Izingane ezindala emndenini omkhulu azivamile. Ngokuvamile abazali babeletha izingane eziningana, bese bekhula ngokuthula. Nakuba kunezimo ezinjalo, futhi zisiza ukuqonda ukuthi kunzima kanjani ubuhlobo bomndeni omkhulu. Ukuze uqonde lokhu kuyindlela elula, cabanga ngezinketho ezimbili zokuzalwa kwengane ephuzile, ngoba yiyiphi umehluko yobudala eba yinto ebalulekile.
Ingane encane ehluke kakhulu
Izingane ezindala emindenini emikhulu ngokuvamile azifani kakhulu neminyaka. Kukhona izimo lapho abazali, abanezingane eziningana, befisa ukuzala omunye. Lokhu kungenxa yokuhamba kwazo zonke izingane ezisuka emndenini, ngenxa yokuthi umama nobaba basala bodwa. Kulesi simo, ingane ephuzile iyona yodwa injabulo ekuphileni kwabo.
Ezingxenyeni zabafowethu nodadewethu, kunesimo sengqondo esihlukile. Yiqiniso, asinakusho ukuthi banomona ngabazali babo, abanikeza ingxenye yengane yabo enganeni engasekupheleni, kodwa basalokhu benganelisekile ngokuzalwa kwakhe.
Nokho, kwezinye izimo isimo sithandeka kakhulu. Isizathu salokhu umehluko omkhulu weminyaka , ngoba ngezinye izikhathi abazukulu nabantwana bafana. Ngakho-ke, uma udadewabo omdala noma umfowabo engakaqali inzalo yabo, ngokuqinisekile bayojabula ngokubonakala kwendoda encane endlini.
Lesi simo sengqondo esiyingxenye yezihlobo ezinomthelela omkhulu weminyaka kunzima ukubiza isimangalo. Kufanele kulindeleke futhi ujabule ngokuthi wonke umuntu wathatha ukuzalwa kwengane eledlule ngokunembile.
Izingane ezisenesikhathi esinezinga eliphansi lokudala
Imindeni emikhulu enezinamba eziningi zezingane zivame kakhulu ezikhathini zethu. Abazali abambalwa kuphela abakulungele ukuthatha lesi sinyathelo, bajabulele zonke izingane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, umkhathi endlini uhle kakhulu futhi ukhululekile.
Ingane ekhulile emndenini onjalo isithatha indawo yomzalwane noma udade endaweni yokucabanga kwengqondo. Umehluko wezinga eliphansi phakathi kwengane ngayinye lihlanganisa wonke umndeni ndawonye, ukunikeza ukuzwa okusha kokusondelana nokufudumala. Abafowabo nodadewethu abadala bazophinde banakekele ingane ephuzile, kodwa kuphela ubudlelwane obuseduze obuyobonakala kuye.
Mhlawumbe, isimo esinjalo kufanele sithandeke. Noma kunjalo, ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo kufanele kuhambe ngendlela efanele, ukuze ngenxa yalokho indodana enkulu noma indodakazi enkulu ikhulile. Emndenini ngamunye, udinga ukubheka izici zomuntu ngamunye, ngoba into ebalulekile ubuhlobo kuze kube sekuzalweni kwengane ekhulile.
Zombili lezi zimo akunzima kakhulu ukuzicabangela, noma kunjalo, inkinga ebalulekile yokuxoxisana ukukhuliswa. Iqiniso liwukuthi ingane ephuzile ihlale iqondwa ngokuhambisana nezwe langaphakathi lomuntu ngamunye. Ngokuvamile imindeni emikhulu ibhekwa ukuthi ayiphumelelanga, kodwa lokhu kuyiphutha kakhulu. Eqinisweni, iningi lala maseli emphakathini linikeza izwe izakhamuzi ezinhle kakhulu. Imfundo efanele, ngisho nangaphandle kokungekho ngokweqile, ingayifundisa ingane ukuthi ingafezekisa kanjani konke ngezandla nemicabango yabo.
Mhlawumbe akulungile ukubuka imindeni enomntwana munye, kodwa kuwukuthi ubugovu buqala, buhambisana nemikhuba emibi. Abazali bazama ukunikeza izingane ithuba eliphakeme, kodwa emkhayeni omkhulu kunamathuba amaningi kakhulu. Akekho umehluko phakathi komntwana owedlule nomfowabo noma udadewabo, ukuze ukukhuliswa kwakhe kube ngcono.