Ukuzalwa kokubeletha bekulokhu kubangela izinkolelo eziningi, izinkomba namahemuhemu athandwayo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngaphambi kokubonakala kwezinzuzo zokuthuthuka kwesayense nezobuchwepheshe emphakathini wethu, indoda yazulazula ebumnyameni besaba nezinkolelo-ze. Ngeke sizikhathalele ngemigomo ye-Vedic esemdala kakhulu kithi, ngoba umuntu wesimanje uye wasuka kakhulu emvelweni, isikhathi eside ngaphambi kwe-NTP. Futhi kufana nesendle nokungafundile kunendodana yeminye imiphakathi enkulu. Namuhla sizokukhanyisa ezinye zezinganekwane ezijwayelekile ngokukhulelwa nokubeletha. Ngakho, izinkanuko zabesifazane: ukukhulelwa nokubeletha.
1. Ukulandela ukudla, ukuvivinya umzimba okhethekile nokukhetha ngokufanele usuku lokukhulelwa, ungahlela ucansi lomntwana ozayo. Akunjalo. Ubulili bomntwana bufana neloti ye-genetic engalindelekile. Imthelela ekukhulelweni kwengane yobuningi bobulili obuhlukile nazo zonke izinhlobo zokudlula kanye neziphonso ngumsebenzi ongenangqondo.
2. Ukukhulelwa kuhlale kuyisifo esibi kakhulu, isisindo, amahlaya. Lokhu kuzoholela ekuxabaneni futhi kungase kuholele ekuphuleni ubudlelwane. Cha, cha, futhi akukho! Leli yizinganekwane ezivame kakhulu, ziphefumulelwe nje ngamadoda, hhayi abesifazane, ukwesaba. I-toxicosis yabesifazane abakhulelwe akuyona isimo esibi kakhulu. Kwenzeka ngesimo esibucayi kuphela kumaphesenti ayishumi abesifazane abakhulelwe, futhi ngisho nangesikhathi sokudla okunomsoco okungaphezu kwamasonto amabili ngenyanga yokuqala yokukhulelwa. Kudingeka nje uzilalele, ususe ukudla "okunephunga" nokudla. Zizungeze iphunga elimnandi. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi udla noma uphuze okuthile okumuncu kusukela ekuseni, mhlawumbe ungaphumi embhedeni. Isibonelo, isiraphu ye-apple noma i-cranberry. Imoya yabesifazane abakhulelwe ingagxuma ngenxa yezinga eliphezulu le progesterone. Kodwa lezi zithandwa nje ezithandekayo, kodwa zihlobisa. Phela, ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, owesifazane uqala ukuthula. Kunomphumela wesayensi ongaqondakali we-pacification engavamile yabesifazane abakhulelwe, njengokungathi ingane ithobisa unina.
3. Kudinga ukuthula, umsebenzi ongokwenyama awukhishiwe, kunoma yikuphi okwamanje awukwazi ukudlala ezemidlalo. Yiqiniso, ezemidlalo akufanele zithathwe, ngoba imidlalo isebenza emkhakheni wamathuba angokwenyama, ngaphandle kwalokho akuyona imidlalo, kodwa imfundo engokwenyama. Lona iphutha elivamile esilenzayo lapho sikhuluma ngemfundo engokwenyama, hhayi ezemidlalo. Ukuzivocavoca kwabesifazane abakhulelwe akugcini nje ngokuphikisana, kodwa ngokuphambene - kuboniswa. Ukugijima kalula ekuseni, imidlalo engeyona eyingozi (i-badminton, i-volleyball ebhishi, i-polo yamanzi), ukubhukuda, ukuhamba.
4. Ukukhulelwa akukwazi ukubheka okubi, ingane izozalwa eyibi. Ungaqinisekisa omama abalindele: idatha yangaphandle yengane, njengobulili bakhe, ayixhomeki ekuboneni okutholwe esibelethweni sikamama. Bahlelwe isimo, kanye nobulili kanye nezici zedatha yokuzalwa, kusukela ekuhlanganiseni okungahleliwe kwezakhi zofuzo. Kodwa-ke, imizwelo emihle iyozuza kuphela, futhi ayibi - ingozi empilweni yengqondo yomama. Lezi yizizathu ezilula futhi ezizwakalayo ukuthi kungani owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele ayeke ukubuka ama-movie ama-horror, kodwa kunokuya egalari yezithombe noma opera.
5. Awukwazi ukunquma izinwele zakho - unciphise impilo yakho nengane yakho. Ngokusho kwezinganekwane zasendulo, kuzinwele ezinamandla amakhulu. Cabanga, omama abathandekayo esikhathini esizayo: kungani amadoda enquma izinwele, kanti indoda iyena kuqala futhi impi enkulu? Ngesizathu esithile, amadoda ayesabi ukunciphisa izimpilo zabo ngokungazi lutho futhi azibambe amandla. Ungesabi ukunquma izinwele ezingadingekile ngesikhathi ukhulelwe, lokhu kuzokwenza ukuthi izinwele zakho zibe ngcono kangcono, okungahambisani nezikhathi ezinhle kakhulu. Futhi njalo ufuna ukubukeka kahle, ikakhulukazi kusukela ngokushesha ngemuva kokubeletha, ngeke ube nesikhathi salo. Yiba mnandi. Ukushaywa kwezinwele ezihle kakhulu ngaphansi kwamadolo - umhlobiso omuhle wesifazane. Lo akekho ozokuphika! Kodwa kuthiwani uma izinwele zihlambalaza futhi zincanyana, futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, kungcono ukukhuphuka? Ungazihlukumezi ngokungabaza - ngaphansi kwezikhali zabo! Futhi yonke ibhizinisi. Futhi sebenzisa izindlela zokubuyisela izinwele. Njengoba umntwana efuna ukuthola amavithamini, futhi utholaphi, ngokushesha nje engekho emzimbeni wakho? Lokhu akudingekile ukukhohlwa.
6. Ukukhulelwa kuyisibi, isisu sithatha isibalo. Akathandeki. Yebo, futhi ucansi ngeke ukwazi ukwenza. Isikhathi sokuba umyeni wakhe amshiye nomntwana ongakazalwa. Lena isitatimende sasendle! Wonke umuntu amaphupho ngasese wokulala ocansini nowesifazane okhulelwe. Lokhu akukhona nje kuphela ukufisa kwamadoda okuzama ukuzama ucansi. Lokhu kuyisifiso esingenasisekelo sokuba nomama ozayo wenzalo yakhe. Yena, njengokungathi, ubeka amandla akhe emndenini, ngakho-ke uyaqaphela ukuzalwa. Umuntu onjalo uzoziqhenya ngezingane zakhe nomkakhe, owabeletha izingane zakhe. Uzoba uyise onomusa womndeni, hhayi ukungabi nandaba nempumelelo nezinsizi zezingane, ngoba zingabantwana bakhe, "inyama negazi" lakhe. Ngokuqondene nenjabulo yabesifazane, ukulala ngokobulili noma i-orgasm yowesifazane kuyomonakalisa ingane.