Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi indoda ayiyazi ukuthi lokhu ngezinye izikhathi i-drama ehlelwe kahle. Ngaleso sikhathi lapho kuphakama umbuzo, ngubani owenza ukuthi ubani.
Ngakho-ke, ukuqonda kwamabhinqa kusebenza kanjani futhi kusho ukuthini? Izazi zengqondo zikholelwa ukuthi lokhu kuyindlela yokwenza izinto ezakhiwe phezu kwamakhulu eminyaka abesifazane. Futhi, ngenxa yemvelo, kodwa ukuziphendukela kwemvelo, noma ngamazwi alula, ngenxa yokuhlala namadoda emphakathini wabantu. Futhi ngenxa yalendlela, owesifazane akakwazi ukuphela kuphela ezweni elibi lamadoda, kodwa azivumelanise nakho, futhi avame ukunqoba phezu kwabo. Kanjani? Konke kulula: kuyaphazamisa, ngakho-ke indoda yokuqala izothula ngokumangala, bese uthintwa, bese ulahlekelwa ngokuphelele. Futhi konke, ukulungele, ungakwazi okungenani uthathe ngezandla zakho! Noma cha, akudingekile ukuthatha, ngoba ngokushesha uzofika ngokwakhe, alethe konke okudingekayo, futhi enze konke okudingekayo. Yebo, futhi ngiyabonga.
Ngendlela, i-logic yabesifazane iyinqobo yesayensi ehlala isikhathi eside. Emsebenzini kaVN Bashkirov, ozobhapathizwa isayensi yezinto eziphilayo ze-Institute of Gene Biology we-Academy of Sciences yaseRussia, "Ezikhathini zezinhlayiyana zezici zesimo sezinsikazi", kubonakala sengathi kukhona ukungqubuzana kwemibono "jikelele". Ngokusho kwakhe, lo logic wesifazane ikhona ngezinga eliphezulu ematfuba. Isibonelo, ku-logic yesifazane, uphawu oluqondakalayo "YEBO" ngamathuba okuba ngu-0.5 lungasho ukuthi "YEBO-1", okungukuthi isitatimende, kahle, ngenani elifanayo lingasho "YESU-2", okungukuthi, ukuphika. Okufanayo kungashiwo ukuthi uphawu "CHA". Uma kuhunyushwa ngolimi oluthandwayo, kusho ukuthi uma owesifazane ethi akafuni ukudla ikhekhe, lokhu kungasho ukuthi ulambile ukuzwa ukuthi i-muffin esiphundu idilika ngolimi lwakhe. Kodwa, emva kokudla kwakhe okusha sekuphelile. Ukuhluleka kokuhluleka kungabaningi.
"Ukucabanga komama," okuthakazelisayo, okungenamahloni, ngezinye izikhathi eziphukuphuku empeleni kufihla ukubala okubucayi. Phela, owesifazane angakwazi ukuthola konke okusemandleni akhe ukuze aguqule isimo ukuze aqiniseke wonke amaphesenti angu-200 kumphumela omuhle. Yebo, njengoba bethi, wonke umuntu ugcwele futhi ujabule. Ukuzihlonipha kwalowo muntu akuzange kuthinteke, kodwa ngokuphambene nalokho, kwakhula kakhulu, ngoba uyiqhawe, superman. Futhi umkakhe ungumhumushi oyisiphukuphuku futhi ongenamahloni, umhlengikazi, i-accountant, njll, (uhlu luhlala luvulekile). Nge-ego konke kulungile, kunelisekile ngokuphelele. Futhi bobabili amadoda nabesifazane.
Ngokuvamile, owesifazane onesimo sokuziphatha esingesilisa (okungenakudideka nokubonakala), ukucabanga ngokugcwele njengendoda, ukwenza iziphetho zakhe, ukuthatha ikhono lakhe lokuxoxisana, kufanele nje enze imizamo ephakeme, uma kuqhathaniswa nendoda esesimweni esinjalo, ukufeza lokho okufunayo. Yini esingayisho ngowesifazane onomkhuba wokuziphatha wesifazane ojwayelekile? Ubufazi, ngokwemvelo, kuyinto ewusizo. Kodwa lona wesifazane akudingeki athathe abalalayo emahlombe akhe uma eduze kwakhe kungumuntu onamandla kakhulu kuzo zonke izici, ngakho-ke nesibindi, ngisho nangemisipha ephazamisekile. Futhi ungahlala ubuza ngokungazi, yini igama laleli muscle? O, "i-triceps"! Kulungile? Futhi futhi ubuza unobtrusively, kunzima kuye. Ungakhohlwa ekupheleni ukubonga futhi uthi izincomo ezimbalwa ekuhlukaneni.