1. Ucabanga ukuthi uphelele
Okumangalisa ukuthi lokhu kwesaba kuwukuqala phakathi kwezizathu zokwenqatshwa ngokobulili kwabesifazane. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ngisho nomqondo oseduze wokuphelela ngemuva kokudla kungakwanela ukuphika umlingani endaweni. Okubi nakakhulu yilokho, uma ukungahambi kahle embonweni wesimo sakhe, lona wesifazane uhlangabezana naye njalo.
Le nhlekelele iwukuthi lapho kwenzeka khona ukulahlekelwa kwesimo somzimba (isibonelo, emva kokubeletha) ukuthi owesifazane udinga kakhulu ukuphila komzimba osebenzayo. Lapha kuningi kuxhomeke kubaba womlingani ozocansi ozofanele akhombise othandekayo ukuthi usabangela isifiso sakhe socansi.
2. Ungenayo inkinga ngesisu
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, lo wesifazane ubhekene nesimo lapho ehlushwa yizigesi. Lapha, amahloni avamile kakhulu enza umlingani wenqabe ubulili. Owesifazane uvele esaba ukuthi akakwazi ukulawula umzimba wakhe ngesikhathi socansi. Lokhu kwenzeka ngokuvamile phakathi kwabalingani abaqala ubuhlobo babo esikhathini esidlule. Abashadile bazokwenza izinto ezincane ezinjalo futhi zingesabi.
3. Nge-neyachalis njalo ngenyanga
Abanye abalingani bethula ngokulala, ngisho nasesikhathini esingathandekayo kowesifazane. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kwabesifazane ngokwabo, cishe njalo benza lokhu ukuze bajabulise umlingani wabo, ukuze bangacasuli, bangabi nhlobo ukusondelana. Le ndoda, okuboniswayo, ibhekene nokushayela okukhulu kakhulu kwabesifazane kulezi zinsuku. Lokhu kuyisenzo semvelo kumahomoni akhiqizwa owesifazane ngesikhathi sokuya esikhathini. Uqala ukukhangisa nokuthandeka, nakuba yena engenazo zobulili ngalesi sikhathi.
Uzenza sengathi uzolimala kakhulu, futhi umcabango wokungena kwakhe, njengelonda elivinjiwe, udikibala isifiso sobulili ngokuphelele. Yiqiniso, odokotela baqinisekisa ukuthi (ngemithetho yonke yokuhlanzeka), ubulili phakathi nenyanga kubalulekile nakowesifazane. Imisipha yesibeletho iyancipha ngokushesha, ijubane nokugeleza kokuqukethwe. Iyadlula njalo ngenyanga futhi ingenabuhlungu.
4. Ugqoke ama-panties angenakuhleleka
Akuwona wonke umuntu-abesifazane bayagqoka nsuku zonke. Lokhu kuyinto engathandeki ngisho nokuphikisana. Uma owesifazane elungiselela ukubona ngaphambi kwesikhathi, yena, eqinisweni, uzogqoka izingubo zangaphansi ezingaphansi kwezingubo ezibucayi. Kodwa uma u-zhelanieksa engathola ozakwethu engaziwa, ama-panties ajwayelekile angabonakali angabangela ukwesaba owesifazane: "Kodwa ngokuzumayo uzobona ukuthi ngihamba kanjani, futhi ngeke afune noma ayeke ukungithanda."
Eqinisweni, ososayensi abakafiki imibono efanayo mayelana nomthelela wezintambo ekusakazeni kwezifo zangasese. Kodwa-ke, odokotela abaningi emhlabeni wonke bahlabelela i-alamu ngenxa yezifo ezikhuphuka zalezi zifo phakathi kwabesifazane abavame ukugqoka ama-thongs. Kwamanye amazwe, ngisho nokuya ekuvimbeleni ukudayiswa kwabo.
5. Une-crucifix yesisu
Kulokhu, ngokuyisisekelo, akukho lutho olwesabekayo. Izigidi zefungi zihlale zihlala emzimbeni wethu, kodwa ukutheleleka kuqala ukukhula kuphela uma ibhalansi ethile yefungal iphulwa. Uma owesifazane enesifo, udinga ukuphathwa kuphela. Ngokuvamile, kwanele ukuphuza iphilisi nje kwezinsuku ezimbalwa. Okuwukuphela kokuphazamiseka ukuthi ukwelashwa kuyadingeka ukuba uhambe futhi njalo njalo nomlingani wesifazane ocansini. Yilokho okwesabayo, ukuphoqelela umphathisi wezinambuzane ukushiya ucansi ngokuphelele. Lokhu akukhona nje okungenasici, kepha futhi kungalungile kumlingani. Kumele avume ukuthi angaphinde afundele ukwelashwa futhi akhiphe zonke izingozi ezingenzeka.
