Emphakathini wethu wanamuhla futhi okhululekile, amantombazane enhle enesizungu kancane kancane eba yinto evamile ejwayelekile kakade.
Noma kunjalo, izizathu zalokhu ziyaqhubeka zinesithakazelo futhi zixoxwe kabanzi, ngoba azibonakali ngokuphelele. Futhi eqinisweni, kubonakala sengathi ukubukeka kubaluleke kakhulu kubesifazane, futhi ukubonakala okugqamile kuyithekithi yokuwina ekuphileni okujabulisayo okufanayo. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kwezibalo, ubuhle obuningi bubuthakathaka bomuntu siqu injabulo, ngoba umuntu akakwazi ukujabula wedwa.
Noma akukhona ngokubukeka? Phela, ungabona njalo amantombazane ajwayelekile, ajwayelekile, okuthiwa "amagundane grey", azungezwe inani elikhulu lamadoda kunamantombazane abo angaphandle asebenza kahle. Kungani lokhu kwenzeka? Ake sibone ukuthi kungani amantombazane amahle ehlala ewodwa? Kukhona izizathu eziningana zalokhu.
Emphakathini wethu, ubuhle besifazane buyimpahla. Lokhu kuphazamiseka kusukela ebuntwaneni kuya kithi ekhanda abezindaba abathintekayo, ukukhangisa kanye nombono womphakathi odumile. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sikhuluma kangaki ngobuhle bomphefumulo, mayelana nezwe elijulile langaphakathi kanye nezinto ezingokomoya kuqala emhlabeni jikelele, amantombazane, bese amantombazane efuna ukuba abe yinhle kunazo zonke, ngakho-ke ahlakaniphile, anomusa, anomoya omnene. Ngoba amakhasi omagazini fashion - ubuhle, ngoba izikrini zethelevishini - ubuhle, ngoba izintombi nabafazi bezombusazwe, abadlali, pop izinkanyezi - ubuhle. Ubuhle buyimpawu egijima, isimo esibalulekile sokuphila okuphumelelayo. Uma unenhlanhla ngokwanele yokuzalwa enhle, ke umsebenzi wakho ukugcina, ukwandisa futhi uthengise ubuhle bakho ekugcineni kakhulu kakhulu. Kodwa akukho ukukhangisa, akukho mshicileli okhanyayo ofundisa amantombazane ukuthi ubuhle buyinto ezayo, yesikhashana, engathembeki, okuyiyo, ngelimi lemigomo yezomnotho, ayikwazi ukuba yinhloko enokwethenjelwa.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ubuhle besifazane "obunqunu" bubunamandla. Singazibona kaningi kangakanani amantombazane amantombazane angenalutho, amantombazane enundu, ngaphandle kokukhangiswa kwawo kwangaphandle, awasekho lutho emaqenjini abo: akukho mfundo, akukho isifiso sokwenza okuthile empilweni, akukho zifiso, akukho izinhlelo ezicacile zokuphila, ngaphandle kweyodwa - thola uxhasi ocebile. Futhi lezi zinundu ziyahamba ngokukhanya kwegolide ngomcebo futhi zishise kuyo, zihlala ngemuva kweveliveli engaphumeleli enezindleko eziboshiwe.
Kodwa kwenzeka nakwezinye izindlela - abahlakaniphileyo abahlakaniphile ngokuvamile abanezemfundo enhle kanye nomsebenzi bahlala bodwa. Futhi lapha kunezizathu ezihluke ngokuphelele.
Okokuqala, intombazane enjalo iyazi ukuthi iyabalulekile. Futhi, njengomthetho, le ntengo iphezulu kuze kube yinto engenakwenzeka. Njengoba bethi, "hhayi ngawe, ovamile, umama wangikhulisa inkosikazi." Ngakho-ke indlovukazikazi ebandayo, engabonakali "yeqhwa" izalwa. Futhi nguyena oba yisithiyo sokuzijwayeza nomlingani ongase abe khona. Umholi wesilisa uzokwesaba ngesithombe "senkosikazi yensimbi", futhi amadoda abuthakathaka asetshenziselwa ukuyalwa ngeke abe nesibindi sokusondela kowesifazane oqhoshayo.
