Kwenzeka kanjani
Ukuveza imicabango efihliwe ngemidwebo, ukhulula izifiso zakho ephepheni noma ekubunjweni okuqoshiwe, uqonde ukuthi yiyiphi inkinga, susa "iziqeshana" zangaphakathi. Ucwaningo lwamuva lwaseMelika luye lwabonisa ukuthi iziguli zomdlavuza ezenziwe ngomdwebo noma ezidweba izinyanga ezine nje kuphela, zathola ubuhlungu obuncane, zaqeda ukulala nokucindezeleka. Isiphetho: ukwelashwa kwezobuciko kudlulisela amandla angalungile kumzila omuhle. Ngendlela yokwelapha yobuciko - usizo lomntwana omncane, ungaqonda ukuthi ingane ibonakala kanjani kulokho noma kwenye isiteshi sokudala.
Isebenza kanjani
Uma udweba, ungacabangi kusengaphambili nokuthi uzokwenza kanjani. Konke kufanele kuvele ekuphepheni komphefumulo, ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngesikhathi izandla zisasebenza, ubuchopho bukhululekile ngokuphelele emizimbeni emibi. Ekupheleni komsebenzi isazi sezokwelapha sibuza iziguli ukuthi zibeke amazwana ngokuningiliziwe "zobuciko" bazo, ukuthi zibadala kanjani nokuthi zihumusha kanjani manje.
Phakathi nomsebenzi, iziguli zithola izimpendulo ezinembile emibuzweni ehlushwa isikhathi eside. Ngisho noma umuntu engakwazi ukuyiqaphela ekupheleni, ke ngesikhathi sokudweba uyasusa ukukhathazeka.
Imidwebo yezingane kanye nokuchazwa kwabo
Ukwelashwa kwezobuciko kusetshenziselwa ukusebenzisana nezingane. Isivivinyo esivame kakhulu ukuthi izazi zengqondo ziphakamisa izingane ukuthi zidwebe umndeni lapho umntwana ehlala khona. Ngokusho ukuthi ngubani nokuthi kuboniswe kanjani, singasho ngokuphathelene nomndeni.
Umuntu oqakatheke kakhulu yiyona ingane emele owokuqala, idweba ngokucophelela. Ngakho-ke, ngokubukeka, umama obuthakathaka, omncane, kodwa onamandla angase angabi nje kuphela akhulele noyise, kodwa futhi uphakeme ngaphezu kwakhe.
Isithombe esikhulu kanye "nemihlobiso" ehlukahlukene ifakazela ku-egocentrism yayo. Umuntu omncane "ukhuluma" wezinkathazo nomqondo wokwenqaba.
Lahla umdwebo
Eyesaba ukwenza iphutha, izingane eziningi zenqaba ukuphinda uphumelele. Kusuka kumaphutha, akekho ozivikela emzimbeni, zama ukubuyisela lo msebenzi nengane.
Vula umlomo wokuklabalaza, izibhamu, izinhlanzi, amazinyo abukhali, ameva, ameva, izithombe zokudla, izikhali, izinhlekelele, izinhlekelele zemvelo - ukuhlukunyezwa noma ukwesaba.
Ukungcola (izingubo ezigqokile, izibonda phansi, izitsha ezingcolile, njll) - ukukhathazeka kwangaphakathi kwengane, ukuphazamiseka kwengqondo, umqondo ongapheli wecala.
Isithombe sezitho zangasese emidwebeni yezingane kuyisignali esesabekayo. Imigqa eqinile, eqondile ekudwebeni - ukuzimisela, ukulinganisela ngokomzwelo.
Imidwebo yeshidi lonke - ubufakazi bokuzihlonipha okuvelele, ukuthambekela kokuziqhenya.
Ubukhulu obuncane bemidwebo - ukuzithoba okuphansi, ukwethembeka ngokomzwelo, ukubonakala okukhona kokucindezeleka.
Ngosizo lokwelapha ubuciko, abantu abadala bazokwazi ukunquma ukuthi ingane isetshenziswe kanjani komunye umsebenzi noma omunye umsebenzi, kuyini ukwesaba yena nokuthi kuyini injabulo kuye. Iningi lezingane ezithanda imidlalo esebenzayo nabangani noma ngokuvamile zingenangqondo, zingenza umqondo wengane enhle kakhulu futhi enokuthula ekulashweni kwezobuciko. Ukwelashwa kwezobuciko kusiza umuntu nengane ukuba aqaphele konke okuhle noma okubi, ephepheni ingane ingakwazi ukuveza imicabango yakhe, okuhlangenwe nakho kwayo.