Abesifazane bachitha isikhathi esiningi ngobuhle babo nokuthi yini abangazange bayenze ngenxa yokuthi lowo wesifazane uba mnandi kakhulu - ubuhle be-salon, i-SPA, ama-gyms. Kodwa ngokuvamile abesifazane bayakhohlwa, kanti abanye abasoli ukuthi kunezinsizwa zangaphakathi. Omunye wemisipha yangaphakathi ofuna ukuyiqeqesha isiswini. Ukuze uqeqeshwe, kune-simulator ekhethekile, ibizwa ngokuthi ama-vaginal balls.
Indlela yokukhetha i-ball yangasese?
Lezi zibhola ezimbili noma ezintathu, ezixhunywe ngentambo, ububanzi bayo kufanele bube ngu-2 cm. Njengoba ubhekene namasendlini, amabhola avuselela imisipha, akhulise ukugeleza kwegazi, ngaleyo ndlela aqeqeshe imisipha esondelene futhi enze ubulili bube mncane. Uma ukuqeqesha okunjalo kuqhutshwa njalo, lo wesifazane uzothuthukisa imizwa yakhe yocansi phakathi kobudlelwane obuseduze futhi amangaze umlingani namakhono akhe amasha.
Amabhola omgogodla ahlukene ngobukhulu nokuma (asterisks, izinhliziyo, oval, nxazonke nokunye). Izindwangu ezahlukene (izibambo, izibambo, ezibushelelezi), zingenziwa ngezinto ezahlukene (i-latex, ipulasitiki, isikhumba se-cyber kanye nabanye). Kwabaqalayo, amabhola awahlezi futhi abe mkhulu. Lezi zimboni zizoba lula ukulala emzimbeni. Futhi, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ungaya ezinqabeni ezinzima, ezibushelelezi, ezincane, okuzoba nzima ukugcina izicubu zesisu.
Ungayisebenzisa kanjani kahle?
- Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi kunezimiso zokuhlanzeka futhi ungasebenzisi amabhola afanayo nentombi. Ngaphambi kokusetshenziswa, kufanele bahlanzwe kahle noma bafakwe ijelisi le-antiseptic. Bese ugcoba ama-vaginal balls nge-lubricant ukuze ngesikhathi sokuzivocavoca awubangeli izinzwa ezingakhululekile. Khona-ke, endaweni elele noma elele, faka amabhola emkhathini. Ukunciphisa okuncane okusondelene kusetshenziselwa i-clitoris, i-labia.
- Yethula ngokucophelela amabhola kanye nenye, intambo, yokwelula amabhola asele ngaphandle. Uma uthola umuzwa wokuhlukumeza nobuhlungu uma ufaka amabhola, udinga ukumisa ukujoqa amabhola, mhlawumbe uthatha usayizi ongalungile, udinga ukuqala amancane.
- Lapho amabhola ethulwa, thatha ukuphefumula okuncane futhi uphefumule, zama ukuvimbela ukuphefumula, ume bese uphoqa imisipha ukugcina amabhola ngaphakathi.
- Hamba endaweni eqondile bese uqala ukuqeqeshwa. Ukuzivocavoca kufanele kwenziwe njalo, ngaphandle kwezinsuku lapho kufika esikhathini sokuya esikhathini, kancane kancane ukwandise isikhathi kumaminithi angu-15. Esikhathini esizayo, indima eyinhloko izodlala hhayi ubude besikhathi, kodwa kanye nesifiso sabesifazane.
Okokuqala udinga ukufunda ukuthi ungagcina kanjani amabhola ngaphakathi. Ukuze wenze lokhu, "vala" amabhola okuphuma, umsizi, ongayeka ukuchama. Lokhu kuyokwanela okokuqala. Isigaba esilandelayo sokuqeqeshwa - ngokuzenzekelayo siphumule futhi sisindise imisipha. Sibuye siphinde, siphinde sibuyele ukuthi amabhola ahlelwe ngenkathi umzimba uyenziwa ukuma. Kunzima ukuzivocavoca uma udinga ukuhamba ngebhola ngaphakathi. Kumele uqale ukuhamba ujikeleze indlu, bese uphuma nabo emgwaqweni.
Ukusetshenziswa kwebhola lesiswini ngenjongo yokuqeqesha kudinga njalo. Lezi zivivinyo kufanele zenziwe imizuzu eyishumi, kodwa nsuku zonke, kunokuba kwenziwe ngehora, kodwa kanye ngesonto. Into eyinhloko akuyona ukuyiqeda, konke kunesikhathi sayo.
Uma ubamba amabhola angeke kube nzima, udinga ukuhamba nabo, lungisa kabusha imilenze yakho, njengoba amamodeli aphezulu ahamba ngomugqa owodwa.
Ungenza ukuzivocavoca nokuhlala uphenduke imilenze yakho ndawonye. Amabhola phakathi nalezi zivivinyo aphezu futhi ahlinzeke ukuqeqeshwa.
Amabhola omgogodla wokuzivocavoca
Akukho okuyinkimbinkimbi, kuxhomeke ezifisweni zakho.
Ukubamba amabhola
- Gcina amabhola ngaphakathi kwakho, qala kangcono ngeminithi elingu-1, kodwa ubuningi abukhawulelwe. Uma kubonakala kuwe ukuthi lokhu akwanele, buyisele esikhundleni sezinkizi eziyinkimbinkimbi noma ubeke isisindo kwichungechunge.
- Hambisa amabhola phezulu nangaphansi kwesifazane. Ngeke uphumelele ngokushesha, kodwa ekugcineni uzofunda lo msebenzi.
- Zama ukukhulula amabhola kwesinye seziswini, baxoshe.
- Donsela izintambo, uzama ukuthola amabhola ngaphandle kwesisu, futhi imisipha izama ukumelana futhi ungawavumeli.