Ngalesi sikhathi ingane isivele iyakwazi ukwenza izinto eziningi ngokuzimela: ukugqoka, ukubopha izintambo, usizo kulo lonke indlu. Esimweni. Kodwa ingabe uyayifuna? Hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi. Futhi akukhona ngamathalenta angenasisekelo. Ukuzikhandla ezinganeni kungakwazi futhi kukhuliswe cishe kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Kakade eminyakeni engu-3, izingane zinesifiso sokusiza abazali bazo. Iqala ngokulingisa, futhi ejwayele abaningi "nginike yona ngokwami." Kodwa ngokuvamile abantu abadala basindisa isikhathi noma ukwesaba ukuthi ingane ingenza okuthile okungalungile, susa amathoyizi wengane, ungabaniki ukugeza noma ugeze imbali eyedwa ... Ungamangali emva kweminyaka emihlanu, lapho ingane yakho isabela izicelo zokusizwa ukwenqaba. Ukufundisa uthando lomntanakho ngomsebenzi kungenzeka kuphela ngokubekezela kanye nesibonelo somuntu siqu. Kusukela ekuzalweni, izinsana zibona abantu abadala futhi zizama ukuzilingisa kukho konke. Futhi ekugcineni bazama ukuphinda izenzo zabo. Kodwa ukubonwa okunye nokulingisa akukwanele. Kusukela esemncane, kubalulekile ukubandakanya izingane emisebenzini ehlanganyelwe bese ubekezela ngesineke ukuthi yini nokuthi ungayenza kanjani. Kuphela lapho izinyane lizofunda ukuqonda ukubaluleka kwazo zonke izinyathelo ezenziwe. Futhi uzothola injabulo yokwenza imisebenzi elula nsuku zonke. Ngakho-ke, lapho ingane yakho oneminyaka engu-3 ithi: "Mama, nginike mina! "- Mnike ithuba lokukusiza. Futhi ngemuva kokuthi "usizo" lwakhe kufanele uchithe isikhathi esiningi isikhathi esengeziwe sokuhlanza / ukugeza / njll - ukukhuliswa ngothando lomsebenzi wengane kuwufanele. Ngemuva kweminyaka embalwa iyokhokha ngokuphindwe kabili: indodana ekhuthele yona iyogeza izingubo, igqoke izingubo zayo emashalofini, ingakhulumi ngamathoyizi akhe, ihlanza izicathulo zakhe, isule uthuli futhi ngaphandle kwezikhumbuzo yenza umbhede - ngokujwayelekile uyoba ngumsizi wakho ongenakulinganiswa ezindabeni eziningi. Izindaba zasekhaya zengane ziyoba yingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila kwansuku zonke, futhi ngeke zibangele izinhlangano ezimbi.
Kodwa uma ingane yakho ineminyaka engu-5-6 ubudala, ungaphelelwa ithemba. Ukubekezela okuncane, isifiso, uthando nomcabango - futhi ingane yakho encane iyoba ngumsizi wakho omkhulu. Kuyinto enhle kakhulu, lapho ingane yakho ithi: "Awu, yinto encane, futhi yeka ukusebenza kanzima kangakanani! ". Kule ndaba ebalulekile njengokukhulishulwa kokuzikhandla, umuntu akufanele athembele ekufundeni nasekuseni. Kubalulekile ukufunda izincwadi ezifanele, uthintane nengqondo yengane bese ucabangela izici zezingane kanye nobuntu. Ingane eyodwa iqala umsebenzi ngokudabukisayo, ngaphandle kokushisekela, kodwa into, eyazimela ngokuzimela, imlethela ngenjabulo engenakuqhathaniswa. Kubalulekile ukuthi izingane ezinjalo zigxilise kulo mphumela, ukulindela injabulo evela emsebenzini ozimele, futhi uhlanganyele nale njabulo naye, hhayi ukugxeka kakhulu ngokushiyeka okuncane ekusebenzeni kwesabelo. Omunye umntwana, ngokuphambene nalokho, uthola ibhizinisi elisha ngokuzithandela, lithathwa kalula, futhi lilula nje kalula. Futhi abanye, ukuthi bangahambi emsebenzini, bazama ukuwuqeda - umuzwa webhizinisi elingagcwaliseki elilenga