikhathi esiningi owesifazane okhulelwe kwakudingeka afake amalungelo akhe, izingxabano ezingaphezu kwalokho ayenakho nokulindela kwengane, kakhulu amathuba okuzalwa komzimba obuthakathaka noma okungenani ingane engenamaphilo futhi ekhwazayo. Owesifazane, okhulelwa kwakhe okwenziwe esimweni esiyinkimbinkimbi yengqondo, uvame ukubhekana nobudlova, ukuvalwa, noma ukuziphatha okulimazayo kwengane yakhe. Umntwana esibelethweni somama akudingeki ukuba athuthukise kuphela, kodwa futhi ukuxhumana naye, ukuze amjabulise. Akumangalisi ukuthi omagazini abathandekayo babonisa izithombe zendlela abayeni abanothando abahlupha ngayo abafazi abakhulelwe nxazonke. Lokhu akuyona nje ukubukeka okuhle, kodwa futhi kunencazelo ephakeme. Ngakho, ubaba wesikhathi esizayo ubonisa uthando lwakhe kumuntu omncane. Izingane ngokuvamile ziphendula ngalokhu ngokunyakaza.
Sawubona, isisu!
Ngakho-ke, nengane ngesikhathi ukhulelwe udinga ukuxhumana okuningi. Ekuseni, tshela ku "Good morning" futhi u-iron isisu sakho. Ngitshele ukuthi ulindele kanjani umhlangano wakho, ukuthi uyayithanda kanjani. Ngesikhathi sokuhamba, ngemuva kokubona okuthile okuthakazelisayo, wabelane ngombono nomntanakho, futhi, ngokushaya isisu sakhe.