Kule minyaka yobudala, inqubo yokuzijabulisa komphakathi iyaqhubeka, ingane iyazijwayeza imithetho yokuziphatha emphakathini wesintu, "iyazama" kubo. Futhi indlela engokwemvelo yengane encane yokufunda izindima ezihlukene zomphakathi idlala. I-toy puppy, indodakazi yenkosi noma i-superhero yizinhlamvu ezinezici zobuntu bazo, ezikhuthaza ingane ukuba zibonane nazo futhi zibandakanyeke ngokomzwelo kulo mdlalo. Ingane ithola ulimi oluvamile nezinye izingane ngokusebenzisa umdlalo, futhi amasosha noma amadonsa abe yiziqondiso emgwaqweni wokuqonda. Futhi uma izingane zingenalo ulwazi olwanele lokukhulumisana, lokhu kuhlawulelwa ngokuphelele yizifiso zabo komunye nomunye kanye nesidingo sokuhlangana noontanga. Ngaphandle kokuphikisana namathoyizi, ingane yakho izokhipha ngokubili inzuzo kanye nenjabulo, kodwa ungasiza ukwenza le nqubo ibe nenenjongo futhi inentshisekelo.
Ukuthola ukuzimela
Izingane ziyakujabulela ukuvula umhlaba ozungezile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, le nkululeko ingasabisa. Ukuze uzizwe unengozini encane, ingane, ephuma kumama wayo, ithatha ithoyizi eliyintandokazi, eliba yinto efana nayo, umvikeli nomduduzi. Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi ithoyizi elikhethwe ngumntwana, lapho yena, njengombuso, engahlukanisi, lifanekisela ukuxhumana kwakhe nonina futhi kusiza ukubhekana nokukhathazeka okuhambisana nokuhlukana naye. Khuthaza ukudlala okuzimele kwengane yakho, mshiye wedwa, ukuqala imizuzu engu-15 kanye noma kabili ngosuku. Uma ingane idlala, ungaphazamisi ngokungadingekile, ubuke kusukela kude. Amathoyizi azosiza futhi ekuthuthukiseni amakhono okuzenzela. Ukuze uqinise ulwazi lomntwana, angakwazi "ukuqeqesha" kumathoyizi akhethandayo. "Idoli ayikwazi ukuhlanza amazinyo. Mfundise, sicela! "
Ukuphatha imizwelo
Izingane ezineminyaka engu-2-3 ziningi kakhulu futhi zithinta umzwelo, kodwa zingakakwazi ukubona imizwelo yabanye futhi ziveza indlela yazo eyamukelekayo emphakathini. Kodwa bangafunda ukuhlukanisa imizwelo nokuyilawula ngokusebenzisa izimo zegeyimu, ukulingisa ukusabela kwalabo abalingiswa abathintekayo kubo. Ukuze usize ingane ukuthi ibhekane nemizwelo emibi, umuntu angadlala izimo lapho eyoba khona oduduzayo, othuthumayo noma obonisa ukukhwabanisa. Ungadlala idokodo elizobe lingenangqondo, lingenalutho, lilwa futhi ngaleyo ndlela linike ingane ithuba lokuphendula ngokulingisa umuntu omdala. Lokhu kuyasiza kumntwana futhi akufundise, ungabona, kufaka phakathi ukuphendula kwakho ekuchazeni ingane. Lo mbono ovela ngaphandle uzokusiza ukuthi uqonde kangcono impilo yomzwelo yengane yakho, mhlawumbe, ulungise umthelela wakho wezemfundo.
Ukufunda ukukhuluma
Lapho uneminyaka engama-2-3 ubudala, izingane "ziyizinguquko zolimi". Ingane ifunda ngokushesha amagama amasha, ngezinye izikhathi ezingaphezu kweshumi ngosuku! Lalela lokho ingane ekushoyo ngesikhathi semdlalo. Ngokuqinisekile wenza amaphutha, unake, kodwa ungalungisi ngenkathi edlala. Thatha isikhathi sokudlala ndawonye, ukhulume ngezinhlamvu ezahlukene - lokhu kuzokukhuthaza ingane ukuba iveze imicabango yakhe ngokucacile nangokucacile.
Ukufunda ukuxhumana
Ingane isanda kuqala ukufunda indlela yokuxhumana nokwenza abangane. AmaDolls nama-comrade ahlambazayo azokusiza ukuba usebenzise ukuxhumana. Bazo "tshela" (ngosizo lwakho) ukuthi kubaluleke kanjani ukukwazi ukuxoxisana, ukwabelana, ukuzwelana, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ukuzivikela. Lapho ingane ikumema ukuba udlale nayo, unethuba elihle lokufundisa iziqu ezinkingeni engxoxweni ngesibonelo samathoyizi. Qoqa abangani-amadonki wetiye bese uthi ukuthi nhlobo, ngeshwa, ikhekhe elilodwa kuphela. "Inkosikazi idinga isiqephu, ibhere le-teddy futhi. Ake sihlukanise ukuze wonke umuntu abe neyanele! "Nika ingane ithuba lokubhekana nesimo ngokwawo, ngoba ukungena ebuhlotsheni nezinye izingane kuye, hhayi wena.
Thola ukuzethemba
Ngomntwana omncane, izwe likhulu kakhulu, futhi ngezinye izikhathi lidideka. Kubalulekile ukuba ingane izwe ukuthi ingxenye ethile yokuphila ingaphansi kokulawula kwayo. Ngakho-ke ungabamba amathoyizi akho "wokubeletha" omzimba. Esikhathini esiningi ingane ilalela imithetho yomzali, ngokusebenzisa umdlalo uthola ithuba lokuba yilowo olawulayo futhi owenzayo. Uma ngesikhathi somdlalo ohlangene nengane uzwa ukuthi udinga ukugqugquzela nokumvuselela, mnike ithuba lokukhetha indima. Masiqondise zonke izenzo nokuziphatha kwamadonki, ungagxeki noma uhlaziye. Umdlalo onjalo uzomjabulisa futhi unike umqondo wokuzethemba nenkululeko. Manje siyazi ukuthi yini okufanele sithenge ithoyizi yengane ngonyaka ongu-1.