Ukulala ebuhlotsheni: isifo noma into edingekile? Izimo lapho sisebudlelwaneni namadoda.
Amanga atholakala yonke indawo: emsebenzini, ekhaya, ngothando, ebuhlotsheni obunobungane nobulili. Sisho ukuthi simi emgwaqeni ngenxa yengozi, lapho silala nje ukuze sisebenze. Ezingxoxweni nabangani bakhe: "Uthanda kanjani izinwele zami?" - Siphendula ngokuthi "Uhle kakhulu", ngisho noma empeleni sicabanga ngendlela ehluke kakhulu. "Ungakwazi yini ukuboleka izinkulungwane ezimbalwa ngamasonto amabili?" - "Uyazi, anginiki umholo. Ngingathanda, kodwa izinkinga zemali. " "Angingcono kakhulu?" - "Ungubani wena! Ubheka okuhle! "Futhi bonke kulowo moya.
Ukuqamba amanga "kuyisenzo lapho umuntu oyedwa ekhohlisa omunye ngokwenza ngokuzithandela, ngaphandle kokusaziso ngaphambi kwemigomo yakhe futhi ngaphandle kwesicelo esicacisiwe esivela kumuntu ohlukumezekile ukuba angakhulumi iqiniso."
Ngomuntu siqu, ngibelana ngemibono "yokuxhunyelelwa" nokuthi "amanga." I-Priviraniya, okungenani ekuqondeni kwami, into encane, engenacala, engabangeli ukulimala okukhulu kwabanye. Ngezinye izikhathi kudingekile.
Ngothando lobuhlobo, ngiyanitshela, asikho ngaphansi, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nangaphezu kokuphila okuvamile.
Njengoba ngikhulume nabangane abaningi besifazane nabangane bami, ngakwazi ukukhomba izimo eziningana lapho siphendulela ngaso sonke isikhathi ubuhlobo nomuntu. Ngakho ...
FALSE No. 1. Silinganisa i-orgasm
Ngeshwa, kuvamile kakhulu emibhangqwaneni yonke ubudala. Futhi akusi njalo ngaso sonke isikhathi "okomakhelwane" noma imibhangqwana eye yaba ndawonye iminyaka eyishumi. Izibalo azikho ithemba elikhulu.
Inombolo ye-FALSE 2. Sisikhathi sokuthi sithanda indlela apheka ngayo
Umbono ovamile kakhulu ukuthi wonke amadoda alungiselela kahle. Kumele ngidumise wena - hhayi bonke. Noma anginalo inhlanhla nabo.
Indoda yakho ethandekayo / umyeni wakho wavusa kakhulu kunokwenza ukudla kwasekuseni ngakho-ke, ukukujabulisa. Ukudla kwasekuseni kwakuwukuthi, ukubeka kahle, hhayi okuhlwabusayo kakhulu. Amaqanda aphuziwe, ikhofi ephunyukayo, isinkwa esivela ku-rye high-calorie isinkwa, hhayi okudlayo, njengoba uthanda, futhi ijusi ayifakiwe ngokushesha. Ungazivezi ngokushesha "fi!" Ngalokhu, ngoba ufuna nje ukumangalela. Yebo, umuntu wakho upheka kabi, akafaki ijusi futhi adle isinkwa esimhlophe nebhotela. Kodwa umbuzo wakhe: "Uyithande yini, darling?" - Yebo, kufanele uphendule: "Kwakuhle kakhulu", "Ngiyabonga ngendlakufesi enhle kakhulu, othandekayo wami" noma into enjalo. Uma ukudla okuphekwe yindoda yakho kungadli nhlobo, zama ukumane ufune ukudlala kwasekuseni ngezwi elifana nalokhu: "Ngiyabonga, angilambi," "Angidli ukudla kwasekuseni ngokuqinile, nginezinkomishi ze-mandarin nezinkomishi kuphela. Kodwa noma kunjalo, ngiyabonga ngokufuna ukungenza ngizizwe ngijabule. "
FALSE # 3. Isikhathi sokuthi thina ngokwethu siyakuthanda ukupheka, ukugeza, ukuhlanza kanye nensimbi
Ngomuntu, ngangivame ukuhlangana nabesifazane abathintekayo ekhaya. Ngiyazonda ukugeza, ukufaka izinsimbi, ukuhlanza ... Futhi nje angikwazi ukupheka. Kodwa ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, kufanele sibe ngumsikazi omhle wokujabulisa hhayi kuphela okhethiweyo wakho, kodwa futhi nonina. Ngakho-ke, sihlale senza wonke umsebenzi oseduze nendlu ngokumomotheka, futhi uma umuntu ongcono efuna ukusiza, thina-ke, sinqabe usizo lwakhe, ngokujulile, ngiphupha ukukuthumela konke isikhathi eside.
