Akufanele babuzwe ngalokhu
Amadoda, njengezingane ze-naskodivshie, kuze kube yilapho abokugcina bephika futhi bethi bahlanzekile, njengehlazo lamazolo. Uma uphumelela ekubambeni umthengisi ngamaqiniso ezandleni zakho (lokhu okumele kube khona akufanele kube khona ngokuphelele), khona-ke isimo esisha esivela kulolu chungechunge sizodlala: "Yebo, mina angazi ukuthi kwenzeka kanjani ..."
Futhi izizathu zizowela. Okuvamile - bathi, "wayedakiwe", akaqondi ukuthi wayenzani. Umyeni womngane wami ushilo ngesikhathi etafuleni lokugcoba (umkami waqhuma ekhishini): "Kulesi simo, okuyinto kuphela engenzeki." Ukukhwabanisa ngokweqile - inkolelo-ze ijwayelekile ngempela. Khona-ke beza nabo, cishe, amadoda ngokwabo. Emva kwakho konke, baphuza, kunalokho, ngesibindi, hhayi ngokuphambene ...
Umyeni wami ubeke phambili ingxabano elula: "Ngakho kwaba kanye kuphela". Okungukuthi, uma kanye, ke, hhayi ukuhlubuka nhlobo. Omunye umuntu omuhle wazama ukukholisa ingxenye yakhe ukuthi ukulala "nabesifazanekazi babantu" kwakuwumsebenzi wakhe wokusebenza. Yena, njengomsebenzi webhizinisi ophumelelayo, unelungelo lokhu ngesimo.
Usengakwazi ukubhala zonke izinhlobo zezizathu nezizathu zesikhathi eside, kepha ungasho into eyodwa: akunakuqonda ngokuphelele ukuthola isizathu sokukhawulwa komuntu. Phela, ucabanga ngobuqotho ukuthi awudingi iqiniso, kodwa isikhathi sokuhlela indawo futhi uqinisekisa ukuthi lokhu ngeke kuphinde kwenzeke. Futhi ngobuqotho konke lokhu kunikeza.
Ngoba ungumuntu
Ukuze ngandlela-thile sibone lokho abathandekayo bethu abakhuthaza khona "ubugebengu," kungcono ukuphendukela kolwazi lwezengqondo zezokwelapha kanye nama-physiologists. Futhi baye bathola okuningi ekhulwini lokugcina.
Futhi isizathu sokuqala ukuthi uzobizwa ngokuthi umsindo ulula nje: ngoba uyindoda. Futhi uthando alusebenzi lutho nalo. Umlingani wakho angaba nemizwa yethando kakhulu kuwe, adore izingane zakho, uthwale umama wakho ezandleni zakho, futhi ngezikhathi ezithile "hamba ngakwesokunxele."
Futhi usola yonke into yokukhetha yemvelo nama-hormone abesilisa, anganiki ukuphumula "enhliziyweni ephelile". Ngezinye izikhathi ukubona okusheshayo kwe-sex diva ethile kukwanele, futhi indlela eyenziwe yikhulu leminyaka iphoqa umfana wesilisa ukuphambanisa inzalo yakhe, nomaphi lapho, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu, okuningi, ngeke ishiye ukwethembeka kwayo. Futhi konke esingakwenza ukuthethelela noma ukuphindiselela ...
Izindawo eziyingozi
Kukhona ngisho nezindawo ezingozini, okungukuthi, izindawo lapho ubuqotho bomuntu buhlolwa khona. Ngale ndlela, izindawo zokubhuka zihlala zingumnikazi werekhodi. Kubonakala sengathi ubulili obuqinile ngaphansi kwelanga eliseningizimu buza amnesia yesikhashana. Bakhohlwa ngokuphelele ngomkabo nabantwana babo. Futhi isimo siwukuthi: ubuhle obunqunu nobugqila ogwini bubonakala bufinyeleleke kakhulu.
Futhi akekho amahomoni kuphela adlala indima yawo emnyama. Futhi kuyisimo esiphuzayo senkululeko. Phela, indoda, ngisho nasemshadweni, izama ukuqapha ngokucophelela ukuzimela kwayo (okungenani ezindabeni ezithile) kusukela ekuqothulweni kwabafazi. Ngendlela, esinye sezizathu zokuhlubuka kungaba yisifiso sakho sokubuyisela umlingani wakho ngendlela yakho. Ukufisa okunjalo uchungechunge olumangalisayo, akekho umyeni ozovuma. Futhi-ke, wakuthanda ngendlela ayenayo, ngaphambili.
