Ngokuvamile futhi ngimomotheka ngikhumbula ukukhulelwa kwami, ikakhulukazi ukuphela kwayo. Kwakuyisikhathi esimnandi, ukulindela nokukhathazeka okuhlobene nokuzalwa kwendodakazi yethu.
Yiqiniso, okuhlangenwe nakho okuningi kwakuhlobene ngqo nokuzalwa nokuhlala esibhedlela.
Ngangifuna ukwazi yonke into ukuze ngikulungele ngokugcwele ngesikhathi sokulethwa. Kodwa ukukhulelwa kwangenza ngingekho-engqondweni futhi ngikhohlwa. Futhi njalo lapho ngifika esibhedlela kudokotela, engivumile ukuthi uzozala kimi, ngikhohliwe konke engangikufuna ukukubuza.
Futhi-ke ngafika nge-exit. Uvele wabhala uhlu, lapho ebhala khona yonke imibuzo yakhe. Emhlanganweni olandelayo nodokotela, ngifunda lolu hlu, futhi udokotela, hhayi okungenani umangale, ngokubekezela waphendula yonke imibuzo.
Uhlu lwemibandela kwakufana nalokhu:
1. Yikuphi ukuhlolwa okumelwe kube khona ekhadini lokushintshanisa nokuthi yiziphi izitatimende okufanele zibhaliswe ukuze zivunyelwe ukuzala kulokhu esibhedlela?
2. Kuze kube nini ngaphambi kokuzalwa kufanele ngisayine ikhadi lokushintshanisa?
3. Isibhedlela sokubeletha sisebenza ngokubeletha? Uma kunjalo, yini okufanele yenziwe ukuvumela umyeni wakhe ukuba abelethe ukubeletha?
4. Yini edingekayo ukuthenga ukubeletha (isethi ye-obstetric, isethi yezingane noma ukuthenga konke okudingayo ohlwini lwakho?).
5. Kuthiwani ngezinto (izembatho zokulala, izingubo nezinye izinto) ezizodinga ukubeletha wena, umyeni wakho nengane yakho?
6. Kuyini izinga lokushisa lomoya esibhedlela? Kudingekile ukwazi, ukuze ngandlela-thile ubale ukuthi yini oyombeka phezu kwengane bese ugqoka wena. Nganginaki lo mbuzo, ngikubala ukuthi uyisiphukuphuku, futhi ngenxa yalokho ngithatha ingubo efudumele kimi, ukuthi kunjalo. Ukuthi izinga lokushisa emoyeni esigcini lalingu-+28! Ngenxa yalokho, ngigqoke i-T-shirt yami - ingubo yami ayilusizo.
7. Yini okufanele ugqoke ngokubeletha nokuthi yini okufanele ugqoke kumyeni wakho?
8. Uma kukhona izikhala, ingabe zizofakwa ngaphansi kwe-anesthesia noma cha? Uma kunjalo, ngaphansi kwiphi i-anesthesia?
9. Nini futhi yiziphi izitofu ezonikezwa ingane?
10. Ingabe ikhaya lokubeletha linokuhlanganyela okuhlangene esigcemeni somama nengane? Kungenzeka yini ukuthi umyeni wami wayenami ewadi?
11. Ingabe ingane izosetshenziselwa isifuba ekamelweni lokulethwa ngokushesha ngemva kokuzalwa?
12. Yikuphi ukuvimbela ukuhlukana engingakwenza ngaphambi kokubeletha?
13. Uma ukulwa kuqala, yikuphi igebe phakathi kwabo okufanele kube yisisekelo socingo kudokotela?
14. Kuze kube yiphi isonto lokukhulelwa udokotela angabambeli ekuvuseleleni umsebenzi wezabasebenzi?
15. Kungenzeka yini ukuba udle uphuze ngesikhathi sokulwa ekhaya nasegumbini lokubeletha, nangemva kokuzalwa kwengane? Uma kunjalo, yini ngempela?
16. Yiziphi amahora avunyelwe ukuvakashela izihlobo? Ingabe bawavumela ukuba bangene ewadi?
17. Uma ukuzalwa kuqala ebusuku noma hhayi endaweni kadokotela, ingabe udokotela uzofika?
18. Yini ehlomele isigceme sokubeletha kanye nesigceme sokubeletha? Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukuhamba, ume, uhlale ekulwa nokuzama. uzibonela ngendlela ozizwa ukhululekile ngayo?
19. Kungaba khona yini isimo esinjalo, ngenxa yokuthi udokotela ngeke eze ukubeletha? Ngumuphi umyalo wokusebenza ozoba khona kulokhu, futhi hlobo luni lodokotela olungalibeka esikhundleni? (Kunconywa ukujwayela lo dokotela kusengaphambili).
20. Ngidinga ukuvumelanisa kusengaphambili eNkantolo noma ngingavuma yini lapho?
21. Ngiziphi izimo ukuvuselelwa komsebenzi wezabasebenzi okwenzeka ngesikhathi sokuzalwa?
22. Ngamaphi ama-bubbles ahlatshwa?
23. Ingabe i-anesthesia ye-epidural noma enye?
24. Ngosuku luni emva kokubeletha ukukhipha lokhu kuqhutshwa futhi kudlula kanjani?
Yiqiniso, kungenzeka ukuthi awukhumbuli ngisho nalezi zinkinga ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, kodwa ungaba nokuthula ukuthi "ugcine konke okulawulwayo." Into ebaluleke kakhulu isimo sengqondo esihle nokuqiniseka ukuthi konke kuyoba kuhle! Ngikufisela ukulethwa okulula kanye nezingane ezinempilo!