Okuhlangenwe nakho okukhathazayo ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa

Thina, madodakazi amahle, njengoba uyazi, izidalwa ezithandeka kakhulu. Futhi esimweni esithakazelisayo - ngisho nangaphezulu! Sonke silimala, kusenza sikhathazeke futhi sibe nesaba. Amama omuso athambekele ekutheni inhlanzi ibe yindlovu. Futhi bahlushwa yizikhulu ezinkulu ezingokwengqondo, hhayi kuphela ezungezile, kodwa nabesifazane ngokwabo. Ungafunda kanjani ukuzivikela ekuhlangenwe nakho okungadingekile, ngaleyo ndlela ugcine impilo yakho - kokubili eyakho kanye nomntanakho?
Sicela ungaphazamisi!
Sekuyisikhathi eside izazi zezinqondo zisekela ukuthi bonke abantu bangabonakalisa ukukhishwa kwesifiso (isifiso sokukhulumisana), noma ukuxolisa (isifiso sokuba yedwa). Ngendlela ehlanzekile ye-extroverts futhi ukungeniswa lapho akukhona kakhulu, kaningi singabona izinhlobo ezixubekile. Nokho, njengoba kunjalo, konke lapha kulungile ekulinganiseni! Owesifazane ozayo ngezinye izikhathi avule ngokungenakugwetshwa umphefumulo kuwo wonke umuntu owaziyo nesihlobo. Kubonakala sengathi utshele okuthile ngesimo sakhe nomngane omuhle ozwakalayo, kepha ngenxa yezizathu ezithile washiya umuzwa ongajwayelekile wokungabi nalutho ... Cha, lokhu akuyona "iso elibi" elidala, kodwa umphumela wokuvuleka okungenabulungisa, okukhululekile. Yiqiniso, kubalulekile ukuthola ukwesekwa ngokomzwelo noma induduzo , kodwa into esemqoka akusiyo ukugoba induku, ngoba ukuvula amacici omphefumulo ngisho nomngane omkhulu, sisengcupheni ukuthola ukuphendula okungalindelekile, futhi ubunye obunzima obungokwengqondo bomama nengane kufanele buqashwe. ukubukeka kwawo wonke owesifazane ophansi kwenhliziyo yengane, futhi ukuvikela le mfihlo kuwumsebenzi obalulekile! Kungasiza ngezindlela ezahlukene, kwabanye, umthandazo, kwabanye, ubuciko kuyoba umthombo wokuthula okukhuthazayo, futhi kumuntu - ukuxhumana nemvelo, izithombe, umculo. izingxoxo, imizwelo engadingekile - akeke ihambe ngisho nangokwesibini, kodwa kuhlelo lweshumi. Yenza imizwa yabanye abantu ingathinti izwe elincane eliyigugu lapho ingane yakho iqala khona ukuphila.

Imikhandlu yezwe
Izihlobo eziningi, abangane kanye nomakhelwane, akuzona neze abathandekayo ukunikeza umama izeluleko eziyikhulu noma ezimbili ezibalulekile, akusho ukuthi lezi zeluleko zingalimala. "Ingabe uzobeletha isivumelwano? Ngingakwenza kanjani? Yebo, esikhathini sethu ... Ingabe uzozobeletha ekhaya? Kanjani? Yebo, yeka ukuthi sasimpofu kangakanani, asizange sibelethe ekhaya ... Kunqume ukwenza ngaphandle kwama-diapers? Yeka ukungabi nalutho! Ingabe uhlose ukuthenga ama-diapers? Lokhu kuyimali efanayo yokuphonsa emoyeni! "Wonke owesifazane okhulelwe angazwa lokhu okungenangqondo, yingakho kuyoba kuhle uma uqaphela ukuthi usuzozwa esinye iseluleko esihle, kodwa kahle kodwa ubeke ingxoxo ngendlela ephephile.
Ngakho, yini okufanele ukhulume ngayo? Isihloko esingcono kunazo zonke siyingane yabangane bakho nezihlobo zakho. Bazokujabulela ukukhuluma ngakho futhi, cishe, bashiye izindaba zakho zodwa. Esinye isihloko esikhulu yizintshisekelo nokuzilibazisa. Buza umamazana wakho ukuthi yiliphi ikhonsathi ayeya kulo maduzane? Iyiphi incwadi efundwe ngumama noma umakhelwane wami futhi bacabangani ngefashini yanamuhla?
Mhlawumbe uke ujabulele ukubuka ama-movie acasulayo, amafilimu ashaqisayo nokufunda izincwadi zokuqukethwe okungathandabuzeki empilweni "ye-pre-bereg", kodwa manje sekuyisikhathi sokukhokha kakhulu ukugeleza kwezindaba ozithola nsuku zonke kusuka emithonjeni ehlukene yolwazi. imizwa nemizwelo!

