Abazali-othisha
Yebo, mhlawumbe, empeleni, okokuqala udinga ukuphendula umbuzo ngokuphathelene nokusemqoka nokuqukethwe kwemfundo yasekhaya, ukuze uqonde ukuthi hlobo luni lomntwana luyoba ngcono kakhulu.
Umqondo wemfundo yasekhaya, okokuqala, kusho ukuthi ingane ifundiswa abazali ngokwabo. Yiqiniso, kunezinzuzo eziningi kulokhu. Isibonelo, umama noma ubaba angazakhela ipulani ngokwabo, abakhele ukuze umntwana abe nesithakazelo. Ekufundiseni ekhaya, abazali kuphela abaqondisa le nqubo. Akekho owakhulume kubo. Nokho, ukuze uqeqeshe indodana yakho noma indodakazi yakho ngendlela efaneleko, kuzomele ukwazi ukuhlola ngokwanele amakhono abo. Khumbula ukuthi ingane ngeke ithole imfundo enhle uma uqala ukuphazamisa imiphumela yakhe. Yiqiniso, izingane zidinga ukudunyiswa nokusekelwa, kodwa akudingeki ukuthi zikhulume ngalokho okungewona ngempela. Okuyinhloko yemfundo yasekhaya ukuthi abazali kufanele bacabange yonke imisebenzi yothisha. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuqina, okunamandla kuzo zonke izinkomba. Kudingeka ucabange ukuthi zingakanani iminyaka oyokwazi ukufundisa ingane ngokwakho. Uma isitokisi solwazi ikuvumela ukuba ufundise ekilasini eliphothule, bese uqaphele. Kodwa, uma ungamnika imfundo eyisisekelo kuphela, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngakho. Iqiniso lokuthi ingane iyoba nzima ngokwanele ukuba ifinyelele eqenjini elisele likhona. Yiqiniso, ama-first-graders nawo anzima kanzima. Kodwa zonke zihamba ngezinyawo ezilinganayo. Bonke kufanele bajwayele, bafunde ukuxhumana nabanye njalo. Kodwa uma ingane ifika esikoleni ebangeni lesihlanu, ingabi namakhono okukhulumisana nabo ekilasini, kungaba nzima kakhulu kuye eqenjini elisha.
Bonke ukuqeqeshwa kusezinhlombe zabazali
Futhi, ungakhohlwa ukuthi uma ukhetha uhlobo lokufunda ekhaya, ingane kufanele idlulisele cishe sonke isikhathi samahhala. Lapho ingane ivela esikoleni, lapho ithola khona imfundo ejwayelekile, abazali kudingeka bamsize nje ukuba benze umsebenzi wesikole. Kulesi simo, umthwalo ophindwe kabili noma kathathu uwela emahlombe kamama noma ubaba. Ngakho-ke, imfundo yasekhaya ingasetshenziswa kuphela emindenini lapho omunye wabazali ehlala endlini. Iqiniso liwukuthi ingane, ejwayele ukuhlala ekhaya, ngeke ihlale "kusukela enhlokweni kuya enhlokweni", njengoba kwenzeka esikoleni. Phela, akayena uthisha oqinile, ongakwazi ukungena embi edayari yakhe, kodwa umama wakhe othandekayo noma ubaba othandekayo. Ngakho-ke ulungele ukungalindeleki, ukuhlambalaza, ukuhlambalaza, isifiso esiqhubekayo sokuphumula. Kumele ube nesineke esikhulu nethalenta yokufundisa ukuze ingane ifunde isikhathi esiningi njengoba esikoleni. Uma wena uqala "ukuthatha izikhundla" bese uhlehlisa okuthile ngomuso, khona-ke kusukela emfundweni enjalo akekho oyobe ngcono. Phela, okuqukethwe kwemfundo ekhaya ukuthi ingane ithola ulwazi oluningi kunesikoleni, nokucindezeleka okuncane.
Ngandlela-thile, ezinye izingane azivumelani neze esikolweni. Futhi akuxhomeki ezingeni lentuthuko nokuhlakanipha. Banezinhlobo ezinjalo. Amadoda angasebenza futhi abe nesithakazelo kuphela eqenjini, futhi alalele kuphela isiyalo esikoleni. Ngakho-ke, uma ubona ukuthi ingane yakho ayifuni lutho futhi ingafuni ukufundisa nawe iminyaka eminingana, kufanelekile ukukhohlwa ngemfundo yasekhaya. Iqiniso liwukuthi isikole sifaka umqondo othi "kumele", okuyinto ekhaya ayitholakali yiyo yonke ingane.
Ukungabi nokuxhumana eqenjini
Futhi kubalulekile ukukhumbula ngokucindezeleka kwengqondo. Yebo, yiqiniso, wonke umuntu ufuna ukuvikela ingane yakhe ekuhlangenwe nakho. Ngakho-ke, sesaba kakhulu ukuthi uthisha ngeke amphathe ngendlela efanele, ngeke amqonde, ngeke akwazi ukufundisa ukuze ingane ikwazi ukuqonda lokho. Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ingane ngemuva kwakho konke kudingeka ifunde ukuhlala eqenjini. Ngisho noma eqeda isikole, efunda ekhaya, usadingeka afunde ngokugcwele unyuvesi. Futhi kungaba khona izinkinga zokuxhumana. Yebo, izikole zanamuhla zinezinkinga eziningi, kodwa ngakolunye uhlangothi, wonke umuntu kufanele afunde indlela yokulwa nemibono yabo futhi avikele iphuzu lokubuka. Futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ingane yayingekho nzima kangakanani eqenjini, nguye othukuthele futhi ofundisa ukulwa, ukuxhumana, abe abangane, kulokhu kukhona okuqukethwe okuthile kwemfundo yesikole. Mhlawumbe abanye abazali babe nesipiliyoni esibi esikoleni esihlotshaniswa nothisha nabafunda nabo. Ngokuvamile, abantu abanjalo abafuni ukuba izingane zabo zihlupheke. Kodwa-ke, ungazama ukuthola isikole ukuthi, ngokombono wakho, sizolandela ingane kahle.
Ngakho-ke, uma udweba umugqa, okusemqoka nokuqukethwe kwemfundo esekelwe ekhaya ukuthi abazali bangakhetha uhlobo lwezethulo, isikhathi samakilasi, futhi banethuba lokuzibandakanya ngokujulile kulezi zihloko ezinganikwe ingane. Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, kudingeka badlulisele isikhathi esiningi kulokhu, yiba nesineke, uhlole ulwazi ngokwanele futhi ukwazi ukufundisa. Ngakho-ke, uma ungesabi umthwalo onjalo futhi ucabanga ukuthi ingane yakho ngeke iqedwe emphakathini, imfundo yasekhaya ingakulandela.