Futhi e-resort kanye nohambo lwebhizinisi, ake kube yisikhathi esifushane, umuntu uthola lokho ayekuphupha njalo. Akudingeki ukuba uqambe amanga, zilungise ngokwakho, qaphela isikhathi nesikhumba esikhwameni sakho. Nakhu, injabulo!
Ayikho engozini kakhulu yilabo okuthiwa "amaqembu we-stag". Ikakhulukazi uma zigcinwe kunoma yisiphi isenzakalo esibalulekile - umshado womuntu, isibonelo. Ngendlela, uma umthandi wakho enza njengomkhwenyana, ingozi kulokhu ayinciphisi. Enye inganekwane ukucabanga ukuthi omama bathambekele ekwenzeni iqiniso. Abafana nabo banesithakazelo ngalokhu, kholwa mina! Futhi-ke bazozama ukuchitha ukuhlaselwa nokuphila kwabo bachelor ezingeni eliphakeme, okungukuthi, namantombazane.
Amacala omtholampilo
Izindawo zokuhlala, ukuhamba kwebhizinisi, amaqembu ama-stag - konke lokhu kuyize, ngokusho, ibhizinisi lesuku zonke. Kukhona "ama-zigzags wesilisa" futhi okubi kakhulu. Nginomngane owakwazi ukushada kabili ... ubungqingili. Lapho abathola khona ezinombolweni ezinjalo, kunzima ukusho. Kodwa into ehlabayo yilezi zikhathi zombili le ntombazane, njengoba bethi, ayengazi ngaloluhlelo oluyingqayizivele lwabathandekayo bakhe.
Nakuba izazi ze-psychologists zithi kungenzeka ukuthi zikwazi ukubona lezi zakhi. Ziyizinto, njengomthetho, ezingapheli ekuhlolweni kobulili, futhi intando yamaphesheni amasha ayanyamalala ngisho nangemva kwesikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu somshado. Uma lo mlingani ekhathele, ngokushesha bathola ukuzijabulisa "ohlangothini" futhi kaningi hhayi ngowesifazane. I-logic ilula - kunzima ukubona ubulili nomuntu njengesihluku ...
Kodwa nokho isimo esibi kunazo zonke siwuqhathanisa njalo nomama. Akunabantu abambalwa kakhulu kuze kube yilapho bekhulile beboshelwe ema-diapers futhi umgomo wabo oyinhloko ukungatholi umngane othembekile, kodwa umama onakekelayo. Kuze kube yilapho owesifazane onjalo etholakala, ngeke aphumule. Futhi-ke, ngakho-ke uzokuzama ukhetho olusha nolusha. Ngisho noma ngabe okuthunyelwe sekuvele kuthathwe.
Iphelelwe amandla
Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi thina ngokwethu sivusa ukungathembeki kwesigamu sethu. Iqhawe lomdlalo othi "Hasten ukwenza okuhle" uthi kudadewabo: "Hlala nomyeni wakho iminyaka engu-15, bese sibona ...".
Ngempela, ngaphezu kweminyaka emide yokushada, imizwa iyancipha, imenyu yezocansi iba yinto engcolile, futhi abesifazane bavame ukuyeka ukubaluleka kwezinhlobo zabo. Kodwa lo muntu ulokhu efuna ukuzwa okujulile, ngisho namaholide, futhi isintu sakhe samadoda asikwazi ukuchaza ukuthi ukuthula kuyinjabulo. Ngakho uqala ukubheka nxazonke.
Uma kunjalo, kungcono ukukhathala, uzibeke esimweni, uthenge ingubo yokugcoba futhi ugubhe umdala. Kodwa kubalulekile ukuthi ungayidluli. Ngemuva kwakho konke, wakho othembekile angakwazi (asesehle) anqume ukuthi uthole indawo esikhundleni sakhe. Futhi ke ngokuqinisekile uzoqala konke kanzima.
Ngendlela, ngokwezengqondo ze-psychologists, ukungabaza kuyisisusa esivame kakhulu sokuphinga. Ngakho-ke, okungenani kanye ngesonto ukhumbuze umngane wakho ukuthi nguye kuphela onokunika injabulo yangaphandle, noma ngabe akunjalo ...