6. Uyazikhukhumeza futhi uzizwa engcolile
Ngezinye izikhathi owesifazane akakwazi ukuqeda umcabango wokuthi uyamunuka, isikhumba sakhe sinamathele futhi asijabulisi ukuthinta. Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwesaba okunjalo - ukwamukelwa okuhlangene komphefumulo, kuhlanganise zonke izinhlobo ze-caresses nemidlalo yocansi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abanye besifazane kuphela ngaphansi kweshazi bangenza umuntu aqhubeke, ngaphandle kokuzizwa ehlazekile.
7. Umlingani womkhondomu unekhondomu
Lokhu kunamandla kakhulu futhi kulungile kakhulu ukwesaba abesifazane abaningi kangaka. Ekugcineni, ku-jaypot ukhokhela ukukhulelwa okungahleliwe nempilo yakho. Ngakho-ke, indlela kuphela yokuphuma ukuma isikhashana bese uya khona ikhondomu. Noma ubuyekeze isikhathi esizayo.
8. Ngaphandle kwesinye
Ubukhona bezihlobo eziseduzane bungadala owesifazane (kanye namadoda) ukuba abe nobulili. Ngisho owesifazane omdala uba ngumfana wangaphakathi lapho ecabanga ukuthi abazali bakhe bazothola ukuthi ulale ucansi nendoda. Cishe ngendlela efanayo, isifiso sobulili sesifazane sithinteka nokuba khona kwezingane ekamelweni elilandelayo.
9. Akanayo i-lubricant
Ukungabi nalutho kwe-lubricant ku-perineum kuvamise ukuba owesifazane enqabe ubulili. Kuphazamisa ngisho noma kukhona ukuthambekela kocansi. Ngenhlanhla, inkinga yedolobha elinjalo isuswa kalula. Namuhla ekhemisi ejwayelekile ungathenga izingubo ezihlukahlukene ezithandanayo nganoma yisiphi ukunambitheka, iphunga noma ngisho ngaphandle kwazo.
10 Uvele ekhathele
Owesifazane wayebonakala edinwe kangangokuthi wayengenasithakazelo kunoma yini enye. Eqinisweni, ubulili kuyindlela engcono yokulwa nokukhathala. Abesifazane abaningi bathola ukwaneliseka ngokocansi ngokweqile ngokukhathala. Ukuphumula okuvamile kwezinto eziphilayo kuyandisa nje ukuziphatha. Ngakho, okungenani, tshela ochwepheshe.
11. Wayekodwa kuphela
Lapho efika e-orgasm, owesifazane ngezinye izikhathi akafuni ukuqhubeka. Umlingani angenza ngokusemandleni ukuthi amvuse, ukuthi lokhu akuyona umkhawulo. Ama-sexologists athi umzimba wesifazane ungaphila eziningana ze-orgasms ngokulandelana.
12. Akafuni ukugijima
Abesifazane ngokuvamile abafuni ukuhamba ngokushesha ukuya ocansini. Badinga ngaphambili, besaba ukuqala ukukopisha ngokushesha. Owesifazane kudingeka ahlanganyele ocansini, alahle zonke izinkimbinkimbi zokuvimbela. Induduzo yendoda ingaba kuphela ukuthi ucansi olulandelayo luzoba mnandi kakhulu.
13. Angithandi iphunga lomlingani
Ukwesaba ukuzwa iphunga lemvelo lomzimba wesilisa ngesikhathi sokuthandana ngothando kuthatha isikhathi esishaza abesifazane besifazane. Kuthatha ishawa ngaphambi kocansi. Yiqiniso, udinga ukucabangela ukuthi lokhu kungenzeka ngeke kube njalo.
Uyesaba ubulili ngaphambi komshado.
Ngokuvamile ama-Virgil ayeka ukulala, aphoqe umlingani wabo ukuba ashade nabo. Kukhona isiko emndenini nokukhuliswa owesifazane. Ingabe kufanelekile ukudlala ikhandlela?
Uthi uyavuma ukukhulelwa kwakhe
Ngokuvamile owesifazane akafuni ukulala naye, ngoba wakhulelwa. Uyesaba ukusabela komlingani wakhe, wesaba ukuzilimaza yena kanye nengane ngesikhathi se-coitus, wesaba ukuthi le ndoda izoyishiya lapho ezwa ngokukhulelwa. Ngokushesha, isimo sixazululwe ngandlela-thile, futhi kuncike kakhulu kumuntu.