Izinyembezi zabesifazane njengezikhali ezinamandla, yenza amadoda. Benza isihawu futhi baphelelwe ithemba. Futhi benza kanjani abesifazane - izinyembezi zamadoda? Ngezinye izikhathi, abesifazane bayakhohlwa ukuthi amadoda angabantu abafanayo abanomphefumulo nenhliziyo. Amadoda abuye ahlangane futhi afune ukufudumala nokuthandwa.
Kungani amadoda ekhala. Kunezizathu eziningana zokukhala izinyembezi zesilisa, noma izinyembezi ezinzima. Uma umuntu edonsa le nyembezi, khona-ke akabe "yi-rag", akakwazi nje ukuqukethe kuye konke ukufutheka okwenzekayo. Futhi umuntu onamandla kakhulu angabonisa imizwa yabo. Futhi obuthakathaka bayokwesaba ukuhleka usulu.
Inhlekelele eyingozi kunazo zonke engenza umuntu akhale ngukufa komuntu oseduze nezihlobo: abangane. Nakuba kule nkathi enzima yokuphila, umane nje kufanele ahlale eqinile ekuphileni. Thatha zonke izinkinga zokungcwaba wena. Lena inqubo eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, idinga amandla akhethekile. Kodwa, ngesikhathi lapho wonke amalungiselelo emingcwabo esephelile, le ndoda iyaxosha futhi iphume nayo, noma ihlabe isilwane, lokho kungenathemba, noma nje isihlathi esizozithenga izinyembezi zomuntu.
Amadoda amaningi kakhulu angeke agweme izinyembezi uma ehlukana nomuntu othandekayo. Abanayo amandla okulwa, ukubuyisela othandekayo. Kuzo zonke izinto ezenzekayo, baqala ukuba nenhlanhla, futhi, njengabesifazane, bangena emilanjeni. Kodwa kuyoba umzuzu owodwa walezizinyembezi ukuthi akekho ozobona.
Phakathi nezinsizakalo zesonto, amadoda akhombisa futhi izinyembezi. Kodwa, sekuvele kakade, uNkulunkulu ungena emphefumulweni wabo, futhi wembula zonke izingxenye ezifihlekile zomphefumulo. Kulo mzuzu lo muntu uba ngokwakhe, futhi akabonakali amandla akhe nobukhulu besilisa. Uba ingane nje, ehlanzekile futhi evulekile.
Abesifazane bacabanga ukuthi yibo kuphela abangakwazi ukuthola ngentshiseko isifo sezingane. Yilokho kuphela abakwazi ukuzwelana nabanye. Indoda ekuqondeni owesifazane, kaningi ibhuloho elimangalisa elingakwazi ukukhombisa imizwelo yalo ngaphansi kwanoma iziphi izimo.
Uma abesifazane kuphela bebazi. Kwenzekani enhliziyweni yomuntu ngalesi sikhathi. Kumzwisa ubuhlungu futhi kunesizungu ngalezi zinsuku. Akakwazi ukukhala njengowesifazane, akakwazi ukubiza abangane bakhe futhi akhale evikini lakhe. Ngoba lenziwe kusuka kwesinye "ukuhlolwa", isikhathi eside kunomuntu wesifazane.
Awusoze wazibuza ukuthi kungani abantu befa kaningi kaningi esikhathini esivuthiwe ngokwengeziwe kusuka ekuhlaselweni kwenhliziyo. Ngenxa yokuthi abakwazi ukubonisa imizwelo yabo, izinyembezi zabo. Konke lokhu kuhlala ngaphakathi kwabo, futhi kuphula inhliziyo kancane kancane zibe yizicucu ezincane. Kudla umphefumulo. Ukushisa umlilo wonke ama-insides omzimba. Kodwa abakwazi ukukhombisa lokhu, ngoba bacabanga ukuthi kungaphansi kwesithunzi sabo.
Kodwa-ke bayaphi lapho bechitha khona imizwelo yabo? Bathola enye indlela, baphuze, baphuze baphuze. Kubonakala kubo ukuthi utshwala yindlela kuphela yokuphuma kuzo zonke izikhundla. Ukuze amadoda angazihlukanisi ngokwabo, abazange bangene ekuphuzeni, thina-abesifazane kufanele sibasize. Sokuqala kubo bonke omama okufanele futhi baphoqeleke ukuba bazizwe amadodana abo, amadoda abo, bazalwane. Abesifazane banamandla kakhulu ngokuziphatha kunamadoda.
Awukwazi ukuhlazisa indoda uma ewake wakhala phambi kwakho. Izinyembezi zesilisa azifani nezinyembezi zesifazane. Abesifazane bakhala ngalokhu nangaphandle kwalo. Indoda ingakhala kuphela ngomzuzwana othile, lapho umphefumulo wakhe usuvele ugcwele imizwelo. Inyembezi yomuntu - kusho okuningi, kusho ukuthi indoda enomuntu uqotho futhi uzethula kuwe ngaphandle kwegobolondo lakhe elinzima.
Abesifazane banakekele amadoda, azikho eziningi kakhulu kuleli zwe. Bavumele baphumule ekhaya, bahlale bekhala futhi bekhala, futhi ulalele ngokuthula ukukhala kwabo komphefumulo. Ungalokothi, khumbula ungalokothi uhleke izinyembezi zomuntu.