Izincazelo zezinhlobo zokubambisana

Indlela abathandekayo abonisa ngayo imizwa yakhe nokuthambekela kwakhe kobubele kuhlobene ngokungafani nemicabango yakhe yangempela. Ukusebenzisa amathiphu ethu, uzobe usuqala ukwazisa izindinganiso zezinhlobo zokubamba futhi uthole ukuthi umfana wakho ufuna ukuthini, ngesikhathi lapho ekucindezela ezandleni zakhe.

Ngakho-ke, usezandleni zakhe futhi uhlangene ndawonye ezweni elivusa imizwa nemizwelo. Kodwa-ke, awuzange ucabange ukuthi ungakanani ongakufunda ngendlela yokuthi umfana ukhonta ngayo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, sinqume ukukutshela imiqondo eyisisekelo yezincazelo zezinhlobo zokubambisana futhi sikusize ukwazi umthandekayo wakho kangcono futhi uthole ukuthi yini efihliwe ngemuva kwendlela yakhe yokukutholela.

Umfana ubamba isikhumba sakho.

Umfana ubamba ngemuva kwentombazane evela ngezansi bese emcindezela kakhulu.

Inani lalo hlobo lokumbumbana lubonisa ukuthi umfana ufuna kuwe hhayi nje "ukumbumbana-kisses", kodwa futhi nobulili. Ngakho-ke, ukuhlangana okunjalo, lapho izintambo zombili abalingani zicindezelwa kakhulu futhi, njengokungathi, zithintana, ngokungenasisekelo zifakazela ngesifiso sakhe sokuchitha ubusuku nawe. Ngendlela, intandokazi yakho ephansi ithatha izandla zakhe ezincane, inamandla kakhulu akufunayo.

Ukuqaphela okukhethekile kufanele kukhokhwe ngaleso sikhathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umfana uthinta ngenkathi embamba ikhanda lakho. Uma kunjalo, khumbula, ngaphezu kokusondelana ngokobulili, usadinga ukuba nobuhlobo obungokomoya nawe. Ngamanye amazwi, uma ubuhlobo bakho besesimweni sokuqala sokuthuthukiswa kwayo, uthatha wena ngokujulile, kodwa uma uhlangene ndawonye iminyaka engaphezu konyaka, wazi ukuthi usuvele uvuthiwe ngokuphelele ubuhlobo obunzima kakhulu.

Waguqa ngemuva ...

Umfana usondela ngemuva futhi uphetha intombazane ekuthomeni okukhulu.

Ngisho noma umqhubi wakho engakakutshelanga ngemizwa yakhe, le ndlela yokuzibandakanya ikhuluma ngaye. Ngelinye igama, uthanda nawe. Ngokuvamile lapho uhlanganisa amahlombe omfana, njengengubo efudumeleyo, "gxuma" imilenze yakho, iminyene, icindezela futhi ikucindezele kuye, njengokungathi ijoyina nawe. Izindinganiso zalolu hlobo lokutholwa ziyancipha zibe yinye: umfana uyakunxusa ngemuva, ubonisa isifiso sakhe sokukuvikela njalo nokukuvikela kuzo zonke izinkinga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngale ndlela, ubonisa ubukhulu namandla akhe. Ngamanye amazwi, okhethiweyo wakho uyinkosikazi yangempela ongayikuphuthelwa ithuba lokukukhumbuza futhi ngalokhu futhi ubonise ukuthi uzohlala uphephile ngokuphelele naye.

Ngendlela, lolu hlobo lokuthokoza lunechazo elilodwa, elixhunywe neqiniso lokuthi uma isoka lakho liza njalo kuwe lisuka emuva futhi liyakuthinta - kusho ukuthi ufuna ubuhlobo phakathi kwakho ukuba busondele kakhulu. Okokuqala, lokhu kungenxa yokuthi abathandekayo bakho bangabonakala sengathi wesaba noma ungafuni ukuvumela imizwa yakho futhi wabelane naye. Yingakho enamahloni amisa ukuthi abeke esimweni "ubuso nobuso", futhi ucabanga ukuthi awukho iqiniso naye.

Ukusilalisa ekutholeni.

Lo mfana, ombamba intombazane, emnene ngomusa phansi ngemuva kwezandla zakhe.

