Njalo ngekhulu leminyaka owesifazane unama-metamorphoses, uba umholi emsebenzini, empilweni futhi empeleni ebuhlotsheni. Amadoda aguqulwa ngokuphelele nakolunye uhlangothi. Manje, kancane kancane sizwa ama-serenades ngaphansi kwebhokisi, ukuvuma okuthandwayo futhi angaboni izenzo zobuqili. Kodwa yini esisele thina - abesifazane? Kufanele sithathe isinyathelo ngezandla zethu.
Ukuqaphela okuhle kakhulu ngothando lomuntu othandekayo kungalungiswa yedwa. Kunenqwaba yezindlela zokusho ngothando lwakho. Kuyaziwa ukuthi owesifazane uthanda izindlebe, kodwa amadoda alindele izenzo ezithile kubesifazane. Ngakho-ke, ukuvuma ngothando ngaphandle kokuqinisekiswa ezenzweni ngeke nje kumenze umuntu abe nemizwelo. Khumbula, indoda ithanda amehlo kuqala.
Uma unquma ukunqoba indoda yakho ethandekayo ngokuqashelwa ngothando, bese uqhubeka phambili. Kusihlwa. Amakhandlela. Ithebula elibekwe ngezingubo. Kodwa khumbula, udinga ukupheka lokho onakho. Uma ukhonza isitsha esiphunduwe, wonke umsebenzi wakho uzohamba "ngomsila" futhi isidlo sidle ngokunembile. Yebo, kungcono kakhulu, kodwa empeleni, ngaphandle kwamehlo, indoda isisu, futhi mhlawumbe ukhumbule isisho sesibili esithi "indlela eya enhliziyweni yomuntu ilele esiswini". Futhi lokhu empeleni kunjalo. Kodwa ungawudluli, kungenjalo ngemuva kokudla okunomsoco wena nomthandi wakho ngeke ube nenye into okufanele uyenze, njengokungena eceleni kombhede nokubuka i-TV, futhi uthola impendulo ehluke ngokuphelele.
Indoda ngokwemvelo inentshisekelo futhi ithanda ubuholi, akusona imfihlo. Zama ukwanelisa uthando lwakhe. Dlala naye emdlalweni wakhe oyintandokazi, isibonelo amabhilididi, noma ngabe ungumphikisi oqinile - ulahlekelwe kuye futhi umtshele ukuthi uyiphi umphikisi onamandla futhi ofanelekayo. Ukubetha okulula akuyona isici, kodwa kunalokho kuyindlela yokunqoba.
Indoda yakho ithanda ngokuqondile futhi ayithandi ukuhamba "eduze kwehlathi"? Khona-ke isimemezelo esihle kakhulu sothando somuntu othandekayo, yebo, futhi, mhlawumbe, okungcono kakhulu, siyomtshela kahle ebunzini ukuthi uyindoda ebaluleke kunazo zonke emhlabeni, ukuthi uthando lwakho ngaye aluyona nje into, futhi uthemba kuye imizwa efanayo.
Ngothando akukho mithetho edinga ukulandelwa, njengoba kungekho okuvunyelwe. Izimpawu ezinhle kakhulu zingahle zilula futhi zingaqondakali, kodwa lezo eziyokhunjulwa ngumthandi wakho ngokuphila, okuzoyikhumbula kuze kube yilapho esegugile. Futhi vumela la madoda anesimo esiqinile, eshaweni asengozini kakhulu, ngakho ukuvuma kwakho ngobuqotho kothando ngeke kushiye indoda yakho ethandekayo engenandaba. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukukhuluma iqiniso, ungagxili (futhi thina - abesifazane ngezinye izikhathi sithandwa kulokhu), yiba nguwe. Indoda yakho izokubonga kakhulu uma ungumuntu ovamile, ukwedlula ukuthi uzoyilungiselela ngokweqile nsuku zonke. Kwenzeke ukuthi indoda idinga ukuzinza nokuthula endlini. Futhi uMdali wokuthula nguwe.
Uma ungumpheki ochwepheshe, kungani ungavumeli indoda yakho ethandekayo ngendlela yekhekhe, ikhekhe noma ezinye "izinto ezikhona"? Amadoda, njengawo wonke umuntu, thanda amaswidi, amanye okunye, angaphansi. Kodwa, nginitshela ukuthi, ukudlula ngokulungiswa ngokukhethekile kumuntu oyedwa emhlabeni (okungukuthi, kuye, oyintandokazi), akekho owaziyo!