FALSE No. 4. isikhathi sokuthi sithande ngempela umama wakhe
Ngezimpelasonto, imibhangqwana eminingi inomqondo onjengokuthi "usuku lomzali". Khona-ke uvakashela abazali bakhe, khona-ke wena ngokwakho uya ekhaya. Ngicabanga ukuthi kuyamjabulisa ukulalela imibono kamama mayelana "kodwa uLyuba (intombazane yangaphambili yendodana yakhe ethandekayo) uSasha akazange ahlanze kuphela amasokisi akhe, kodwa futhi waletha ukudla kwasekuseni embhedeni," noma "into ethile endlini yakho ayihlanjululwanga. Ingabe akunakwenzeka ngempela ukuba ngumuntu ohlala naye "nakho konke okukulo moya ... Kodwa nokho, naphezu kwakho konke, siyaqhubeka sikhuthazela imihlangano enjalo ukuze silondoloze ukuthula emndenini kuphela, kodwa nezethu.
FALSE No. 5. Isikhathi sokuthi sithande ibhola
Ukuze nginqobe uSasha (insizwa yami yangaphambili), kwadingeka ngichithe cishe yonke ihlobo enkundleni yebhola. Ngaphezu kwalokho, angizange ngiphuthelwe kuphela umdlalo wakhe owakuthandayo we-CSKA Moscow, kodwa ubuhlungu lapho umngane wami esanda kuxosha ibhola egcekeni lethimba lomakhelwane. Ngokwethembeka, ngakwazi ukunqoba inhliziyo yakhe, kepha uthando lwangempela lwebhola alukwazanga ukufundiswa. Futhi umbala obomvu obomvu awuhambisani neze nhlobo. Ngakho-ke, inoveli yethu yahlala ezinyangeni ezimbili kuphela. Futhi inzondo yebhola, ngokubona kwami, ngeke idlule kakade.
FALSE No. 6. Sikholelwa ukuthi sikhonta ama roses
Isikhathi se-bouquet-candy siphelile. Ngeshwa, kuvame ukuhamba ngokushesha kunalokho esingacabanga. Manje izimbali nezinkathazo zikhanya kuphela kumaholide amakhulu: usuku lokuzalwa, Unyaka Omusha, Usuku Luka-Valentine no-Mashi 8. Futhi-ke, iphutha linye nelinye kuphela lilinganiselwe kwisiqephu sezintambo ezibomvu. Yiqiniso, asikwazi ukutshela umuntu ngokuqondile ukuthi ama-roses asevele ehleka usuka kithi noma ukungezwani komzimba kuzovela maduzane. Senza sengathi zithandwa kakhulu, izimbali ezifunwa kakhulu emhlabeni.
FALSE No. 7. Isikhathi sokuthi asiqondi izimoto, amakhompiyutha nezinye izinto zokusebenza
Kudala kudlule lezo zinsuku lapho, ukuze siqonde ikhompiyutha, ukufaka uhlelo lwe-anti-virus noma ukuthululela uphethiloli emathangi, sidinga usizo lomuntu. Esigcekeni sekhulu lama-21 - siyaziqonda izimoto zethu, siyazi ukuthi singalungisa kanjani thina ngokwethu, nakumakhomphyutha esiwaqonda kanye nabamele abesilisa abanesibindi esinamandla. Kodwa namanje ... kumele kube namadoda okungenani into ewusizo, ngakho-ke, sifana nama-blondes eqiniso nangokwemvelo (amantombazane, angakhubeki, ngingumuntu onokwemvelo ngokwemvelo) - sicela usizo nganoma yisiphi isikhathi esifanele. Indoda kumele iqinise, futhi kufanele simsize kulokhu.
Ukuqamba amanga kungena empilweni yethu yansuku zonke ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi asikwazi ukuyiqaphela, futhi uma sikuqaphela, asikholi lutho, ngoba ngezinye izikhathi thina ngokwethu senza okufanayo.
Angikwazi ukukubiza ukuba ufunde ukuqamba amanga yonke indawo futhi njalo. Uma ujwayele ukutshela njalo iqiniso kuphela, ngikuhawukela ngomona omhlophe. Futhi uma ujwayele ukukhuluma amanga ngokuphambene nalokho - ngikukwazisa ukuba ungahambi kahle nalo mkhuba onobungozi, ngoba ungadlala nehlaya elinonya nawe.
Ukufingqa ngenhla, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi ukuqamba amanga noma ukungamanga kuyindaba yomuntu ngamunye. Ungafundi lokhu ngokuqondile. Kudingekile ukuba ulale nomqondo, ucabange ngalokho amazwi akho nezenzo zakho ezingalimaza noma ngisho nokuguqula isiphetho somunye umuntu.
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