Ukhokhwa kumfashini?
Ukuziqeda kuye kwenziwa kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo. Ekuqaleni kwakuyizinkolelo ezinhlobonhlobo zenkolo noma ukuhluleka komuntu ukuba nokuphila okugcwele ngokocansi ngezizathu ezihlukahlukene zomzimba. Ukuzigwema ngokuzithandela ngokuya ocansini kuye kwaba umkhuba wemfashini.
Emazweni aseNtshonalanga, izazi zezenhlalo ziqhuba izifundo eziningi ezihlose ukutadisha ukuthi izinto zangempela zobulili nezakhamuzi zakithi ziyizo ngempela. Ucwaningo olunjalo lubonisa ukuthi, ngokwesibonelo, e-United States, ngokwezilinganiso ezihlukene, imibhangqwana engaba ngu-5% ingenazo zocansi. Futhi akubona bonke abaye bawela emgodini weminyaka yobudala bomhlalaphansi, ngokuvamile bebancane kakhulu futhi banempilo abantu abavele bawela ubulili empilweni yabo.
Lo mbono nawo waphefumulelwa ezinye zezinkanyezi. Ngokwesibonelo, ngokwamanye amahemuhemu, uMariah Carey , wenqabe ubulili ukuze azuze ngokomoya. Lokhu kwaholela ekunyuseni kwenani labantu abazenza ukuyeka ukuzicansi. Kuhle noma kubi, ukuthi kuholela kuphi nokuthi kungani kuyadingeka, akulula ukuyiqonda.
Izizathu zokuzilahla ocansini.
Isizathu esivamile kakhulu futhi esivamile sokungahlanganyeli ocansini kumbhangqwana ukuhlukaniswa isikhathi eside. Ukuthandana bomshado bomshado kungase kutholakale esimweni lapho behlukaniswe khona ibanga elikhulu, ongakwazi ukunqoba ngaso sonke isikhathi ngendlela ongathanda ngayo, futhi ukuhlubuka ngezizathu eziningi kungase kungamukeleki. Kulesi simo, ukuyeka ukulala ocansini ngokugcwele kulungele uqobo.
Ngezinye izikhathi ukuyeka ukulala ocansini kwenziwa ukuze ukhulelwe ingane. Kunombono wokuthi imibhangqwana enenkinga yokukhulelwa ingase ikwazi ukufezekisa ukukhulelwa okufisayo uma ingayeki ocansini isikhathi esithile. Kodwa-ke, odokotela bakholelwa ukuthi indlela enjalo yokufaka umthelela ekukhulelweni yenziwa ngaphezulu, ngoba ukuyeka ukuzidlala akuthinti inqubo yokukhulelwa.
Embhangqwaneni lapho omunye wabalingani abambe iqhaza kakhulu emidlalweni, ukungazicabangi ngokuya ocansini kungase kube yimfuneko edingekayo yemincintiswano ebalulekile. Kubalulekile ukuthi abagijimi bavikele futhi basebenzise amandla ngendlela efanele, ngakho-ke ukulahlwa ngokocansi okwesikhashana kungenzeka.
Imibhangqwana eminingi enkolo yenza ukuzithiba ekuziphatheni kobulili, ukuzama ukuphelela komphefumulo, hhayi ukujabulisa imizimba. Kubantu abanokholo ngokujulile, le ndlela yokuphila ingamukeleka, kodwa kufanelekile ukwazi ukuthi inkolo ayikhuthazi abantu ukuba balale ucansi, ikakhulukazi uma abantu bashadile. Esikhundleni salokho, ngokuphambene nalokho, cishe zonke izinkolo zivikela ilungelo labashade ekuphileni okufisayo, njengoba ukuzala kubaluleke kakhulu.
Imiphumela yokuziyeka ekucansini.
Odokotela abaningi kanye nabahlengikazi bezengqondo bathi ngokuzithiba ukuyeka ukuzilimaza kuyingozi kakhulu, ikakhulukazi kubantu abasemqoka ekuphileni kwabo. Ukuziqeda isikhathi eside kungabangela izinkinga eziningi ezingqondweni nangokomzimba.
Okokuqala, kunengozi enkulu yokucindezeleka. Ubulili bunendawo yokulwa nokucindezeleka, ngesikhathi i-endorphins ikhiqizwa - amahomoni enjabulo esiyidingayo ngenhliziyo enhle. Shintsha ubulili nge-chocolate, ezemidlalo - futhi kunomthelela ekwakhiweni kwe-endorphins, kodwa ingabe lezi zinguquko zokufakelwa zingabonisa ukuthi ziyindlela efanelekile yokuya ocansini?
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kwaziwa ukuthi uma ubulili bungashiywa, khona-ke imizwelo inzima kakhulu ukuyilawula. Ukuzijabulisa kwenza igazi ligijimele ezingxenyeni ze-pelvis encane, uma i-orgasm ingenakwenzeka, i-blood stagnates. Ngakho-ke, izifo eziningi zabesifazane. Ngezinye izikhathi ukuyeka ukulala ocansini kubangela ukungalungi emisebenzini yezinhlayiya ze-mammary, okuholela emathunjini ahlukahlukene. Ukuziqeda isikhathi eside kubonakala ngomzimba, njengesignali ukuthi lo msebenzi awudingi. Ngakho-ke, amadoda angaphinde alahlekelwe amandla ngokuphelele, futhi abesifazane bayeke ukubhekana nama-orgasms, njengoba umzimba wabo uzokhohlwa ukuthi wenziwe kanjani. Ngezinye izikhathi, kodwa ukungenelela odokotela kuyasiza, kodwa hhayi njalo.
Uma ucabanga ngokuziqeda ubulili, kufanelekile ukulinganisa amathuba akho kanye nezizathu ezithinta lesi senzo. Ingabe kufanelekile ukudela impilo yomuntu, ithuba lokuzijabulisa ngenxa yemigomo engabaza? Ukuziqeda isikhathi esingaphezu konyaka kungukucindezeleka okukhulu nokucindezeleka komzimba, emva kwalokho ngeke usakwazi ukululama. Ubulili yisidingo esingokwemvelo somzimba, esinakho konke okudingekayo ukuze ukwanelise. Ngakho-ke, akufanelekile ukuphika lokho okushiwo kithi ngokwemvelo.