Ayikho ingqondo eyanele? Xhumana nenkampani ngenhlangano yamaholide. Kakade kukhona izisebenzi zezingcweti ezanele! Lapho futhi unganikezwa ama-balloons, ama-serenades, futhi uhamba kunoma yini, kuze kufike amabhaluni, kanye nokudla okuthandwayo nokuhamba ngezinyawo uzonikezwa okungenani ikhulu. Kodwa, kubonakala kimi ukuthi kuyoba mnandi kakhulu ukwenza konke engikuthandayo, bese-ke indoda izakwazisa izifiso zakho.
Ukuvuma ngothando - into ebaluleke kakhulu, hhayi ukubekezelela ukudideka nokugwema, futhi, noma kunjalo, izwi "phuthuma - abantu benza amahlaya" lapha lidlala indima ebalulekile. Noma yikuphi ukuqashelwa, noma yikuphi izenzo okufanele zibukeke ukuze umuntu akholelwe ukuthi akacabangi ukuthi konke lokhu "kuqhutshiwe" futhi kwenziwe "ngokusheshisa" ukuze uthole ngaye, isibonelo, imali yengubo entsha yobuningi! Ngakho ungasheshi izinqumo zakho. Khetha izindlela zokukhuluma noma ukuvuma ngokucophelela. Hlela konke kumininingwane yokugcina, ungafuni ukukhala izinyembezi ngenxa yosuku olusihlwa noma, ngokubi nakakhulu, ubuhlobo obususwe. Izimemezelo ezinhle kakhulu nezinhle kakhulu zothando zizozwakala kuwe uma ukholelwa ngobuqotho kulokho okushoyo. Futhi-ke ngisho nokulula "Ngiyakuthanda!", Kwashiwo kanye, kepha ngobuqotho - kuzoduma njenge-symphony yenjabulo. Ungakhohlwa ukuthi umuntu uthanda amehlo akhe nesisu, kodwa lokho akusho ukuthi uyisithulu. Uzozizwa amanga ngenhliziyo yakhe futhi ngeke akholwe. Kulula ukungenzi amaphutha kunokuzilungisa.
Noma yisiphi isipho, i-valentine, i-postcard, incwadi, nanoma yisiphi isipho esincane sizoba kubi kakhulu futhi sihle kakhulu kunokuthandwa kwakho nokudla. Isimo esingavamile uma umuntu ethanda ukuthi umemezelwa ezweni lonke ngothando lwakhe. Ngokuvame kakhulu ukuthi bayabhala. Futhi okungenani, ubungozi obungabonakali futhi hhayi nje kuphela ukungamukeli kahle, ngakho-ke ngeke kube mnandi ingxenye yesizwe ukuhleka emizamweni yakho. Futhi abantu bethu banonya kakhulu. Ngakho kufanelekile ukwenza lokho ongakwenza ngaphandle? Angisho ukuthi uma indoda yakho ithanda lolu hlobo lokunaka - ungenzi! Ngikhuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi uma ungaqiniseki ngalesi sinyathelo, kungcono ukuthi uyinqabe. Singabantu besifazane, sithanda izenzo ezithakazelisayo nezokuziphendulela. Amadoda kule ndaba azinzile futhi, kumelwe ngivume, okwanele.
Uma umuntu wakho ethanda imvelo, ehamba epaki, emibuthanweni emlilweni noma emfuleni, simemele ngesibindi epikinikini. Kodwa-ke i-picnic kufanele ibe yinto yangempela, ne-shish kebabs, nebhiya, ngezimanga. Ungathola, isibonelo, ufunde izingoma ezimbalwa zegitala, uma kunjalo, okungenani unomqondo omncane ngaleli thuluzi. Uma ebuntwaneni ezindlebeni uthabatha ibhere, akudingekile ukuqala ukucula. Lokhu uzomethusa nje umuntu. Indoda isidalwa esesabekayo kule ndaba. Ngakho-ke, uma uzimisele ukuwunikezela imizwa yakho, cabanga ukuthi uwufanele yini futhi? Futhi ngokuzumayo, akaqondi lokhu futhi ngeke asithathe? Khona-ke uzohlala uwedwa nemizwa yakho ephukile nokucasuka okukhulu, kokubili kuye nakuwe. Futhi khumbula, izimemezelo ezinhle kakhulu zothando yizo ezikhulunywa ngesikhathi futhi ngobuqotho! Uyakuthanda futhi ujabule!