Yimaphi amadoda azinqunyiwe
Izazi zengqondo zeluleka ukugwema amagama athi "konke", "njalo", "akekho" futhi "akasoze". Izwe alimnyama nelomhlophe, ligcwele imibala kanye ne-halftones. Ngakho ukusho ukuthi kuthiwa bonke abantu bayanqikaza, kungaba okungalungile. Ngakho-ke, sizogxila ezinhlotsheni ezithile zamadoda angacabangi.
- Usanda kuhlukaniswa. Indoda enjalo ayikwazanga ukuphulukisa ukulimala kwayo. Amadoda abonakala sengathi abukeka ephelile ngemva kokuhlukanisa, empeleni abhekene nezinkinga ezinkulu ebuhlotsheni nomfazi. Amanye amadoda ngokushesha agijimela njengesihloko emabhulovini amasha ukuze akhohlwe ngokwabo ngemva kokuhlukanisa. Abanye bangaphila iminyaka eminingana. Futhi sonke lesi sikhathi bagwema ubuhlobo besikhathi eside nabesifazane. Into ethakazelisayo kunazo zonke ukuthi uhlobo lwesibili lokuhlangenwe nakho kokucindezeleka emva kokufa lubhekwa njengelungile kakhulu kusukela ekubukeni kwengqondo. Yilokho, le ndoda idinga isikhathi sokubuyiselwa emuva kokulimala akuthola ehlukanisweni nomkakhe.
- Indodana kamama. Amadodana kaMama kaningi awafuni ukuthola umndeni aze agugile. Basondelene kakhulu nomama wabo ukuthi akekho owesifazane ongakwazi ukumelana nomncintiswano naye. Umshado noma ubudlelwane nomfazi kubo kuyisinyathelo sokuba umuntu omdala, lapho angakulungeli khona. Ngokujwayelekile baye bathola izibopho ezibhekiswe kumama, okuyinto bona ngokwabo abakha. Ngisho noma uqala ukuthandana nomuntu onjalo, uzohlale uhlala wedwa ngamaholide, uzozama ukuya eholidini nomama wakho, hhayi nawe. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, uzohlale uhlaselwa eceleni kwakhe ngokuthi awukwazi ukupheka, ukugeza nokuhola indlu kanye nonina.
- Indoda engathandeki. Ngezinye izikhathi ukungabi nesibindi kumuntu ngawe kusho kuphela ukuthi awunasithakazelo kuye. Akuwona njalo amadoda angathembeka kowesifazane kule ndaba. Ukuzwela, bangakwazi ukusabela kalula emikhankasweni yakho futhi baphendule ngokudlala ngothando. Kodwa udinga ukubonisa isibindi esengeziwe, ukuthi babuyela kanjani futhi bangakwazi "ukuthumela" kanzima kakhulu. Ukuze ungangeni esimweni esinjalo esingavamile futhi esingathandeki, zama ukuthola ukuthi yiziphi abesifazane abathandayo, futhi ubone ukuthi zibukeka sengathi ubukeka noma uhlamvu. Ngenxa yalokhu, kungase kube ngokwanele ukuhlaziya kuphela amantombazane ayekade abe nobude obude nobuhle ngaphambili.
Ngabe abesifazane besifazane bahlukumezeka kangakanani
Uma uhlushwa umbuzo othi kungani umuntu engacabangi ekusebenzelaneni nowesifazane, hlolisisa owesifazane ngokwakhe. Kunezinhlobo eziningana zabesifazane abesabisa amadoda amaningi. Futhi uma abesifazane abanjalo befuna amadoda ukuba ayeke ukwesaba, kufanele aqale asebenze ngokwawo, futhi angaqali ingxabano nabangane bawo mayelana nokuthi bonke abantu banamuhla banamabhilidi. Cabanga nje ngezinhlobo ezimbalwa zabesifazane abesaba abantu.
