Ukuvuka ekuseni, ngokungazelelwe uqaphele ukuthi ube nephupho "elithakazelisayo" kakhulu. Ngaphambi kokuvusa, wawuyisancinza sodakah, ugcwalisa konke okwenzayo. Wenza umdanso wesisu, kancane kancane uphonsa zonke izingubo zabo ezibonakalayo, bese uthatha umhlalaphansi ekamelweni.
Futhi eduze kokubamba umlingani ongenakulindela. Ngokuzumayo ube namahloni phambi kwakhe ukuthi "ungowesifazane oncibilikile." Kodwa ungazitholi icala ngazo zonke izono ezifayo ngesikhathi esisodwa, awuyena wesifazane owonakele, uvele ube nephupho eliyingozi. Amaphupho ama-Erotic owesifazane amlethela injabulo yokuziphatha kulokho akubona.
Kungani kufike amaphupho ahlukumezayo? Futhi basho ukuthini?
Okokuqala, ungazitsheli masinyane, amaphupho ahlukumezayo - lokhu kuvamile. Amaphesenti angu-10 kuwo wonke amaphupho, anesimo esibucayi - efihlekile noma enganqamuki. Ukubonakala kwamaphupho anjalo kumaphupho akho kungabangelwa izici ezihlukahlukene. Isibonelo, egazini kungamane ukwandise izinga lamahomoni - ezinsukwini ezithile zomjikelezo noma ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, - isifiso sithola indawo kule fomu.
Esinye isizathu singase sibe sengqondo, ngosizo lwamaphupho ahlukumezayo, uyaziwa njengowesifazane. Impilo yakho ayifuni futhi ayizinhle, imibala ekhanyayo yobuthongo ingeziwe kuso.
Ungaphathi amaphupho akho ngqo, ubona njengesiqondiso sesenzo. Ungacabangi, uma ulele embhedeni nomphathi wakho ozondayo, ukuthi uqale ngokumthanda naye ngasese. Ungagijimeli eziphethweni.
Ukuqhathaniswa nenkanyezi. Uma ufuna ukufinyelela ezinye izindawo eziphakeme, ungaphupha ngoRichard Gere. Lokhu ukudukisa izinhliziyo zabesifazane, kuzothatha inhliziyo yakho ephusheni. Ubulili nomuntu onjalo kungase kubonakale njengenganekwane, kodwa ungathwali lo mzwelo.
Uthando nomuntu ongaziwayo. Ekuphileni kwangempela, awunazo izinzwa ezanele zokuphila, uyaxosha ngemuva kokushicilelwa nokungafundiwe. Emva kwalokhu iphupho, cabanga ngalokho ongakwenza futhi ufuna ukushintsha empilweni yakho.
Ubulili nokujwayele okungajwayelekile. Empeleni awukwazi neze, kodwa ephusheni uyabathanda. Kodwa akuyona ukuxhumana okuyimfihlo phakathi kwakho. Futhi iqiniso lokuthi ufuna ngempela ukuba into efana naye. Ephusheni, uyazi kahle umzimba wakhe nomphefumulo wakhe, njengokungathi uhlaziya ubuhlobo bangempela.
Isimo sabantu besifazane. Ungagijimeli eziphethweni. Une-orientation evamile. Uma uphupha ukuthi wenza uthando kumuntu wesifazane, kusho ukungabi nokufudumala nokuthandwa.
Ungatshele othembekile ngamaphupho akho, ngisho nangendlela yamahlaya. Angeke akuzwisise futhi uzocabanga ukuthi usho kahle embhede. Futhi kuyoba isikhathi eside kakhulu ukuthukuthela kuwe ngenxa yesimo esinjalo sokuhlekisa esiphusheni.
Kungcono ukucabanga ngephupho lakho, kungani uphupha ngalokhu noma leso senzakalo. Lokhu kusho ukuthini? Ukuphendula imibuzo, ungathola intambo eholayo esuka emaphupheni kuya eqinisweni, ngokubheka ukuphela komcibisholo ongakunqamula yonke i-tangle.
Uma ukhumbule izikhathi eziqhakazile zokulala kwakho, okujabule kakhulu. Buza oshade naye ukuba azame empeleni, ngicabanga ukuthi uzoyithanda kakhulu. Nalapha futhi, iseluleko, ungasho ukuthi usubonile kakade ephusheni noRichard Gere.
Futhi ungesabi amaphupho akho ahlukumezayo, aletha kuphela ukwaneliseka kokuziphatha komuntu wesifazane. Ngosizo lwabo ungakwazi ukuvula ukujula okungaziwa komphefumulo wakho. Ukubuka okusha ezweni elikuzungezile, kumlingani wakho othandekayo. Emva kwala maphupho, umphefumulo wakho uhlabelela futhi ufuna ukuphunyuka, futhi owesifazane ojabulayo uyisibopho sayo yonke imizamo engcono kakhulu.