Sizolalela amazwi we-DJs oyikhonzile, amaculo amnandi angenawo, futhi azophazamisa ukukhishwa kwezindaba eziphazamisayo noma izindaba mayelana nenkinga yezomnotho eye yaphazamisa izwe.Wena, ungazi, uzobuza: Cha, yebo! Ukukwazi ukuthi ukuphila kwezwe kubalulekile, kodwa ake "umcibisholo" usebenze njengomyeni onothando noma umngane, okwenza kube lula ukukhetha izindaba ezintsha . Yilesihloko sengxoxo lapho! Vula ngomsindo i-TV nomsakazo uma uzama ukusitshela ngezinhlekelele nezinhlekelele ze-catacsms!
"Omunye ugogo wathi ..." - yilokho okushiwo igama lalaba bantu. "Lokho abasebenzi bayo abakwenzayo, kulula ukuqagela: ukusakazeka kwenhlebo nokubandlulula.
Kumama okhulelwe, i-OPS iqeda ngqo imizamo yayo. Futhi uma kukhona ukubandlulula okungabumnyama okwamanje kungahle kuchazwe ngokucacile, khona-ke ezinye izibonelo eziningi zingacutshungulwa. Ngakho-ke: silwe konke ukubandlulula komunye, njengokhula, ukuvimbela imbali yakho ekulinde isikhathi eside ingaveli!

"Yebo, ngisesimweni sakho ..."
Ngaphandle kokumemeza, ngeshwa, kumama ozayo, kwenzeka, kukhona nezinsolo nokuhlambalaza! Abantu bahlukile, abanye, njengezikhukhula, kungcono ukudlula, kodwa lapho behlangene nomphenyi noma abafisa ukungafuni, ungalokothi ukhohlwe: okuhle kunqoba noma yikuphi okubi. Ngamanye amazwi unike lo muntu izimbali noma i-teddy bear. Noma umcabange njengomuntu olingumdwebi we-cartoon yezingane. Ukulinganisa okuphelele iPherth Panther, uWinnie the Pooh no-Cheburashka - bahlolwe! Uyozihleka wena, futhi kuzobe kukhanya futhi. Kukhona enye idivayisi ewusizo engokwengqondo: ukwethula umuntu ongajabulisayo ngesimo somntwana omncane. Futhi-ke u-Auntie, ongekhohlisayo ngokumangalela kuwe, uzobonakala engumfana omncane onobungozi. Futhi kungani ucasulwa ngamantombazane angenangqondo?

Umngane omkhulu womuntu
Inkulumo, yebo, mayelana nezincwadi nezinye izincwadi ezinyathelisiwe ezingasenza sibe mnandi ngaphezu kolunye ulwazi. Ngesizathu esithile, kukholelwa ukuthi owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele afunde njalo ama-classic! Kodwa-ke, umzimba wethu ushiywe ngezinyembezi ngama-hormone ama-catecholamines anobungozi, kodwa ngabe ngabe ama-hormone kufanele akhiqizwe ngendlela eminye umbuzo! Ngakho-ke masishiye abaningi beklasiki ngokuthula Vumela indaba ka-Anna Karenina ilinde! Izincwadi kumele zivuke kuwe manje injabulo kuphela!

