Izici zengqondo zokukhulisa izingane emndenini

Izici ezibaluleke kakhulu ezingokwengqondo zokukhuliswa kwezingane emndenini zihlobene nobuhlobo bobuhlobo ohlelweni lwabazali-izingane. Ukusebenzisana okuhle kuhlanganisa ukuzimisela ukuzwa olunye uhlangothi futhi uphendule izidingo zayo eziphuthumayo.

Noma yikuphi ukuphulwa kule ndawo kuholela emiphumeleni emibi. Ngesikhathi esifushane, lokhu kunomthelela omubi enkambisweni yokukhulelwa kwengane, ngoba ingane iyeka ukulalela imiyalelo yomzali nokuphendula kubo. Ngakho indlela yokuvikelwa kwengqondo kusuka ekungeneni ngokweqile esikhaleni somuntu siqu isebenza. Esikhathini eside, lolu hlobo lobuhlobo lungabangela ukuhlukaniswa okuqhubekayo, okubonakala ngokucacile eminyakeni yokuguquka.

Ezingxenyeni ezibaluleke kakhulu ezingokwengqondo zokukhulisa izingane emndenini, Yebo, ukwakheka kwamakhono okuxhumana. Kusemndenini ingane efunda ukuxhumana, ifunda amaphethini wokuphendula hhayi lawo noma ezinye izimo, ifunda ukusebenzisana nabantu ababili abaseduze nabakude. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, izingane zizama ukuzibandakanya ngezindlela ezihlukahlukene zomphakathi: ilungu lomndeni elincane, ingane endala ngokuphathelene nodade osemncane noma umfowenu, ilungu lebandla elibalulekile labantu (kungaba yingxenye yabantwana enkulisa noma ekilasini), njll.

Masiqaphele ukuthi emindenini ehlukene lezi zinqubo ziyaqhubeka ngokuhlukile. Amathuba amakhulu kakhulu okuthuthukiswa atholakele, angajwayelekile njengoba angazwakala umuntu wesimanje, abantwana emindenini emikhulu. I-micro-socium, emndenini ngamunye, empeleni ingaba yi-maximally eyenziwe kuphela ngesibonelo somndeni onabantwana ababili noma abathathu noma ngaphezulu. Lapha, ububanzi bezindima zomphakathi izingane ezizifeza kunye noma ezinye izimo zanda. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuxhumana okukhulumayo emindeni enjalo kucebile futhi kugcwele kakhulu kunomndeni onomntwana munye, isibonelo. Ngenxa yalokho izingane ezincane zithola amathuba amakhulu okukhula komuntu siqu nokuthuthukisa izimfanelo zabo ezihlukahlukene kakhulu.

Okuhlangenwe nakho kwemlando kuqinisekisa kuphela lokhu okubonwayo kochwepheshe. Kuyaziwa ukuthi udokotela wamakhemikhali odumile D.I. UMendeleev wayengumntwana weshumi nesikhombisa emndenini, abantwana besithathu babezidume ezinjalo zangesikhathi esidlule, njengezinkondlo AA. Akhmatova, wokuqala emhlabeni cosmonaut Yu.A. UGagarin, umlobi waseNgisi kanye nesazi sezibalo u-Lewis Carroll, oyingcweti yezincwadi zaseRussia A.P. I-Chekhov, N.I. Nekrasov nabanye abaningi. Kungenzeka ukuthi amatalenta abo azalwa futhi apheleliswa ekukhulisweni komndeni nasekuxhumanisaneni emindenini emikhulu.

Yiqiniso, izici ezingokwengqondo zokufundisa ingane emindenini enhlalakahle kanye nemindeni engcono kakhulu inezici zayo. Isibonelo, uma kukhona izingxabano ezikhona phakathi kwabazali emndenini, noma uma abazali behlukanisile, ingane isesimweni sokucindezeleka okukhulu kwengqondo. Ngenxa yalokho, inqubo evamile yokukhulisa iphulwa. Futhi sibheka lapha imindeni ephephile emphakathini. Kodwa kunomkhawulo wonke wemindeni lapho abazali bengabantu abaphuzayo, futhi abanikeli izingane zabo izibonelo ezinhle zokuziphatha kwabantu nhlobo!

Inombolo enkulu yehlukaniso namuhla ikhuthaza ukuba sikhulume ngale nkinga. Konke, ngenxa yalokho, ubuqotho besikhungo somndeni buphulwa, kanti inqubo yemfundo isikhathi esithile, empeleni, iphazamiseke. Futhi ngemva kokuphulukisa ekuhluphekeni, ingane ivela esimweni esingokomqondo esihluke ngokuphelele kunangaphambili. Futhi kufanele ahambisane nezimo ezishintshileyo.

Ukukhuliswa kwengane emndenini ongaqediwe kuyinkimbinkimbi ngokusweleka kwemvelo yakhe. Esimweni esinjalo, izingane aziboni isibonelo sokuziphatha komuntu (futhi lezi zinsuku zivame ukuhlala ngaphandle kobaba, ngokuvamile kwenzeka uma izingane zingakhulelwanga ngumama, kodwa ngubaba). Imfundo ezimweni ezinjalo kufanele ihlolisise izici zengqondo ezikhonjisiwe. Ukuze kukhuliswe ubuntu obugcwele, umama omndeni onjalo kufanele, ngakolunye uhlangothi, alondoloze ubunqunu bakhe bemvelo, afeze izindima zomphakathi zendabuko nenkosikazi. Kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, ubophekile ngezinye izikhathi ukubonisa ukuqina kwamadoda omlingiswa nokulingana. Ngempela, izingane eziphila kwangempela kumele zihlangane emakhaya abo zomabili, futhi enye imodeli yokuziphatha kwansuku zonke.

Amathuba engeziwe engeziwe okufundiswa ngokugcwele kwezingane emndenini ongaphelele inikeza ukuba khona kwamaphethini amahle okuziphatha kwabantu besilisa nabangane abasondelene nomndeni wesilisa. Umalume, isibonelo, angenza indima yokuba ubaba engekho, ukusebenzisana nezingane, ukudlala nabo, ukwenza imidlalo, ukukhuluma nokunye.

Yebo, uma ukukhuliswa kwezingane emndenini kuyobe kusekelwe ekubambisaneni nasethembeni. Sivame ukukhohlwa ukuthi yonke ingane evela ekuzalweni isethelwe ukubambisana ngokugcwele nabantu abadala. Ngenxa yokuthula okusheshayo, kulula, ukuthula, sivame ukuvimbela izifiso zezingane zokuxhumana, nomsebenzi ohlangene. Ngakho-ke kufanele yini kusimangaze ukuthi imfundo yethu yangaphandle efanelekile ayinikezi imiphumela ekulindelekile? Kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukuthintana nengane akukaze kube yisikhathi sokubuyisela. Kancane ngezikhathi ezahlukene kudinga imizamo ehlukene. Ubuhlobo obuhambisana ngokugcwele emndenini (futhi kuphela kuphela!) Izokwenza umhlabathi onamandla wokuxhumana okuhle. Futhi imiphumela ngeke ihambe kancane!