Buka-ungadlali!
Amantombazane, omncane, abangane, ngisho nabantwana besifazane, bakuqinisekisile ukuthi baphatha ingane ezandleni zabo-ubugebengu. Futhi uma ungaqala ngokushesha ukujwayela ukuzimela kwakho, ugqoke ezandleni zakho, khona-ke uzobe esehlala entanyeni yakho maduzane. Njengokuthi, ingane izokhipha ama-hysterics ngaphandle nangaphandle, ekusebenziseni futhi ngokujwayelekile - iyoba yi-monster yangempela engenakuqhathaniswa.
Kuyini ukuqinisekiswa? Empeleni, azikho izibalo ezinjalo mayelana nobuhlobo phakathi kokugqoka ingane ezandleni zakhe nokuziphatha kwakhe okulandelayo. Abantu besizukulwane esidala banamathuba amaningi okukhuluma ngesimo esivamile esivumayo esidumile, futhi, kaningi, ngokwemigomo: "I-Pasternak? Cha, angikwenzi. Kodwa ngiyalahla. " Ngokuqinisekile abazange baphathe izingane zabo ezandleni zabo ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa basho ukuthi kubi. Abahlengikazi bayazi kahle izinsipho, colic kanye nemigomo, kodwa ngokuqinisekile bayazi izidingo ezingathí sina ezingokwengqondo zengane yakho ngokuqondile.
Imiphumela yezifundo zamuva zibonisa ukuthi uma ingane isencane ithola ukuxhumana okuthintana nomama, khona-ke iyokhula ngokunethezeka, eyaneleyo futhi ephathekayo. Kungenye into yokuthi "izingane" zithinteka kakhulu kubazali babo kunabangane babo "abahlanjululwe". Kulabo omama, bephoqeleka ukuba banikele ingane emanzini bese beya emsebenzini, lokhu kungaba yinkinga enkulu. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, okunamathiselwe okunjengomntwana kuzokuqinisekisa ubuhlobo bakho obufudumele, obethembayo nengane yakho ekhulayo esikhathini esizayo.
Ngakho-ke, uma uhlukile "izifiso ezinhle" kukuthinta ukuba usule ingane ngokushesha, futhi ungavumelani ngaphakathi, ke ungamlaleli noma ubani. Memezela wonke umuntu isinqumo sakho, senze kucace ukuthi nguwe kuphela onelungelo lokunquma ukuthi yini engcono kakhulu kumntanakho. Zama ukukhokha kancane izeluleko ezinde, kaningi ubhekisela ekufundeni kwabazali bakho nasezincomeni zongcweti ezigunyazayo.
Mane nje!
Kuyinto engavamile ukuba isimo lapho umama, ngokuyisisekelo, ekwaneliseni zonke izidingo zomntwana, kodwa kunzima ngokomzimba, okungeyona nje i-corny. Yilokho okumcindezelayo ekucabangeni ukuthi ingane isuliwe ezandleni. Kulokhu, kuzodingeka sicabange kabusha inhlangano yokuphila kwasekhaya futhi siphinde sinikeze imithwalo yemfanelo emndenini. Faka i-koukhod yengane izihlobo, abangane, abangani. Unganqikazi ukwenza lokhu, abaningi bayokuhlala ngokujabula ngamasik wakho amahora ambalwa ngesonto. Uma kukhona amathuba emali, qasha imali enhle.
Futhi, ukwenza lula impilo kamama kuzosiza ukuhlukahluka okuhlukahlukene okungaphazamisa okwesikhashana ukunakekelwa kwengane. Lezi amathoyizi ahlukene womculo, amafoni omakhalekhukhwini, ukuthuthukisa amathi kanye namabhokisi okududuza okukhethekile. Kukhona ama-dazhenomodnye cribs aklanyelwe ukuzolalisa izingane, ukuhlukumeza i-colic. Uma uthatha konke lokhu enkonzweni, uzobe lula kakhulu. Into eyinhloko ukuthi ingane kufanele iphazamiseke, futhi ingabi nomuzwa wokuthi ilahlwe futhi inqatshelwe.
Asikho isikhathi sokugcina indlu
Ngokuvamile lokhu kuyinkinga nabomama abanezingane eziningana abangenaso usizo olukhulu ngemisebenzi yasendlini. Yiqiniso, lapha futhi, udinga ukubeka zonke izinto ezibalulekile. Ukuntuleka kakhudlwana kwesikhathi, cishe kunalokho, kungokwemvelo: akwanele ukuthi owesifazane wesimanje unesimu elikhulu elidinga ukuhlolwa njalo. Ukuze wenze okufanayo ukuze wenze ukudla okulula, fakela izingubo zokugeza emshinini wokugeza futhi uhlanza izikhathi ezimbalwa ngesonto endlini, udinga isikhathi esiningi.
Amamama athuthukisayo ayoba usizo ukufunda izindlela zokuphatha, ukubandakanya izihlobo emsebenzini wendlu, ukufunda ukuthi ungasebenzisa kanjani isikebhe noma "kangaroo". Qonda, ingane yakho ibaluleke kakhulu kunanoma yimuphi umndeni. Futhi ngeke kube ezandleni zakho yonke impilo yakho. Lumala - maduze kuzoba isikhathi eside.
Ukuphuma Kwamama Ekuqaleni Kusebenza
Kwenzeka ukuthi umndeni unezinkinga zezezimali. Umama uphoqeleka ukuba aqale umsebenzi ekuseni, ahlinzeke umntwana emtholampilo, ngoba akukho izihlobo ezikhululekile, noma imali ye-nanny ayikho. Empeleni, lokhu kuyona kuphela isimo lapho umama ehlulekile khona emntwaneni.
Yiqiniso, akuyona neze iqiniso lokuthi ingane idinga ukunqatshelwe ukuxhumana okuthinta lokhu. Kudingeka nje kusukela ezinyangeni zokuqala ukufundisa ingane emphakathini wabantu abahlukene. Shiya kaningi nabangani, izihlobo, vakashela. Kodwa lawo mahora angavamile asetshenziselwa umntwana, zama ukugcwalisa izinga lokufudumala nothando.
Ukufakwa kwezifinyezo
Eqinisweni, kuvela ukuthi kunezindlela ezimbili kuphela zokondla umntwana ezandleni. Indlela yokuqala ukumfundisa ukuthi ashintshe ezinye izinto: amathoyizi athakazelisayo, umculo, ngisho naku-TV. Kubazali abaningi, le ndlela iphumelela kakhulu, nakuba kwabanye ingasebenzi nhlobo.
Indlela yesibili akumele nje unake ukunakwa. Ukumemeza - kuhle, ake. Uzojwayela isikhathi. Kodwa-ke lokhu kuvame ukuba nomthelela omubi: umntwana oswele isidingo sokuxhumana nonina akanelisekile, eba nexhala, angenangqondo futhi unikeza abazali izinkinga ezinkulu lapho esekhulile. Ngakho-ke kuwe ukugaya ngokucindezela, ubuqili, noma ungayinci. Lalela inhliziyo yenyoko - ngokuqinisekile ngeke.