Ngakho, yini ewusizo ukufunda? Kusukela ezincwadini - izincwadi eziphathelene nemibala, izinwele, ukupheka (uma ungenayo i-toxicosis), izincwadi mayelana nokuhamba namazwe ahlukene. Kuwusizo ukubeka ama-albhamu esithombe nge-landscapes (isibonelo, ngezithombe zamasimu we-chamomile nezinkinobho). Kuwusizo ukuba ne-albhamu yezithombe nge-roses: lezi zimbali, njengombuso, zenzakala kahle. Siphinde sifunde izincwadi mayelana nokuncelisa ukubeletha nokuthuthukiswa kwengane. Ngesikhathi esifanayo sizofunda poteshki-lullabies - kuyoba usizo! Uma wazi ulimi lwangaphandle, funda kuso, ikakhulukazi nesichazamazwi - okokuqala, ingqondo yakho izoba ngethoni, futhi okwesibili, thatha isikhathi sakho.
Ngokuqondene nomagazini, into eyinhloko kubo kungukuntula kolwazi mayelana nezinkinga zokukhulelwa, ukubeletha okunzima, kanye nezindaba ezihlabayo nganoma yini.
Omagazini abamukelwayo ngomshado, imfashini, ngoba maduzane uzodinga - hhayi iminyaka yakho ozokhulelwa!
Ukusebenza okuvela kuma-classics e-ballet, ngisho nasekusebenzeni kahle - isikhathi esiningi sokungena kumama.

Ingabe ubuciko bufuna ukuzidela?
Kuwo wonke ubuciko bokubukwa komsindo, njengamanje kuyisiko ukusho, nakanjani indawo yaseshashalazini iyathula. Kodwa namanje, khetha ama-comedies noma imikhiqizo eqinisekisiwe. Jabulela umdlalo wabalingisi! Ungathembi izimemezelo ku-intanethi, kungcono ukubuza abangani ukuthi bafunde kabanzi mayelana nokusebenza. Ngisho emdlalweni we-classical wathandwa ukusebenzisa imiphumela engalindelekile (njengomsindo ozwakalayo ozwakalayo). I-operetta enhle yama-classic, uma uyayithanda. Phuma ehholo, uhlabelele futhi ujabule nje! Kodwa ngezingoma ezintsha nama-concerts we-pop ziqaphele kakhulu: ngokuvamile zifakwe ukufaka okunamandla okunamandla okuthi wena, kanye nezingane ungangakhululeki. Ngokufanayo kungashiwo nge-movie. Ngeshwa, abaqondisi banamuhla bazama ukungajabuli izinzwa zethu, kodwa ukuwashaya, kodwa ngokunamandla. Ngakho-ke ukuqapha ekukhetheni i-repertoire yomama ozayo ngeke kuphumele! Naphezu kwazo zonke izinyathelo zokukhulelwa, ukukhulelwa, akufanele kube yisikhathi esibucayi, okumelwe silinde silithule futhi sisodwa.

Zizinakekele. Yiya kumuntu wezinwele, yenza umuthi, uma impilo ivumela, ngena echibini le-aqua aerobics noma i-yoga yabesifazane abakhulelwe. Konke ezandleni zakho! Zama ukujabulela isimo sakho esisha, ujabule nsuku zonke, ungathokozi ngokwakho kuphela, kodwa kwabanye. Ubani owaziyo, mhlawumbe kule nkathi ehlukile yokuphila kwakho uzothola abangane bangempela futhi usize othile? Ingabe uzovula ithalenta lakho noma ube nesihle? Umhlaba ulindele wena nsuku zonke!