Indoda ingumama wendlu.
Amanye amadoda ajabule kakhulu ngesimo lapho umkakho athola imali eyengeziwe. Abafuni ukushintsha noma yini, bayakhululekile futhi bakhululekile. Uma owesifazane enelisekile ngesimo somama womyeni wakhe, khona-ke umndeni uzoba nokuvumelana nokuqonda okufanayo. Ngokuvamile, lesi simo siqala embhangqwaneni lapho owesifazane enamandla futhi esebenzayo, futhi umyeni akahambelani. Ngemva kokuzikhokhela ngemisebenzi yasekhaya, umfazi uzokhomba kumyeni wakhe ngokuhluleka kwakhe futhi akakwazi ukufeza imisebenzi yakhe. Kufanele kube nokuhlukana okucacile komsebenzi: umfazi uthola imali, umyeni unikeza induduzo nenduduzo endlini.
Ukubandakanya ukugcinwa endlini kwabesilisa abaningi kuyimisebenzi evamile futhi evumelekile. Indlela othandekayo wakho achitha ngayo isikhathi esiningi emsebenzini, kodwa uhlangana naye njalo kusihlwa, uzokunikela ngesidlo sakusihlwa. Into eyinhloko kokubili ukuqonda ukuthi lokhu kuhlukaniswa kwemisebenzi yesikhwama kokubili. Ungasho ukuthi ungumthombo wemali yomndeni, kodwa umyeni wakho akenzi lutho. Khumbula ukuthi ngemuva okunamandla kunomthelela ekwakhiweni okuphumelelayo komsebenzi.
Ukuphikisana emndenini.
Indoda iphikisana nomkakhe, ezama ukufakazela ukuthi ngubani oyinhloko yomndeni nokuthi ubanikeza umndeni. Njengomthetho, emindenini enjalo abantu abakuboni okuningi, futhi lapho bebonke, baqala ukuthola ukuthi ngubani oyinhloko yomndeni. Kuyoze kube nini "umzabalazo onjalo" ongaziwa. Vumelani nale ntuthuko yezingane nekhaya, ngoba akekho oshadile abafuni ukwenza imisebenzi yasekhaya. Wonke amandla aya ekuthweni kwemali.
Kungenzeka njalo ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kule simo. Ukwahlukanisa noma ususe indima yomuntu wesondlo. Umndeni awuyona inkundla yempi kanye nebala lokudlala, lapho wonke umuntu efakazela ukuthi uyona ongcono kakhulu. Lona akuyona indawo yokuwina futhi wamukele umklomelo kanye nemali yegolide "yokubekezela." Khumbula ukuthi konke kwaqala kanjani. Imiphi imizwa nemizwelo owawunayo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane. Khumbula ukuthi ungumuntu wesifazane obuthakathaka futhi ulindele izingane ekhaya ezingenakwanele nokunakekelwa okwanele. Bonisa umyeni wakho ukuthi uyaziqhenya ngempumelelo yakhe, ukusekela zonke izenzo zakhe, futhi uzokuphendula ngothando nangothando.
Indoda ayitholi imodeli enjalo yomndeni.
Umyeni wakho wakhulela emndenini lapho uyise ehola imali engenayo? Khona-ke, cishe, uma umndeni wakho unesimo umfazi othola imali eyengeziwe. Lindela ukusabela okungalungile kwalowo muntu. Uzoqala ukucindezela lo wesifazane, ezama ukukhombisa ukuthi ubani oyinkosi yendlu. Ikhono lomfazi lokuthola imali liyocasula abantu, bangela umhawu. Isifiso sokugcina konke okulawulwayo ngokuqinisekile siyobangela izingxabano kanye namahlazo.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuphuma kulokhu kuzoba ukuyeka umsebenzi wokusiza umndeni. Noma kuzodingeka ube yidiplomate elibuthakathaka. Lapho ubuya emsebenzini, gwema isithombe "somphathi omkhulu". Kuzo zonke izindlela kungenzeka ubonise umyeni wakho ukuthi nguye oyinhloko emndenini wakho. Buza iseluleko sakhe ngokuthenga okunye noma okunye mayelana nokufundisa izingane zakho. Chaza kumyeni wakho ukuthi umsebenzi wakho ubalulekile kuwe, kodwa ngeke ukwazi ukufinyelela eziqongweni ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza, ukusekela kanye nezeluleko ezihlakaniphile.
Ideal.
Lo muntu uhlanganyela ngempumelelo yomkayo, uyamsekela futhi uyayiqonda, uyajabula ngokukhuthazwa. Lesi simodelo sokuziphatha sitholakale kuphela kumadoda azizethemba. Njengomthetho, emindenini enjalo, imisebenzi yasekhaya ihlukaniswe ngokulinganayo. Ungaphumuli ngokwakho ukuzimela. Kubalulekile ukuvumela umyeni wakho ukuthi uyaziqhenya ngempumelelo yakhe futhi ahloniphe umsebenzi wakhe.
Uma uhola okungaphezulu kunomyeni wakho, kodwa ayikho enye yezinketho ezingenhla ezifanele isimo sakho. Sebenzisa amathiphu jikelele ukuletha ubudlelwane bomndeni wakho ngokuvumelana.
Xhumana nomyeni wakho mayelana nezindaba zakho, ngokufunda izingane, ngokuthenga into enkulu, mayelana nemicimbi yomndeni ejwayelekile. Mtshele ukuthi ubalulekile ekusekeleni kwakhe, umbono wakhe kanye nokubamba iqhaza.
Hlukanisa indima yomfazi kanye "nomphathi omkhulu". Ungalayi ekhaya. Vumela umyeni wakho abe yinto esemqoka.
Gubha impumelelo yomyeni wakhe. Yisho ukuthi uyaziqhenya ngaye.
Misa ngisho ncanyana ngokwakho. Vumela umyeni wakho akunakekele, abe "udonga lwamatshe" kuwe.
Akunabo osebenza nabo noma abaqashi emndenini, kukhona indoda nowesifazane phakathi kwabo okumele kube khona uthando nokuqonda kanye nokuhlonipha