Ngakho-ke kulandela "okwesibili" - amantombazane amahle avame ukuzala ezinhliziyweni zabantu mayelana nemicabango enjalo: "ngakho-ke, abalandeli abaningi kakhulu; kusho, ngokuqinisekile hhayi yedwa; kusho ukuthi ngokuqinisekile kuzosuswa, futhi, ngenxa yalokho-akufanele kuvivinywe. " Phakathi naleso sikhathi, intombazane ingase ibe neqhosha noma iqine kakhulu ukuba ibe ngowokuqala ukwazi umfana oyithandayo. Noma mhlawumbe ugogo owakhulisa, owayelokhu ephikisana nomntwana wakhe kusukela eminyakeni yakhe yokuqala, ukuthi "amantombazane ahloniphekile akuyona eyokuqala ukujwayele" ukusola. "
Kodwa-ke, Yebo, ukuzikhukhumeza ngokwanele nokuzikhukhumeza okumele kube nenhlanhla, kodwa (!) Yanele futhi inempilo. Akudingeki ukuba ube yi-bitch ephelele, ngoba ngisho nokubukeka okuvelele, okubonakalayo okumangalisayo, ngokuvamile amantombazane ahlala enesizungu ngenxa yokuqiniseka okujulile ukuthi, enhle kangaka, angakwazi ngisho nokukhombisa ukukhombisa ukukhohlisa. Ngakho-ke indoda ayiziphumuli ukwazi, iyidayimani ebiza kakhulu, edinga ukwelashwa okukhethekile, nayo yonke into ivunyelwe yona, futhi ingabeka ngokuzithoba lezi zivunguvungu ezingokomzwelo futhi ithandazele intethelelo, ikhohlise unkulunkulu wayo ngezipho nezipho.
Yiqiniso, ukuba yi-bitchy encane ngeke kulimaze, le nsizwa yowesifazane ejwayelekile ihlukanisa ubuhlobo, ifaka phakathi kwabo isici sokuziqhenya, idlala indima yohlobo lwe "peppercorn." Kodwa, njengoba wazi, i-pepper eningi ingaphazamisa isidlo esiphundu kunazo zonke. Yingakho kwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi lapho amadoda ephonsa izintombi zabo ezinhle ngesimo esingenakulinganisela, futhi ashiye izinto ezincane, kodwa ezithule, ezithambile futhi ezijabulisayo, ezikhululekile, ezingafuni "umhlatshelo" ngobuhle bazo, ngubani ongalalela, sorry, noma ubeke ihlombe lakho esimeni esinzima. Futhi akubalulekile nhlobo, ukuthi ngaphandle bangabantu abavamile, abavamile.
Futhi esinye isizathu sokuthi amantombazane amahle avame ukuhlala enesizungu ngumthetho ongenakulinganiswa wesikhathi. Ngokuvamile intombazane ithi: "Ngizohlala nginaso isikhathi sokushada nokubukeka okunjalo, kodwa manje kubaluleke kakhulu ukutadisha, ukwenza umsebenzi." Futhi nayo yonke intshiseko, uzama umgomo onikeziwe. Futhi lapho, ekugcineni, kufinyelela kuso, kubonakala ukuthi wonke amadoda athakazelisayo asevele eshadile noma ematasa, futhi labo abasele abathandanga, futhi ukukhetha akukona ngokucebile kakhulu. Ngakho kuvela ukuthi kuhle, futhi kubonakala sengathi ukuphila kuthuthukile, kodwa kungesizungu.
Ngakho-ke, ngokucaphuna phezulu, singasho ukuthi ngokuvamile emantombazaneni abo abodwa kufanele bazibeke icala. Ubuhle akusona isiqinisekiso sokujabula komuntu siqu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokuphambene. Ubuhle akuyona eyinhloko, okumele ikwazi ukufaka ukujikeleza futhi izuze kuyo. Ubuhle besifazane yisipho esiyigugu okufanele sijabulise umnikazi wayo nakwabanye. Futhi angenza injabulo hhayi kuphela intombazane, kodwa indoda ezoba eceleni kwayo, udinga nje ukufuna futhi uzame kancane. Phela, intombazane enhle ngempela ayikwenziwe kuphela yi-chic figure kanye nezici ezifanele, kepha ikhono lokumomotheka ngobuqotho, ukuvuleka nabantu, umusa nozwelo. Zama ukuba njalo futhi uzophumelela. Futhi angeke kube khona ezinye zokupheka lapha.