- Ukuphelela ngokwayo. Ososayensi baye balinganisa ukuthi izinga lokucindezeleka okwenzeka kumuntu onenqaba yowesifazane luphakeme kakhulu uma kwenzeka enqatshelwe ubuhle, kunokuba uma owesifazane obukeka ejwayelekile ewenqaba. Lokhu kusebenza kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwesimo senhlalo. Owesifazane ophelele kakhulu emkhakheni othile, isibindi siyadingeka ukuze amadoda afike kuye. Akuyona nje ubuhle bokuqala, kodwa futhi owesifazane wokuqala ohlakaniphile noma owesifazane ocebile wokuqala "emzaneni" uyakwazi ukwesaba amadoda amaningi. Yingakho kube lula kumuntu ukuthi anqume ngendaba yakhe nomngani wakho omncane okhangayo futhi ophumelelayo kunakho. Ukuze umise ukucasula amadoda, owesifazane udinga ukuqonda izindlela ezinjalo zokuziphatha ezibonisa ukuthi akaphelele emkhakheni othile. Ubuhle bunomqondo ozovela esidlangalaleni ngendlela engenandaba, futhi owesifazane ohlakaniphile akazenzeli abe yisiwula. UBogachka angakwazi ukushaya amehlo akhe, futhi acele umuntu ukuba azikhokhele emasimini nasezinkundleni. Lokhu kuzomvumela ukuba aphumule kancane futhi akubheke ngendlela entsha ngokuphelele.
- Umphathi we-Lady. Amadoda ayithandi abesifazane abakhulu. Umphakathi wethu usengumdala wezinzalamizi, ngakho-ke ingxenye enkulu, amadoda asabathanda njengabafazi abathobekileyo, abathulile, abazithobayo. Uma owesifazane efinyelele esimweni esiphakeme emsebenzini noma emphakathini, kungaba nzima ngaye ukuba aguqule indima yeCinderella embi emva komsebenzi. Uqala ukuncintisana namadoda ukuze abe namandla nokuphakama kwemibono yakhe, ngenxa yalokho, babalekela kuye njengomlilo. Uma uzitholela ngokwakho imikhuba ka-boss ekusebenzelaneni namadoda, funda ukuzitshela ukuthi: "Yeka." Ukwazi ukuba mnene, wesifazane nomuntu, futhi ngeke ubone ukuthi bangaki babo abaseduze nawe bazovela ukuthi ungakwazi ngisho nokukhetha.
- Owesifazane . Lolu hlobo lwabesifazane luyesabeka kakhulu kunabasebenzi. Bangakwazi ukuhlala ekhaya nokukhulisa izingane, futhi ezingeni lokuxhumana nabantu ukukhuthaza imibono yobufazi. Kodwa kaningi abesifazane basezingeni eliphakeme kakhulu lemali, okuyinto bona ngokwabo bathola noma bayithola kanye nefa noma ukusekelwa kwabazali babo. Indoda ekuqondeni kwayo ingumnikelo wesilisa kuphela onika isidoda ukukhulelwa ingane. Ukwakheka isilenge, ukuthola imali, ukubeletha nokukhulisa abantwana onjalo owesifazane angakwazi. Amanye amadoda afana nalolu hlobo lwabesifazane: nabo ungakhululeka futhi ulale nge-TV kusihlwa ngaso sonke isikhathi, ngokuzwakalayo ukulalela ukuziphatha kwakhe. Amadoda amaningi abesifazane abagwema njengomlilo.
- Abesifazane abanesiqiniseko sokuthi bonke abantu bastards. Abesifazane abondayo amadoda futhi abazethembi, ngokwabo futhi babesabisa ngokuziphatha okunjalo. Bangalinda isikhulu ngehhashi elimhlophe, kuyilapho bexosha bonke abaphikisana nabo abafanelekile. Okulindelekile okulindelekile kuhlangene nokuhlukumezeka kwesabisa amadoda, futhi benza kahle ukuthi bagwema abesifazane abanjalo. Emva kwakho konke, isimo sengqondo esinamandla kakhulu nesenzondo ngokuqondene nenye isondo kuyisibonakaliso sezinkinga ezinkulu ezingokwengqondo ezingakwazi ukuguqula noma yibuphi ubuhlobo zibe isihogo sangempela.