Ngaphambilini, uthande ukuhamba epaki, uye kuma-movie, futhi manje ukuhamba okuhlangene kunqunyelwe ukuya esitolo. Noma yimuphi umbhangqwana ufuna ukubuyisa ubuhlobo ebuhlotsheni babo. Emazweni anamuhla, ukuhlwa kobuhlobo kuhlelwe ngamashumi ama-halves ikakhulukazi ngamadoda. Amantombazane amaningi angathanda ukwazi ukuthi angalungiselela kanjani ukusihlwa ngothando kumfana ukuze amkhumbule isikhathi eside.
Okokuqala, indoda nowesifazane bahluke ngeso lengqondo kusihlwa. Kubesifazane, ithuba lokugqoka izingubo ezinhle kusihlwa kubaluleke kakhulu, kanti amadoda angathokozi ngezicathulo zakudala, i-tuxedos, kepha bakhetha isitayela esihloniphekile kakhulu izingubo. Intombazane iphupho lokulungiselela isidlo sokuthanda uthando inombolo enkulu yezidlo ezihlukahlukene zangaphandle ngamazwi athakazelisayo, kodwa umfana uwanele ukuba adle inhliziyo enomnandi futhi enhle kakhulu. Sithanda ukulalela umculo omnandi omnandi futhi ngezinye izikhathi sidansa, ngakho-ke, njengoba iningi labantu likhetha emva kokudla okunomsoco okuphumuzayo nje, ukuyeka izinkinga zansuku zonke ngokubukela i-TV nebhodlela likabhiya.
Amantombazane, athi "kusihlwa ebusuku", kusho ukuthi le ngxoxo iyinkulumo ejabulisayo yokuphuza iwayini, i-champagne noma ezinye iziphuzo zokuphuza, iphenduka emidlalweni emincane futhi ilula ukudlala. Amadoda, leli gama linikeza ithemba elingaphezulu ngobusuku obusiphepho kunokuba ingxoxo eqotho nokudla okungavamile okungavamile.
Nginganikeza iseluleko esithile mayelana nendlela yokuhlela ubusuku bothando ngomfana, hhayi wena othandekayo. Okokuqala, akudingekile ukuthi ugqoke ingubo enhle kusihlwa. Ungakhetha ihembe elihle le-silk elikhomba umfana wakho ngokuqhubeka nokuphefumula kusihlwa sothando. Futhi, ihembe lomuntu lizobukeka lihle kakhulu phezu kwezingubo zangaphansi ezinhle. Ukubukeka kwakho okukhululekile kuzokusiza othandekayo wakho ukuthi angaboni ngezembatho zangasese esikhundleni sezambatho zebhizinisi.
Okwesibili, ukudla kwendodana yakho kufanele kube nokudla okunomsoco, okumnandi futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, okujwayele futhi othandekayo. Kuye, kunjalo. Ngisho noma upheka i-steak, amafrimu aseFrance, i-olivier, inkukhu ethosiwe kanye nezinye ukudla okunzima kakhulu. Ngendlela, inyama kufanele ibe khona esidlweni sokuthanda. Ukuba nesidlo senyama etafuleni kuyomjabulisa othandekayo wakho. Kuhle uma wenza inyama enkulu. Khona-ke "othandekayo" wakho othandekayo uzizwa njengomuntu ogcwele, owanelisekile futhi uzoshintshela "emagagasi" okudingayo - yilokho esikufunayo. Khumbula: ukudla akufanele kube kakhulu. Ukuhlukumezeka ngokweqile kusongela ukuphumula umfana wakho kakhulu, futhi uvele elele embhedeni, okungamukeleki kithi.
Okwesithathu, kubalulekile ukukhetha utshwala obulungile, kodwa ikakhulukazi ngesamba esincane. Iwayini elibomvu lingcono kakhulu inyama, futhi inhlanzi ingcono ihlanganiswe newayini elimhlophe. Kufanele ushiye ubhiya ne-champagne ukuze ungalimazi ubusuku bothando. Uma ulandela wonke amathiphu angenhla, khona-ke usuke uphelelwa ngisho namakhandlela athethelelwe, umculo wothando kanye nezimbali ezinhle, kodwa namanje awunciki ukudansa. Ngemuva kokudla ukudla, masinyane uye ekubukeni kwefilimu ezithandekayo zothando (emva kokudla okuthandwayo, amantombazane avame ukuphikisana) namafilimu ahlukumezayo (futhi uyathemba ukuqhutshwa kobudlova ekamelweni lokulala!).
Ingxenye yokugcina yebusuku izokukhipha ekhishini ukuya ekamelweni, kodwa kufanele wenze amasheya amancane okudla okulula, izithelo namajusi. Ngokungazelelwe ewusizo ... Yebo, futhi ukwenza uhlelo kusengaphambili nakho akukubi. Emantombazaneni okuthiwa "dessert" bayalulekwa kakhulu ukuba badansa umdanso wokudabuka komuntu othandekayo. Umdanso wokudambisa ekukhanyeni umyeni wakho uzokukhumbula isikhathi eside. Ngenxa yalesi simo, kuyoba mnandi uma ufunda umdanso ongathandwayo, othakazelisayo wesempumalanga. Ungamangala okhethiweyo wakho nge-flexible, plasticity kanye nekhono lokushintsha.
Uma kulobu busuku uzithola ube mnandi kakhulu, ujabulise, omuhle, ungalokothi ukhumbule futhi uthandane, ngakho-ke, nakolunye isikhathi uzobe ulindelwe futhi uphendule ama-appetizer ahlanzekile, futhi udonsa kancane, futhi ulungiselele bonke abathandekayo bakho njengenduna evela kumnandi.
Ekuphetheni, ngifuna ukusho ukuthi kungcono ukuhlela kusihlwa ngothando ngosuku oluvulekile. Hlela uthando lwakho ngoLwesihlanu noma ngoMgqibelo, ukuze usuku olulandelayo lube lusebenza kokubili. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi ungasakwazi ukugcoba embhedeni, kunokugxuma ewashi ukuze usebenze. Ukuphaphama kancane, okusekelwe ngokubonakala okucacile kwesibungu esikhulu, ubusuku obuhle, kuyokwenza isimo esiyingqayizivele esifana nobusuku bokugcina obuthandana. Ngokuvamile, baqaphe amantombazane abathandekayo!