Inkolelo yenombolo 1: ngokungabikho kwezinzwa ze-seneschalates zobulili
Abaningi besifazane okungenani kanye empilweni yabo bezwa ikheli labo amazwi athi "uhlobo oluthile lwenu olusabekile futhi oluthukuthele maduzane, mhlawumbe okwesikhashana bekungekho ucansi." Impilo engalungile, isimo sengqondo esibi, izinkinga nezinkinga - konke lokhu kubhekene neqiniso lokuthi akekho umuntu.
Eqinisweni, umphumela wesimo esicindezelayo kungaba yinto: ukungasebenzi kahle emsebenzini, ukunganaki ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, i-PMS, izinkinga zempilo, njll. Ubuhlobo bobulili abukwenzi lutho ngalokhu. Ngokuvamile, kunezibonelo lapho owesifazane engaphandle kwakhe emva kokuphuka ebuhlotsheni, kodwa akuyona indaba yazo-ukuvimbela ucansi, kodwa ukukhathazeka ngokomzwelo nangokomzwelo. Ngokuvamile abesifazane bahlushwa ukuthi banesizungu, ikakhulukazi labo abancike emibonweni yomunye umuntu. Abakwazi ukuhlala bodwa uma beshiywa, ngakho bacasuka, balindele umuntu omusha.
Inkolelo yenombolo 2: ngaphandle kobulili ukhula kancane
Abaningi bakhathazekile, becabanga ukuthi ngaphandle komthandi, imvelo ngeke ibe nemali edingekayo yokusebenza ngokomzimba futhi isisindo esinamaqhwa siyozuza masentimitha engeziwe ngokushesha. Lona umbono ongalungile, iqiniso lokuthi ama-centimeters wokugcina awaveli eqinisweni lokuthi akukho ocansi, kodwa ngenxa yokuthi iningi labesifazane linamathele ekubambeni, amaswidi namaqebelengwane.
Ukuthi ubulili bungasiza ekulahlekelweni kwesisindo nokugcina ifomu - eqinisweni, ukukhohlisa kwamantombazane amaningi. Esimweni esihle kakhulu, owesifazane ngesenzo esisodwa socansi nge-orgasm kanye ne-preludes angalahlekelwa ngamakholori angu-120 nje kuphela, futhi lokhu kungowesine ingxenye yengxenye yekholethi. Ngakho ungalindeli ukuthi ucansi luzokusiza ukuthi ushise amafutha, ukuzivocavoca kangcono.
Inganekwane # 3: "izifo" zezinsizwa zokuzilahla ngokocansi
Ngokuqinisekile wena ovela kubangani bakho uzwe inkulumo enjalo "empilweni oyidingayo ukuthi ulale ucansi." Ngesizathu esithile, abantu bafuna ukukholelwa kulo, futhi lokhu sekuvele kulandelana kwezinto. Uma kungekho lothandi, khona-ke wonke umuntu uthi kuyadingeka ukuyithola futhi ngokushesha, kungcono, ukuze angatholi lesi sifo "ngengxenyekazi." Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi uma beqala ukuya ocansini, kuyadingeka ukuba balondoloze njalo futhi akufanele baphazamise.
Yiqiniso, ngokulala ngokocansi ukujikelezwa kwegazi kwezitho zomzimba kungcono, kodwa ngenxa yalokhu ngeke usindiswe ezifo zesifo somzimba. Uma owesifazane ejabule igazi kuthululwa ngaphakathi, futhi ngemva kokuthola i-orgasm, ubuyela emuva. Uma injabulo ingatholakali, khona-ke igazi lihamba ngobunzima, ngenxa yalokho, izenzakalo eziqhubekayo zingavela.
Ngakho-ke, abesifazane abakhululekile nabashadile bangabhekana nezifo "zesifazane".
Ikhwalithi - yilokho okubalulekile
Ebudlelwaneni bobulili, ubuningi abubalulekile, kepha ikhwalithi. Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ubulili obuhle buyatholakala ngumuntu ongenandaba nawe futhi othandekayo ngempela. Uma unquma ukuya ocansini nomlingani ongathandeki, khona-ke ulungele ukuthi ungahlala ngaphandle kokuzijabulisa, ngakho uma kungekho isifiso esinamandla, ungadli ubudlelwane obungavamile.
Owesifazane, eqinisweni, ubulili abubalulekile kwezocansi, uthando nokusekelwa. Ngalokho-ke, uma empilweni yakho sekufikile intukuthelo encane, ungabheki owokuqala nje. Sebenzisa isikhathi sakho se-nato, esingakaze sanele, kodwa sasifuna njalo: funda ulimi, uhambo oluya kwamanye amazwe, ubhalisele izifundo. Futhi ukuphila okuthandana nothando ngeke kukudlulele!