Le nguqulo ye-hugs ithi isoka lakho lizwa imizwa yothando neyothando kakhulu kuwe. Phela, ingemuva engabonakali engxenyeni engathinteka kakhulu yomzimba womuntu. Ngakho-ke, zonke izinto ezithintekayo kule ngxenye yomzimba ziyamangalisa futhi ziyamnandi. Ngendlela, ungamangazi uma ngemuva kwesikhathi esithile ama-caresses akhe azozuza isimo sokuthinta okucacile. Kuhlale kudingeke ukhumbule ukuthi imibono enjengokubhucisa, ukuthinta kanye nobulili, okuxhunyiwe ngesigqi esisodwa, njengombuso, bayakwazi ukuhola ngokuqinile abameleli bobulili obunamandla.

Futhi, le ndlela yokuhlangana ingasho ukuthi i-chevalier yakho icasukile futhi iyakhathazeka ngento ethile, ngakho ufuna ukuphumula. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi akafuni ukukuvuma ekuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe nezinselele. Kodwa ukunyakaza okulula okuphumula nokuphumula - lena enye yezindlela ezingcono zokuthola ibhalansi ngokomzwelo. Yingakho abamele ubulili obunamandla, ezingeni labo elingacabangi, ngesikhathi sokucindezeleka noma ukucindezeleka, bavame ukuphazamisa labo abathandekayo ngokuzenzekelayo, benze kuye ukuhlunga okulula. Ngandlela-thile, uma nje ucabanga ukuthi othandekayo wakho uphelelwe into ethile, zibuze yena ukuthi yini eyamkhathaza, bese yena ngokwakhe emnika ukuphumula okuphumuzayo. Ngikholelwa, othandekayo wakho ngokuqinisekile uyakwazisa ukukhathazeka kwakho ngaye.

Nge-pritopom priplopom ...

Umfana, ngesikhathi ehlanganisa isandla sesandla sakhe ngokucophelela ahlasele intombazane ngemuva.

Le ndlela yokuhlangana inezincazelo ezimbili eziyinhloko. Okwokuqala kubo unombhalo obi kakhulu: akakuthandi njengowesifazane. Lapha ungakhumbula isibonelo sendlela amadoda abamukele ngayo abangane babo. Ngakho-ke kuleso simo akubukeki othandana nhlobo. Ngamanye amazwi, uma okhethiweyo wakho ekhombisa ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngenye yalezi zinhlobo zokubambisana, khumbula ukuthi lokhu cishe kubonisa ukuthi ubudlelwane bakho abufaki ngendlela efanele futhi cishe ngeke balindele ikusasa elikhanyayo nelinandaba . Incazelo yesibili yalolu hlobo lokuthokoza ithi uma, isibonelo, isoka lakho likunika indlela yokubonisa imizwa yakhe endaweni yomphakathi, angase nje afune ukukhombisa wonke umuntu ukuthi ubuhlobo bakho abuyinto engathí sina nhlobo futhi ukhululekile. Ngendlela, kepha uma ekukhubekisa ngale ndlela, uma usodwa, lapha isithombe singase sibonakale kanje: akanakho uthando kuwe noma uthukuthele ngento ethile.

Kodwa-ke, iziphetho eziphuthumayo akufanele zenziwe. Mhlawumbe ukuhlaziywa okunjalo - lokhu kuwukuphela kwemithetho ejwayelekile, hhayi isizathu sokuthola isipiliyoni ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Ukubonakalisa imizwa enjalo kunezizathu ezimbalwa. Isibonelo, kufanele wenze inkulumo yentokozo emshadweni womngani, futhi okuthandayo ngale ndlela uzama ukukusekela. Yebo, noma okhethiweyo wakho akayithandi futhi akasoze asetshenziselwa ukubonisa imizwa yakhe yokubonisa, ukuze abanye baqaphe ubuhlobo bakho. Lapha uzama kanzima ukuzicabangela njengobungane. Noma okugcina, okwamanje, okhethiweyo wakho uyadida futhi ngeke abonise ngokugcwele uthando lwakhe ngawe. Ngakho-ke ungathathi wonke amanani angalungile okubandakanya lolu hlobo ku-akhawunti yakho!

Futhi ekugcineni ngifuna ukusho ukuthi zonke izincazelo zezinhlobo zothando zibandakanya, okokuqala, zikhulume ngendlela kanye nomkhuba wothandekayo wakho, futhi kuphela lapho ehumusha khona okusemqoka. Ngakho-ke, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubonisa kanjani imizwa yakhe, ukumbumbathisa, ummbambe nje ngokubambezela embundeni - futhi konke angacabanga ngakho ngalesi sikhathi ukuthi ukulahleka kanjani izingubo zakho ngokushesha!