ngenkemba yeDamocles kunzima kakhulu kubo. Wonke umuntu udinga indlela ekhethekile. Eminyakeni engu-5-6 kubalulekile ukuvusa isithakazelo enkonzweni yomsebenzi noma ekuphumeleleni komphumela, noma ungafaka ingane emisebenzini ngosizo lomdlalo noma ukuncintisana. Vusa isithakazelo futhi ugcine kuyo yonke into - isigamu sempumelelo. Kodwa isigamu kuphela. Ingxenye yesibili ebalulekile yokufundisa ingane ukukhuthaza-kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane ukusiza ngokuhlelekile, hhayi ngezikhathi ezithile, kuyadingeka ukulawula ukusebenza komsebenzi futhi, nakanjani, ukudumisa nokugcizelela ukubaluleka kwalokho okwenziwa yilezi zinyane. Ukuntuleka komsebenzi ohleliwe enganeni kungenye yeziphambeko ezinkulu kakhulu emfundweni. Futhi hhayi kuphela emfundweni yothando lomsebenzi. Umsebenzi ohlelekile emithwalweni yomkhaya neyomntwana, yena ngokwakhe owenzayo, usiza ekufundiseni umuntu obalulekile njengekhwalithi ebalulekile njengomthwalo wemfanelo, futhi umsizi ozayo uzofunda ukusebenza ngokukholwa nangokuzithandela.
Awukwazi ukunciphisa indima yokusebenza kanye nomuntu omdala: kuye ingane ifunda ukwenza konke okudingekayo kuye, njengoba kungenzeka kakhulu. Kodwa ukuze okuthile kuphazamise ingane, kufanelekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthi usekwazi ukwenza lokhu, ukuhlola ngokucophelela umsebenzi owenziwe, futhi ngokuhlakanipha, kanye nengane, ukusebenza emaphutheni. Futhi njalo nsuku zonke, kuze kube yilapho ingane ifunda ukwenza imisebenzi yayo ngekhwalithi, futhi kuze kube yilapho lo msebenzi ungangeni kumkhuba wengane. Emva kwalokho, ungakwazi ukwengeza umthwalo omusha wengane.
Ungaqala ngezinto ezilula. Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukufundisa ingane ukuba ihlanze amathoyizi eyedwa, ukususa etafuleni. Beka izingubo ekamelweni eliphansi bese unakekela izicathulo zabo. Ungalokothi unqabe ingane uma efuna ukukusiza. Uma lokho umsizi wakho enqume ukukwenza akunakwenzeka ukukhokhisa ingane (ngokungazelelwe ingane ifuna ukulungisa isikhwama noma isikulufa ku-ampu), ungamvimbeli ukwenza lokhu, ukubekezela ngesineke ukuthi kungani lokhu kungenakwenziwa futhi kushintshe omunye umsebenzi . Njalo ukhuthaze isifiso somntwana sokudala. Mlethe ekulungiseleleni okuhlanganyelwe kokudla, makaze abonise amakhono akhe we-gastronomic, mhlawumbe esikhathini esizayo ingane yakho izokujabulisa ngokuthakazelisa ukwedlula isikhathi esisodwa, futhi uzojabula ngokukhumbula imizuzu lapho izandla ezincane zompheki omkhulu ziphazamisa umlenze wazo wokuqala ngaphansi kwesiqondiso sakho esibucayi. Fundisa ingane yakho ukuba ihlanze umbhede wayo futhi inakekele izitshalo zasendlini - le misebenzi ingashintshwa kalula ibe umdlalo othakazelisayo oyoletha izinkumbulo ezimnandi kumntanakho ngesikhathi sonke sempilo yabantu abadala. Umkhuba wokusebenza kanzima uwusizo kancanyana ngokushesha: isikole asikude, futhi ukutadisha okukhuthele kudinga uthando lomsebenzi, umthwalo wemfanelo kanye nomkhuba wokwenza imisebenzi yabo yansuku zonke kahle. Ukukhulisa emntwaneni uthando lomsebenzi, uyamsiza ekwakheni ikusasa eliphumelelayo esitini. Ukuzikhandla kusiza ingane ukuba ikhulise ukuzethemba, ingane iqiniseka ukuthi ingenza okuningi, futhi ingayenza kahle, futhi lokhu kuyothinta impilo yakhe endala.