Ukukhetha igama lentombazane

Indlela yokubiza indodakazi ngumbuzo olukhuni kakhulu, ngoba wonke umuntu unamagama ayintandokazi namnandi kumntombazane. Ngaphambi kokuzalwa kwentombazane, abazali bakhumbula inkumbulo ngamagama angavamile noma adumile. Kukholelwa ukuthi leli gama lishiya impendulo ekugcineni kwentombazane. Kukhona ukukhethwa okukhulu kwamagama wesifazane, kodwa kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi igama liwukuphela kokuqala, okunye kuxhomeke ekusekeleni kwakho nokusekela ingane yakho, kuxhomeke ekukhuliseni nasekuthandeni kwabazali.

Ungakhetha kanjani igama lentombazane?

Inqubo yokukhetha igama lamantombazane ingabangela izingxabano zasekhaya. Kulezi zingxabano, izihlobo zihlanganyela, zivikela izikhundla zazo, zinikeza iseluleko. Esimweni esinjalo, indlela efanele yokuphuma kuyoba ngabazali ngokwabo ukubiza indodakazi yabo. Futhi ngaphambi kokubhalisa intombazane ingabizi igama elikhethiwe. Futhi kuyo yonke imibuzo mayelana negama lenye igama noma igama elidumile kulo nyaka. Lokhu kuzophazamisa izihlobo futhi kubanike imibono yokuzindla. Ngaphambi kokubiza igama lakho indodakazi yakho, cabanga ukuthi izohlanganiswa kanjani ne-patronymic yakho nesibongo. Ungagcini igama elivamile futhi elilula. Bambalwa abantu abangayithanda uma uKathati noNatasha abayisithupha befunda ekilasini? Kweminye imindeni, kunezinkolelo zokubiza amantombazane emva kwezihlobo kanye nogogo. Lapha udinga ukuqaphela. Akumangalisi ukuthi leli ntombazane lizophinda liphindiselele lesi sihlobo, ngemuva kwalowo owaqanjwa ngamagama.

Abanye abazali, ukuze indodakazi yabo ivumelane nomkhuba wesimanje futhi yayinesitayela, khetha amagama athandwayo. Awudingi ukusungula amagama angavamile futhi angavamile amantombazane. Akuwona wonke umuntu ongakhetha amagama amantombazane. Ngaphambi kwalokho, thola incazelo yegama elikhethiwe lentombazane, ukuthi lisho ukuthini. Abanye bayeluleka ukukhetha amagama ngenyanga, igama kufanele lifanane nesikhathi sonyaka lapho intombazane yazalwa khona. Ukuze amantombazane azalwe ebusika, udinga ukunikeza amagama abumnene naphansi. Futhi amantombazane azalwa entwasahlobo, kufanele abe negama elinzima. Amantombazane asehlobo adinga ukukhetha igama elizofanisa nobunikazi babo, la ma ntombazane avame ukusebenza, aqhoshayo, aphikelela. Amantombazane ase-autumn anomlingani olinganiselayo, ingqondo yabo icacile, bayathanda ukuhlola yonke into ngokwabo, abangenakuqonda futhi abanengqondo ngokuphila.

Abanye banikeza ingane yabo igama elihlukanisayo bese kuvela uKirs, Carolina, Bozhena. Kunzima ukubikezela ukuthi yiluphi uhlobo lomlingiswa intombazane eyoluthola, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi angagqoka ngokuzethemba futhi agqoke ngokuphepha igama elingelona elingajwayelekile futhi elivamile.

Uma ungathola igama elihle ukuze liwenze elihlukile, yisho intombazane yakho ngalelo gama, kodwa akufanele lisika izindlebe. Uma kungenjalo, intombazane enegama lelo izobe iphumelele esikoleni izikhathi eziningi ezingathandeki. Noma ngokunikeza intombazane igama ngenhlonipho yomuntu, mhlawumbe kufanele uthole indawo esikhundleni sakhe, isibonelo, ngokuhlonipha uPelagia, kubiza intombazane uPolina.