Khohlwa ngobugovu
Indoda ikhululekile kakhulu ukuhlala uma umkakhe ethatha imisebenzi yomgcini wendawo. Uhlanza indlu, uhlanza amasokisi nezinye izinto, uzilungiselele futhi ahlanze izitsha, akwenze ube massage, futhi futhi futhi embhedeni akayeki ukumangala ngokumangalisayo. Njengoba bethi, ukudweba kwamafutha. Umyeni uletha imali endlini, enikeze umndeni, futhi ... njalo imisebenzi yakhe yokubambisana inqunyelwe kulokhu. Ubugovu ngendlela ehlanzekile! Futhi kufanele ulwa nazo zonke izindlela. Uma ungazange uphathe ukususa umkhuba omubi wabalingiswa ngaphambi kokuba othandekayo akhulelwe, sekuyisikhathi sokwenza manje. Emva kwakho konke, kwaziwa ukuthi ngesikhathi sokulindela ingane owesifazane uzwela kakhulu. Ngakho-ke kungani ungakhumbuli izinsuku zokuqala zokuthandana futhi ungabi umkhonto oqinekile futhi ocabangelayo uma umuzwa ugcwele futhi ubugovu budlula igunya? Isikhathi sokumbonisa indawo yakho, noma kunalokho, ukuyeka indawo yakho empilweni yakho. Permanently!
Ubulili buyaqhubeka
Kuyinto engavamile, kodwa ngisho nasekhulwini lama-21, abanye abantu bayaqiniseka ukuthi lapho kuqala ukukhulelwa empilweni yocansi, ungafaka isiphambano. Lokhu akulona iqiniso. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubulili bungenza futhi kufanele buyenze kuze kube yilapho kuzalwa. Yiqiniso, kuzodingeka siqaphele, ngoba akuzona zonke izikhundla nezindawo lapho umbhangqwana osetshenziswa khona manje kuyamukeleka. Futhi uma ubuhlobo obuseduze bubekwe yilo muntu, manje sekuyisikhathi sokulalela izifiso zomkayo. Ngikholelwa, ngezinye izikhathi ikhanda lami limzwisa ubuhlungu ngempela ... Ngokuqinisekile, uzibheka njengomnikazi wendwangu yembhedeni (hhayi ngomqondo wokubazi, kodwa osondelene naye). Kodwa kungaba ngcono ukuvuselela ukuzethemba kwakho ngokufunda izincwadi ezikhethekile ukuze ucabange ukuthi yini engabangela ukuphazamiseka, futhi yini, ngokuphambene nalokho, ujabule esikhathini esithakazelisayo sokukhulelwa. Uyomangala ukuthi insimu yokuhlola iyinkimbinkimbi kangakanani. Kwenzeka, Nokho, ukuthi umama wesikhathi esizayo ucansi ukuyeka ukujabulisa. Kulokhu futhi kufanele uphathwe ngokuqonda, kodwa kungcono ukukhuluma ngokukhululekile. Kungenzeka ukuthi uzokwazi ukuthola ukuyekethisa. Phela, izimo ezimbi azikwenzeki!
School of Ukupheka
Uvame kangakanani ukuzwa emadodeni amagama athi: "Umkami upheka kakhulu!" Baziqhenya ngokuzikhethela, ukuzithemba futhi ngisho nokunganaki labo abafazi babo abangenalo ikhono ekhishini. Kodwa-ke, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa ne-receptor yamantombazane, izibonakaliso zenzeka: lo usawoti ungase ubonakale unganqamuki, unomnandi-ungenasiphundu. Ungenzi izicelo ngesikhathi esisodwa. Ekugcineni, usawoti uhlale usawoti usawoti, pepper ku-pepper, ushukela esitsheni seshukela. Mane nje ungeze buthule ukuthi ulahlekile ukunambitha. Futhi kangcono, "linda" esitofu ngokwayo. Akuyona into yokuthi amadoda abhekwa njengabapheki abahle kakhulu. Bheka ukuthi ubani ophethe isikhundla sompheki ezindaweni zokudlela eziningi. Madoda! Ngakho bheka izinhlelo zokupheka, funda izincwadi ngokupheka, ubeke i-apron yakho futhi - phambili, ezingxenyeni ezingaziwa zobuciko bokupheka. Okokuqala, imizamo yakho kanye nokuhlangenwe nakho kwakho kuzokwazisa umlingani wakho. Okwesibili, kuyinto entsha futhi cishe i-adventure. Okwesithathu, kungenzeka ukuthi uzothola ithalenta lompheki futhi kusukela manje ngeke uvumele owesifazane ukuba apheke ikhilomitha. Futhi lapho, ubona, uzoqala ukuhambisa ukudluliswa kwamakholishi noma ukushicilela incwadi yezindlela zakho zokupheka. Khona-ke uzobonga umkakho ngokukunika ithuba lokungathi ubaba nje, kodwa futhi ukuthola amathalenta amasha kuwe. Ngendlela, okufanayo kusebenza kwezinye imisebenzi yasendlini. Ubani owaziyo, kodwa ngokuzumayo, uthanda ukusula uthuli futhi ugeze phansi, kodwa awukwazi ngakho ngoba ujwayele ukwenza okuningi kumama wakho, futhi manje umkakho.
Usathanda
Abanye abesifazane ngezinye izikhathi bacabanga ukuthi ngokukhulelwa balahlekelwa ukuheha kwabo. Lokhu akunjalo! Yiqiniso, ama-moms esizayo asakazeke kakhulu kunamantombazane esifundazweni esivamile, enganaki futhi engaphenduli kwezinye izinto. Kuhle! Ukukhulelwa kuthatha izinyanga eziyisishiyagalolunye kuphela, futhi ukungabikho kwengqondo akuveli emaminithini okuqala okukhulelwa. Ngokuqondene nezinguquko zangaphandle, zibonakala kubantu abangavamile ukuhlangabezana neyakho, kodwa hhayi kuwe, abayibona njalo ngosuku olulodwa. Futhi noma ngabe izinguquko zisobala, noma kunalokho, ebusweni, khona-ke lokhu nakho kuyesikhashana. Ungabeki ukuthanda isigamu sakho ngoba i-pimple yakho iphuma ekhanda lakhe noma ngoba ibonakala iphelile namuhla? Ngakho kholisa owesifazane ngalokhu, endleleni, akukho lutho oluyinkimbinkimbi. Konke lokhu usudlulile kakade, lapho unakekela ngokucophelela umfazi wesikhathi esizayo.