Ukunakwa nothando lukababa kuyadingeka yingane, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ubulili. Kuhle kakhulu, uma ubaba enesikhathi esiningi samahhala, angayinika indodana yakhe noma indodakazi yakhe. Kodwa, ezimweni eziningi, ngemuva kokubuya ekhaya emva komsebenzi, ubaba ufuna ukubuka i-TV noma ukufunda incwadi. Nakuba, uma sazi isidingo sokunakekela izingane. Kodwa ungadlala nomntwana ngaphandle kokuzingela. Kungcono ukunikeza imvuthuluka cishe imizuzu engu-10-15, bese uchaza ukuthi ubaba ukhathele futhi ufuna ukuphumula. Ngokuvamile obaba bathambekele ekukhuleni iqhawe langempela emntwaneni wabo, elibizwa ngokuthi yizo zonke izici, ngenxa yalokhu kuba nzima kakhulu ukuba bajabule nomunye nomunye. Ubaba angaqala esemncane ukumfundisa ukuthi adlale basketball noma ibhola. Uma ubaba ekhomba ingane ngaso sonke isikhathi, uqala ukuzwa ukuthi akakwazi ukuqonda nokufunda. Ngelinye ilanga umfana uzothanda imidlalo uma enokwethenjelwa nesifiso sokujoyina ibhola. Udumo lukababa lubaluleke kakhulu kuye kunamaphethelo nemikhombandlela engapheli. Ukudlala ibhola kungumsebenzi omuhle, uma isenzo somfana, siqiniswa ukusekelwa kukayise. Umfana akayena indoda yangempela ngoba nje wazalwa enomzimba wesilisa. Uyazi ukuthi uyindoda futhi uziphathe njengendoda, ngenxa yokuthi kungenzeka ukuba uzuze uyise noma umfowabo omdala noma umfana omdala oxhumana naye futhi asebenzise isikhathi sakhe. Angamlingisa umuntu omzwelana naye. Uma ubaba ehlale ecasukile futhi engafuni ukuqonda izenzo zendodana yakhe, mhlawumbe umfana uzozizwa engakhululekile enkampanini kayise, naphakathi kwamadoda nabafana. Umfana onjalo uyoba lula ukuthatha isibonelo futhi azuze umama wakhe. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma ubaba efuna indodana yakhe ibe yindoda, kufanele kube lula ukuphatha ingane futhi ingammangaleli ngokudlala imidlalo namantombazane noma lapho ekhala, bese ezama ukuqonda le nkinga futhi echaze indodana yakhe ukuthi kufanele yenzeni ukuze kuphumelele impumelelo ezemidlalo nakuzo zonke izinto. Ubaba kufanele athathe isikhathi ngesimo sengqondo esihle nendodana yakhe, ukuze aqaphele ukuthi ungumngani nomngane wakhe. Ubaba nendodana kufanele babe nesikhathi sokuhamba ngokuhlanganyela kanye nokuya ezindaweni ezithakazelisayo. Futhi-ke awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kwemfihlo yakho yamadoda kanye nalabo okuxoxwa ngabantu kuphela.
Umfana uyisibonelo sokulingisa - ubaba, nakuba abaningi bengaboni ukuthi le ntombazane udlala enye, ayiyona indima ebalulekile ekukhuliseni kwakhe. Intombazane ayithathi isibonelo kubayise, kodwa indawo yakhe iqinisa ukuzethemba kwayo. Upapa kufanele ahloniphe indwangu enhle yokugqoka izinwele noma igqoke lezimfashini zentombazane, noma noma yini intombazane ehlakaniphile ezoyenza yedwa. Lapho intombazane ikhula, ubaba kufanele abonise ukuthi uyamlalela futhi, uma kungenzeka, baxoxisane nabo ngebhizinisi labo. Futhi lapho indodakazi ikhula, isoka lakhe lizoqala ukubonakala, ngalesi sikhathi kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ubaba abaphathe kahle, noma, noma okungenani ukubekezelela uma, ngokombono wakhe, umfana akafanelekile ngempela intombazane. Lapho intombazane ibona ubaba lezo zimfanelo ezimenza abe yindoda yangempela, uzobe esilungele izwe elikhulu, eliyingxenye yesilisa. Ukukhetha indodakazi esikhathini esizayo lapho ephenduka intombazane, impilo yakhe yasemshadweni yamanje kanye nekhethiwe ngezindlela eziningi kuxhomeke ekutheni ubuhlobo obunjani nobaba bayo ngesikhathi sakha ubuntu bakhe.
Ngokuvamile ubaba uthanda izinto ezivunguvungu nezingane, ngendlela, efika ekuthandaneni kwezingane. Kodwa izingane zivame ukuxoshwa kakhulu emidlalweni enjalo, kungani ziqala ukuba nokulala ebusuku. Kubalulekile ukwazi ngokucacile ukuthi eminyakeni engama-2 kuya kwengu-4, izingane zivame ukulahlekelwa ukulawula imizwa enjengokwesaba, inzondo nothando. Izingane ezincane azizwa umehluko phakathi kweqiniso neqiniso. Uma ubaba edlala ingonyama, khona-ke ingane ngaleso sikhathi impela icabanga ngaye njengengonyama. Lokhu kungaba nomthelela omubi kakhulu kumntwana. Ngakho-ke, imidlalo enobudlova kufanele ibe nomusa futhi iphile isikhathi esifushane, ngisho noma ingane ithanda futhi icela okungaphezulu. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi imidlalo enesivunguvungu ayifuni futhi ilwa, kodwa imane nje i-gymnastics. Uma ingane isaba kakhulu, yeka ngokushesha. Kusadingeka ukusho amazwi ambalwa ngokuhleka usulu. Akufanele neze uhlekehle ingane yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi, ethukuthele nendodana yakhe, uyise ubeka intukuthelo yakhe esikhundleni sakhe. Ingane ihlala ihlazekile. Ekubonisaneni kwethu kwabazali, singathanda ukuphawula ukuthi ukuhleka usulu kunamandla okujezisa izingane nganoma yisiphi isikhathi.
Ngokuvamile, satshele ngendima kayise ekukhulisweni kwezingane, ukubonisana kwabazali, esithemba ukuthi, kwakungeyona ize.