1. I-waste genus izoba ukwethuka kwangempela kuwe;
2. Ihora lokuqala lokuzalwa lizokwesaba ukuthi uzofa;
3. Uyozizwa ungenakubekezela, futhi njengoba kubonakala kuwe, ubuhlungu obungapheli.
Noma, uma uzama ukuhlaziya zonke izinhlobo zokuthi ingane ibeletha kanjani futhi usebenze kanzima ukulungiselela lolo suku, cishe kungenzeka ukuthi lezi zinkumbulo ezingathandeki zizogwema, futhi izikhathi ezinzima zizokwehliswa ngangokunokwenzeka.
Ngakho-ke, ukulungiswa kwengqondo kwabesifazane abakhulelwe ekubelethweni kufanele kuqale ngokuqoqwa kwezikhwama. Kubonakala sengathi lapho kukhona khona ukucwaninga kwengqondo, kodwa uhlelo oluhlelwe kahle lokuziphatha kwakho konke ukuhlangana kwezinto kuzothinta impilo yakho, njengoba uzokwazi ukuthi konke ukulungele ukubeletha. Qala ukuqoqa isikhwama kufanele kube cishe inyanga ngaphambi kosuku lokulethwa, okuyinto efunwa odokotela. Akekho ongakwazi ukubikezela ngokunembile usuku lokuzalwa, kuphela ingane yakho enquma ukuthi uzofika nini emhlabeni.
Kubalulekile ukwenza uhlu lwezinto ezidingekayo esibhedlela. Ungakhohlwa ukuthatha kanye: isikhwama sokuzithokozisa nesibuko, izingubo zangaphansi ezishintshayo, izigqoko ezimbili zobusuku nezintathu kanye ne-bathrobe, i-pair of twels, i-hairbrush, iphepha lezindlu zangasese, izingubo oyozigqoka uma uya ekhaya nomntanakho.
Kusengaphambili kudingekile ukwenza uhlu lwamakheli nezinamba zocingo zabantu ozokwazi ukucela usizo nganoma isiphi isikhathi sosuku.
Izimpawu ezisemqoka zendlela yokusebenza kubo bonke ziyaziwa, nakuba ziboniswa ngabanye kuwesifazane ngamunye. Abanye besifazane bangakwazi ukuthola ukuqala komsebenzi, futhi abanye bakhumbule amahora ambalwa kamuva, uma sekuphuthumayo ukuya esibhedlela. Ezimweni eziningi, izimpawu zokubeletha zingathathwa ngokusebenzisa impilo nemvelo kamama. Ubuhlungu obubuhlungu kanye nobuhlungu besikhathi esiswini esiswini esingaphansi, umuzwa wokungahambi kahle - zonke lezi zimpawu zingakhuluma ngendlela yokusebenza, kungase kube ukuhoxiswa ngokuzumayo kwamanzi.
Uma ungajwayele noma uzizwa ungahambi kahle, kodwa awukwazi ukukhononda ngokuqondile nganoma yini (isibonelo, ubuhlungu), usathatha ucingo bese ushayele udokotela wakho. Uma kungazelelwe uthola ukuphefumula kwakho, isizungu nobuthakathaka buvele, uma kunzima ukuthi ume ngezinyawo zakho noma ngokuvuka kungazelelwe ebusuku, ukhohlwa ngodokotela, bese ubiza abamakhelwane, abangane, ngezwi, ongasondela ngokushesha futhi akusekele ngalesi sikhathi. Ungethuki lapho amanzi esekho. Kubalulekile ukuzama ukugcina ukuzithiba isikhathi eside ngangokunokwenzeka.
Sebenzisa ithawula ukuze uthole izinyawo zakho zimanzi, futhi uzilungiselele ukuthi ama-panties akho namabhulukwe akho kufanele athole amanzi. Ungazicabangi ukuthi yini abanye abantu abazokucabanga ngawe lapho uhamba esibhedlela sokubeletha, futhi ngemuva kwakho kukhona umzila wamanzi. Ukulindele ukuzalwa kwengane yakho - akekho ocabanga ukukubona uzolile, uqiniseka, unomusa futhi ugqoke kahle!
Amathiphu ambalwa okulungiselelwa kwengqondo yokubeletha:
- ungapheli ukuxhumana neqiniso;
- ungachithi amandla, zama ukusabalalisa amandla akho, ukuze ukwazi ukufinyelela ekupheleni kokuzalwa;
- tshela umbelethisi noma udokotela ngokukhululekile ukuthi kwenzekani ngempela kuwe;
- buza yonke imibuzo eyokuthandayo;
- Zama ukwenza ngokubambisana, konke okushiwo udokotela noma umbelethisi;
- Lalela inhliziyo yakho nomzimba wakho;
- ungakhohlwa okwesibili ukuthi ufuna umntwana wakho azalwe enempilo kangakanani, nokuthi uzokujabulisa kanjani esikhathini esizayo!
Inhlanhla! Ungowesifazane oqinile futhi uzophumelela!